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Generally Speaking..... Generally speaking, the submissive girl has greater needs. She needs to be touched more. Talked to more. Greater attention needs to be paid to her, especially if there are rules and guidelines outside the bedroom. She needs to know that her actions matter, that the time and effort she’s putting into pleasing you actually please you. You need to check-in, touch base, reassure; be diligent with your upkeep and follow-through. If you’re not if she feels you don’t care if your directives are empty… the dynamic will die. And if the dynamic dies the submissive girl is gone. ~subgirlygirl  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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Tasty as advertised I wonder?
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All of this is so very TRUE once nurtured and shown in many ways that her effort pleased and does not go in noticed or rewarded then she blossoms even more
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Layers within layers and wheels within wheels. I read somewhere ,more than once actually, that sometimes saying i love you can be a meal on the table when you get home late or the laundry done etc etc. You've seen that one - it's been around a long time. And in our busy modern world - there is a truth in it. There is also a truth in this here, I feel the rightness of it. What I don't know is how to balance those two truths. Sometimes I wish there was like a great big book of how to do all that needs doing and be all things to all people and the other 101 things I regularly seem to cock up. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Layers within layers and wheels within wheels. I read somewhere ,more than once actually, that sometimes saying i love you can be a meal on the table when you get home late or the laundry done etc etc. You've seen that one - it's been around a long time. And in our busy modern world - there is a truth in it. There is also a truth in this here, I feel the rightness of it. What I don't know is how to balance those two truths. Sometimes I wish there was like a great big book of how to do all that needs doing and be all things to all people and the other 101 things I regularly seem to cock up.
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Needs it bad
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10/15/2019 5:29 pm |
D/s isn't a much about taking and yielding . . It's more about nurturing . . You get what you sow!
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10/15/2019 4:46 pm |
Shame that some have a valuable gift and through neglect of indifference, let it fade away.
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Pretty accurate. 
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very well put indeed....
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You hit the nail on the head. Well spoken and very correct.
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Couldnt agree more i walked away from my Dom when he made me second all the time i gave and gave and he took and took but when i needed him he would leave me hanging so i left as even tho i am submissive i hit my breaking point.
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10/15/2019 3:28 pm |
I agree from my past and present experiences . Well put on your blog aliljaded
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This is good, and true in both D/s and vanilla relationships. The trick, in my experience, M, is for her to have greater needs without becoming clinging. It can become a constant need for reassurance that can be a self-defeating turnoff. Have you ever found something in your searches to tell you how to deal with that either as a submissive or a dominant? "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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This is good, and true in both D/s and vanilla relationships. The trick, in my experience, M, is for her to have greater needs without becoming clinging. It can become a constant need for reassurance that can be a self-defeating turnoff. Have you ever found something in your searches to tell you how to deal with that either as a submissive or a dominant?
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Bingo. A metaphor that may fit the photo is; The Train leaves the station.! "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Bingo. A metaphor that may fit the photo is; The Train leaves the station.! "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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Pretty accurate. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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