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likesmatureones 55M
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6/23/2019 8:02 am
My dealings ( and mistakes)... with Dommes


I freely admit I've made plenty of mistakes with Domme..if not women in general.

The first biggie is alot of women list what they want...
Friendship
bud
Someone to go to the parties with
A sub
A relationship.

But Dommes and sub apparently read this differently.

I see she is looking for a good to be her sub,go to groups and parties, etc with the hopes it blossoms into something more than a bdsm relationship.

She flips it and is tired of ghosting sub...she wants the relationship first before they engage in any .

Her comfort level and pushing....now I'm not a needy or pushy sub.
But alot of times a Domme will have a comfort level scenewise..but wont pump the brakes on a sub. Won't tell him he is subconsciously pushing.
For example we talked about cock cages..she seemed to enjoy the topic. I assumed she actively wanted to explore this style of .
But in reality I think she was just getting aroused by the subject matter in general..she didn't want chastity but really enjoyed the power exchange between us. We talked about it for a long period of time and she even said she wanted to lock me in one after she returned from her vacation.
So my dumb ass buys a cock cage...and she gets mad.

I was thinking about 1 specific thing and she was multitasking. Seeing the whole experience of dominating a .

So i learned beyound the initial introduction of hey I'm leo..I see we have things in common..
Not to geek out over lifestyle things unless she broaches the topic.
Don't expect anything and just give her time and space..to breathe.
She will bring in whatever when she feels comfortable

likesmatureones 55M

6/23/2019 8:03 am


HW13KineticBlue 55M

6/23/2019 8:35 am

Lessons we subs (and Dommes) all must learn!

-Russ


cenlik2017 56M

6/23/2019 11:57 am

like your blog, with women as with any other subject sometimes they don't mean what they say in the sense we take it unfortunately. They would rather test the waters and see what happens I think which is normal I guess but being on these sites you would think you could have a better understanding of what a person really does want lol. I mean you don't have to be in public before you have a conversation about it like the good ole days! Well appreciated Thx!



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