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aliljaded 53F
23945 posts
5/16/2019 11:34 pm
"Why I choose to be kinky" Lillie's Blog Challenge.

I, for one, don't believe it was ever really a choice for me. I was naturally this way for as long as I can remember. My very first experience with this lifestyle was with a man twenty years my senior. He was very Dominant and I was naturally very submissive when I was with him. It's also when I discovered my masochistic side. That relationship ended abruptly and I found myself chasing the high I felt in that relationship for years. No one came close to him until about twenty years later. I fell in love with my best friend who happened to be a Dominant. He would take me on a Kink ride of my life for the next fifteen years. We lived the lifestyle daily. I believe I was born with this kink in my genes. It was never a choice. Thank you again for another interesting topic. Please excuse the terrible edit, as I was on my phone early this morning when I first posted this.

Regards~
~M


"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


aliljaded 53F
8847 posts
5/17/2019 11:56 am

    Quoting  :

I see your points. I believe that I could not have survived in a vanilla relationship moving forward. This really isn't about "KINK" for me. For the right Man, I feel TPE and it works like a fine-tuned engine. The Kink is just the icing on the cake.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


drmgirl622 68F  
25880 posts
5/17/2019 9:37 am

Being kinky is who you are.....the thing is when do you choose to acknowledge and accept it.


aliljaded 53F
8847 posts
5/17/2019 9:17 am

I’ve been fussing with this post all day... There’s something wrong with the edit tool in my phone

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7019 posts
5/17/2019 7:23 am

Glad you found your dream twice, M. I'm surprised to see you put the most recent iteration of it in the past tense. I thought you were still living the lifestyle with your best friend. Guess I'm just slow.


jenny14 75T  
90121 posts
5/17/2019 6:24 am

ali

Happy Friday to you too

I agree! I think we are born the way we are....


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


Gowron 69M
3089 posts
5/17/2019 5:48 am

I was already kinky at 8. I believe I was born that way.


aliljaded 53F
8847 posts
5/16/2019 11:48 pm

Happy Friday.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”



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