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likesmatureones 55M
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3/16/2019 9:30 am
The spectrum of male sexuality...it's no longer a or b or c


We' ve all been with a woman,wife,gf that had a crush on a certain female celeb and thought " wow that would be hott to see play out in real life". Like your wife macking on jennifer aniston 😁

But noone really labels this crush..we don't run around labeling her bi or a lesbian...she is merely attracted to that one person.

The same goes with dudes...but we tend to hide our emotions for another guy...if we are bold enough we will label it as a " mancrush".. like we are mancrushing on a sports figure like tom brady.
Kinda funny how we hide desire in man friendly sports.

Male sexuality in my opinion is even on a longer spectrum than female sexuality.

Because men can participate in sexual activities with another male without any emotions or bondings being exchanged....the dude could just love sucking a penis for example.
I really doubt a woman could just being with another woman without some kinda connection or attraction

Which to me neither makes him gay or bi...just means he likes dick...
Much like your wife if hot for one female celeb.

So why worry about labeling yourself sexually?

Alot of people ask if they have a crush on someone of the same sex does this mean they are now bi/ gay...

I'd say no..

To me being bi means being hormonally,mentally,emotionally attracted to either sex...and no it doesnt mean equally..i could date a woman or man. I find both genders ( and yes im cool with those in transition..id have no problem dating various members of the lgbt? Community). I used " two" genders to mearily simplify this point.

Being gay to me means having feelings,emotions..being hormonally attracted to another male and wanting to be with him...bonding with him on a level beyond just sex.

I think alot of people get confused with certain desires or actions making them " gay"..
Or seeing an action as " gay"...like shoving a dildo up your ass

Obviously it doesn't...a lot of straight male subs will gladly ride a strap on or dick or suck a penis as a form of submission to a Domme.

What im trying to say is we need to stop labeling certain acts and instead look at it more in spectrum terms.

Male sexuality is more than just fucking a woman or man..

It really is about his pleasure and where it lands on the spectrum..

Which has little to do with what gender your interested in..it has little to do with labels...

And yeah there is a hugggggge difference between a dude that is just into sucking your dick and a gay guy that wants to be with you,date you,hang with you etc.

Just wanted to sorta clarify that...men operate on different levels of their sexuality

likesmatureones 55M

3/16/2019 9:31 am


likesmatureones 55M

3/16/2019 9:41 am

I just think alot of men/ couples are afaid of exploring their sexuality with a man because of the antiquated labels.

The label of being " gay" to some still carries the banner of being " weak", less of a male..

Which is ironic seeing through out history most strong men openly engaged in m2m. The soliders in many cultures ( greeks,romans,Japanese and even the dreaded nazi slept with each other)

Hopefully we can get past labels...sucking a dick doesn't turn you into a unicorn anymore than it makes you gay
It's a lil more complicated than that.


usafdisabledvet 67M

3/16/2019 12:38 pm

well said

Hey left nut, what right nut, who is this prick between us.


likesmatureones 55M

3/16/2019 1:40 pm

Thanks



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