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infinitepoetess 54F
6427 posts
6/24/2020 6:33 pm
The Dynamics of BDSM

When you think of "dynamic" within BDSM, what does that mean to you?
The role of Dominant and Submissive to be defined is all that is needed.
Witty banter that results in laughter and play or better defined roles
Dynamic? WTH! Do I have to remember that too?
Everything that transpires between a Dominant and submissive is dynamic


infinitepoetess 54F
3499 posts
6/24/2020 6:34 pm

I'll take option #2 because I'm a brat


ARomanticSadist 54M
1298 posts
6/24/2020 7:01 pm

I wish you had made it multiple choice, because mixing laughter with pain, is a great balance.

I picked the fourth, but the second was tied with it, so I flipped a coin.


SOUTHSOUNDSIR 27M
60 posts
6/24/2020 11:46 pm

I love a quiz like this, that defends my feelings and endorses my beliefs!


jenny14 75T  
90125 posts
6/25/2020 1:04 am

poetess

I too agree that everything that happens is part of the dynamic and should be subject to review....


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


_hazine_ 43F  
79 posts
6/25/2020 4:30 am

Master said this one time I can be a brat, too because your answer made us laugh.

* Gorean ideals are like Total Power Exchanges. He is master and I am slave. *


rosaenaluin 65F
10841 posts
6/25/2020 5:52 am

Hmm, i think it is about all the rules, energy exchange, power/authority Transfer between en Dominant/Master and his slave.
Sure, having fun, teasing and all other human behaviour can be all part of that Dynamic.


drmgirl622 68F  
25890 posts
6/25/2020 7:12 am

I had to pick #4...….each relationship is different and the dynamic changes accordingly.


maletramp 64M
2092 posts
6/25/2020 11:16 am

The dynamic has always been so personal to me and the particular relationship I'm in, that I don't think I have ever duplicated it with another. Perhaps the only reliable observation I've made is that the more precise the role is "laid out" the less you are able to reveal your full character, which might be exactly what the other person is hoping for.


slaveRam4MsM 42M
177 posts
6/26/2020 3:49 am

I was select 4... I met few good people .. they teach me and play with me...


slaveforyou365 63M  
4488 posts
6/26/2020 5:39 pm



Slave rick


Wicked_Tongue 61M
690 posts
6/27/2020 4:33 am

Good question, Poetess.

Everything, everything, EVERYTHING!


thesharingddad 54M

7/22/2020 9:54 am

Everything that transpires within all personal relationships is a "dynamic"


infinitepoetess 54F
3499 posts
7/23/2020 3:07 pm

    Quoting thesharingddad:
    Everything that transpires within all personal relationships is a "dynamic"
yes and there is what is known as "dynamic" playing out within a BDSM relationship...



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