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QueenSassy1 57F  
15 posts
1/30/2019 7:45 am
Bondage


Bondage is about taking control if you are a dominant and losing control or letting go of control if you are a submissive (slave). Bondage can be an important part of slave training or BDSM scene . I t can render a feeling of helplessness to the tied slave . It is a huge turn on for many to have the feeling of helplessness and knowing the other party can do as they will to their body. For some, it is an emotional release that is very calming and restful while some struggle against the binding to feel the loss of control. It is every individualized reaction depending of the slave in bondage. Bondage is a very useful tool that a Master should learn.

It is not necessary to learn the complicated and time-consuming Japanese rope bondage techniques to do a competent job of restricting your slave. Japanese rope bondage often takes hours because it is a process of building on layer after layer of ropes. Good results can often be achieved with a basic knowledge of ropes, a few knots, safety precautions and a good imagination. So practice the basics.

Also, good general bondage can be done with the use of leather wrist and ankle cuffs. It’s much quicker and can be just as secure as ropes. It also takes less skill and is safer for beginners.

Bondage can be used for erotic stimulation, punishment, discipline training, or humiliation. It provides a real life example to the slave of her Master’s ownership of her body, time and space. She is completely at his mercy while bound and remains so until he decides to release her.

Bondage for restraint:
Bondage for pleasure and discipline training. Generally, this type of bondage should be very restrictive in nature. The less movement available to the slave, the better. This allows her to drift of into a subspace or relax into the control.

Predicament bondage:
Predicament bondage is another name for bondage that places the slave in a difficult, unpleasant, or embarrassing situation. It is unusually more than a hogtie, or tying to the bed. It usually involved something added like riding a or a weighted rope pressed against the clit. Pain is often involved but does not necessarily mean it is for punishment. It may be used to push or expand limits.

Bondage for Punishment:
Bondage, used for slave punishment, should be tied less restrictive allowing for some wiggling around, but at the same time, tied in a way that does not allow for escape. The slave can be bound in a position that becomes increasingly more uncomfortable the longer she remains in bondage. You don’t want her drifting off into subspace and enjoying the experience. Also, boredom is a useful element to incorporate into this type of bondage. Simple examples are:

1) Tying a slave to a pole or beam while standing and leaving her legs untied and not blindfolded her. It provides a very limited means of movement but will get very uncomfortable over time. Not having a blindfold will also make it harder for her to drift off into her thoughts and ignore the punishment. Time is an important element of this punishment.

2) Putting her on her knees and tying her hands above her head with her ankles tied to her waist is very effective. This does not allow the slave to stand, but she can still move some. Being bound, bored, alone and uncomfortable is a good teaching tool. This type of bondage also becomes painful over time.


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