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jenny14 75T  
90121 posts
9/6/2017 3:15 pm

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he sounds like some-one best not met as you say...

I agree - first meeting should be "getting to know you"

A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


likesmatureones 55M

9/6/2017 4:04 pm

Totally agree with you on this one😎 Why would you sleep with someone you don't know


Giganotosawrus 53M

9/6/2017 4:07 pm

Sounds like basic survival skills.........Quoting Rachel Maddow: "The DUH is silent" lol.


Giganotosawrus 53M

9/6/2017 4:10 pm

unfortunately, somebody out there is bound to take the bait


Pauliepaul4u 66M

9/6/2017 11:33 pm

I would never meet someone on a first date anywhere other than a public place, not because I worry for myself but to allow the other person a sense of safety and the ability to make a getaway if they feel the need, it's never happened but I feel it's the responsible thing to do .
So on our first date you can feel safe .............on the second, well who knows


celtdragn 53F
283 posts
9/7/2017 7:27 am

Safety is always first and foremost. And always follow your gut feel. i know there are those rare occassions which caution is thrown to the wind, have fun, be safe. And if he cares enough about you he would understand your sense of caution. Logistics ARE part of the whole picture allowing trust and without trust there is nothing.


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
9/7/2017 8:32 am

In the pré condom era.... Yes i am that old!
it was safe to just fuck anybody you fancy, sort of.....

All you could get was Gonorroea or Syfilis ... you got a shot, you informed your last lover, done with it!

Nowadays it seems much more dangerous, and then i am not only talking about STD.... but also the mental state your date could be in.....

in a BDSM setting i would never ever have sex on a first date, because BDSM to me, has nothing to do with having sex.

Two totally different aspects of intimicy..... lust? trust? safety? controle? surrender?


kspan 65M

9/23/2017 3:50 am

I totally agree with you on this one and the first place any one can clam to be a Master what ever happen to proving to the submissive first that you are who you say you are.I think you was right doing what you did make them back up what they say to you any true master would not have a problem with doing that.

KURT


trident8720 58M  
87 posts
10/1/2017 11:04 pm

There is nothing wrong with this, and probably best for safety reasons.


sheilagurl 59T

10/22/2017 9:54 pm

Sex on the date depends on the energy of the individuals. If want to do it, do. If not, do not.



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