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EricaLScott 89F  
93 posts
9/5/2019 2:03 pm
Why 84?

I'm sure there are some who wonder why I list myself as 84 years old. That is definitely not my real age. Well, I had to put something. There isn't an option for "None of your fucking business."

So why lie about my age and make myself older?? Because I can't bring myself to lie about being younger. And I'm damned if I'm going to put my real age down. Because if I did, a whole lot of people wouldn't look past that number. "Ugh! That's too old!" and poof, off they go to the next profile. Without really looking at me or reading anything about me.

Whether you want to admit it or not, we live in an ageist society. Especially when it comes to women. Youth is worshiped. There are double standards galore. If an older man goes for pretty , he's a stud. A silver fox. A Daddy type. Older women liking younger men? We're MILFs and cougars. Great, I'm either a mom or a man-eating predatory beast. I assure you, I am neither.

Compliments take on an appendage once a woman reaches a certain age. When you're young and attractive, people say you look good. Period. Once you hit 40, they start tacking on "... for your age." Newsflash, y'all. Any compliment that ends with "for your age" is NOT a compliment. At best, it's a backhanded compliment. And the only place where I want to be backhanded is on my butt, not my ego.

People are allowed to have age preferences; I get it. I have them as well. Most of them are not because of the number, but because a lot of people my age, frankly, don't take care of themselves. (Actually, a lot of younger people don't either, but I digress.) I work hard to keep fit and trim and I am a youthful being. I've never been married, never had , so I guess a part of me stayed in my 20s and always will be. As I say on my profile, the men I'm drawn to don't have to be vegans built like Adonis, but since I take care of myself, I prefer they do too.

I've been dealing with this age crap for years, . Quite some time ago, it was before a national spanking party, and on their message board, a guy had introduced himself, saying he was coming to his first party. He wrote, "I am looking forward to meeting people in their 20s and 30s." Really? He had to make a point of specifying the age range? I made a note of his name, as it was unusual.

Cut to the party. In a crowded room, I see this guy hovering around me in my peripheral vision. Then one of my friends says, "Erica, have you met Xxxxx?" Aha... the age-specifying . I shook his hand and said, "Ah... aren't you the one who posted on the message board that you were looking forward to meeting people in their 20s and 30s?" He nodded, beaming. I beamed a sweet smile right back at him and said, "Aw, that's too bad. I'm 45." And I turned my back and started talking to someone else.

Yeah, I'm a b*tch. But I bet he thought twice before writing anything like that again.

So, 84 I will remain on here. What's my real age? Sorry -- I'll tell you after we talk a bit and we meet in person. Until then, here's a picture from last month, nice vanilla head shot. You can guess for yourselves.

(Wow... I'm going to be 85 in a couple of weeks. I really am getting up there.)


jenny14 75T  
90121 posts
9/5/2019 6:40 pm

Erica

I agree! You look terrific!

I think this is a GREAT post!

I have stated my real age! I don't remember your Profile but I prefer people closer to me in age ! I just cannot relate to some-one in their 20's or 30's!!


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


Subxx22Dan4Demi 68M

9/5/2019 9:33 pm

Age, race, gender become meaningless at a certain point.....I am well beyond that point. The only way you will see the back of my hand is if you insist and your bottom is bare. Have fun where ever you find it.


EricaLScott replies on 9/5/2019 10:38 pm:
I will try. I don't think anything should be meaningless at any point; preferences are preferences, and people want what they want. I can't fight it... so I just work around it.

knott4milfs 30M

9/5/2019 11:48 pm

hi you looking to meet and get knotted let me know if your interested i have a trained pet


EricaLScott replies on 9/5/2019 11:55 pm:
Buzz off, Junior.

Mdingo12 51M
12 posts
9/6/2019 4:20 am

beautiful smile


EricaLScott replies on 9/6/2019 9:13 am:
Thank you. ♥

DancingDom 74M
22475 posts
9/9/2019 6:26 pm

Well written. Welcome to the blogs. Best to you. BTW, love the smile and the mischievous eyes.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


EricaLScott replies on 9/9/2019 6:59 pm:
Thank you so much!

billybob3693 60M
36 posts
9/15/2019 11:00 pm

All I can say is your a very sensual lady with a great smile !!


EricaLScott replies on 9/16/2019 10:18 am:
Thank you very much.

kalbi1231 70M

9/26/2019 9:45 am

Really? I didn't think ageism was a show stopper, at least nowadays. Women no matter what their birth date can and do attract all males (and females).


EricaLScott replies on 9/26/2019 10:18 am:
I like the way you think, and I think it depends on where you live, too and what kind of culture you were raised in. But overall -- yeah. We live in a society that worships youth. Or at least looking youthful.

ValS2012 63F
85 posts
9/28/2019 10:28 pm

All this old bitch can say is...very nice!
Its how you feel and how people make you feel.
You look wonderful!
Val xx


EricaLScott replies on 9/29/2019 4:02 pm:
LOL -- hey, "old bitch," I'm older than you! Thanks.

ValS2012 63F
85 posts
10/2/2019 10:05 am

lol. age is just a number
like many things that boast a number
its what you do with that number that matters most lol


EricaLScott replies on 10/2/2019 10:48 am:
(snicker)

Tbill1 58M
1795 posts
8/31/2021 9:54 am

84 is what got me to click on your blog, glad I did.. I too want to be spanked. Maybe I will be 84 before it happens... Your pics are nice, thanks for sharing.

andy



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