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BEEFARAMA2 48M
101 posts
1/22/2020 5:38 pm

Watch Rocco then hit me up/


msfunfor 63M
10618 posts
1/22/2020 6:43 pm

hello ,
hope you find what you need .

wrong coast for us......

be good
M

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DancingDom 74M
22476 posts
1/22/2020 7:00 pm

Welcome to the blogs and BDSM. Be patient, learn all you can before you get into any sort of relationship. Learn all you can about safety. Don't tell everything about yourself. Let the potential partners tell you what they are about. Otherwise, if you tell them, the game players/users will parrot back what you want to hear.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


lighthouse4297 56F
1680 posts
1/22/2020 7:40 pm

Please remember SSC.... Read, Research and learn all you can first. Best of luck. L


showmeloyalty 51M
1 post
1/22/2020 7:53 pm

Best wishes to you in your search.


alwaysassertive 63M

1/22/2020 8:21 pm

The answer to your question is yes. Try just being a normal person at first. Bdsm is a way of life, but it's not everything in a relationship. Think about having your cake with icing and not just the icing. Without the mental and emotional connection. The physical won't have any meaning.At least that's how it is for me. You had the right basic idea of what to do, but that was thrown out the window. Those guys you talked with probably had no idea was bdms was about either. I'm attracted to a woman's mind first. if she's intelligent and an artist. I will be interested in knowing her. Find a common interest with someone first. If you're not sure about something then it's the wrong thing to do...peace out..


SteffiMarie 50F

1/22/2020 11:54 pm

try a woman as your domme, just go for it the feeling exists be used by it


steelcager 61M
1996 posts
1/23/2020 12:18 am

Hello, welcome, you have met the scummiest of the lowest order.

As mentioned above, do some research, and follow some of the blogs by the submissive women here, they will guide you through this.

You must be able to trust someone before any BDSM sessions. That will take time, you can't be impulsive with this, it is a key step.


Gowron 69M
3089 posts
1/23/2020 3:54 am

Try and find a dominant that understands no two submissives are equal.

Each has his or her preferences and limits, to be thoroughly discussed before anything happens.


Plzrmeister 67M  
10153 posts
1/23/2020 5:08 am

I guess, I just had no idea what BSDM means. Guys telling me that they are going crap on me, wipe their dirty shoes on me, have sex with the daughters, I am too old to have...was different.

Do not mistake this sort of nonsense for BDSM.

No .... You've been hearing from the morons, imbeciles and rude & crude wannabes around here. They can be anything they want to be and say anything they want to say from behind a computer screen.

Yeah ... Let that sort of BS go in one ear and out the other. They live in some fantasy world and love to male it up as they go....

You've received some good advice above. I'd say the operative term is education about the lifestyle, in whatever form that might take.

You'll soon be able to recognize the fantasy boys from people who actually have a clue....

Continue to blog and to read the blogs ..... You'll get a good feel for reality in short order.

Make Women Female Again


wifeabuser67 57M
10 posts
1/23/2020 3:47 pm

dom light is 50 shades (Mummy Porn), your body craves the real thing


brianwilliamstv 67T
56 posts
1/24/2020 5:23 am

be careful
do research and get to know them - if they want to rush forget them
NEVER give out personal details until you are sure you trust them
first conversations by public phone
first meet vanilla in a public place
make a note of what they say - if in posts they say they live in Florida and then start talking about New York or London walk away you cant trust them
take it gently and for a first meet leave a record of who you spoke to and where you are meeting (just in case)
if the trust is there play gently at first be his MAID or serve his meals
get a feel for what they really are like and what they want and how closely they match what you think they are and what they say they are
make sure they are clean and healthy and can prove it
if any sex is likely insist on condoms being used
if the trust is there and you ant to slip into those handcuffs go for it girl

be safe, be healthy and be happy



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