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ZZYZZYXXX 66M

3/8/2018 8:33 am

The art of reconciliation is the rebuilding of all that was torn down or knocked down. TRUST, COMMUNICATION and HONESTY. I feel, MY opinion, that those three elements or damaged! Maybe NOT to the point of not being repaired but, definitely damaged. Those a re the three keys to a stable, lasting and lasting relationship. NOT just in this LifeStyle, but also in the vanilla world.

So, ask yourself, ask him/her, are they repairable? Or, are they damaged beyond repair?


Raven_GB 63M
854 posts
3/8/2018 10:15 am

Of course it can work. If the differences are not fundamental to you (both) then compromise and tollerance is the way forward.


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
3/8/2018 1:27 pm

It sounds like that you are still emotionally very much attached. In my opinion to give a breakup a proper chance, or give an opportunity to clear one’s head, a no contact rule (I’ve imposed two weeks) is crucial as it’s so easy to lean on each other and forget about the things why the breakup happened, only for those issues to come back soon after.

Having said that if there was no fundamental differences/ arguments you could still try. Perhaps you could still give each other a bit of space to each other for both to think what should change as opposed to just be drawn back in desperation (and perhaps therefore forgetting to ‘deal’ with issues and come up with solutions).

Good luck xx



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