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likesmatureones 55M
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7/8/2019 5:21 pm
How do you define gay? Esp a gay man..what comes to mind


I ask this question because I watch way too much youtube..

AND a production company called cut makes videos where random strangers off the street have to guess things like income,sexuality,whose a couple, whose is of legal age to drink, etc from a line up of people.

NOW this producer is very progressive and likes have a variety of the various sexual orientations and races represented..so that really is refreshing.
Plus its interesting see how people describe themselves..
I for one heard some of the terms but never met anyone who defined themselves that way.

So we cool..this is even a learning experience for me.

THEN I came upon the gay one ( well duh 99 percent of the episodes contain people that might be gay). This one was entitled..can gay men tell who is the gayest in the room.

I kidd you not...Mic drop momment. Huh?

I found it interesting that this producer buys into the stereotype that gay men are Frazier and Nile crane.
Real gay men apparently are feminine, don't watch sports, are excellent dressers, are into drag, insert any tired hollywood stereotype about gay men.

And this progressive director ate the stereotype up...with two snaps up.

I wondered how the fuck someone can be so opened minded to so many sexual orientations and fluxuations in gender identity
But be stuck assbackwards when it comes to gay men...it's like his idea of a gay man is someone in short shorts being sassy.

So i thought id ask..is this your experience with gay men?.

Personally im somewhere on the gay scale

But im not this stereotype ( not that it's wrong..but it doesn't define me)...I'm not effemine..I'm not sassy..I'm not a clothes , I'm not a drag queen, have no desire to wear your make up or your panties..so let's just chill. I don't see gay men as substitutes for women.
Nor do I wish to be a woman..
I enjoy ru Paul's drag race because it is good..not because it defines me...really its a good show and god bless those that like to go down this path.

Basically i could be any dudes best bud...I love four wheeling, fishing, hunting, beer, grilling on the back patio..
And yeah i love bacon. I luv dogs,cuddling.

I pump iron, I get greasy...when I fix shit..it stays fixed.
I'm into sports and really don't care about the style or cost of one's clothing... I'm a dude.

And yes I'm most likely to whipe my hands on someone's good towels..by mistake. I don't get why women have good towels if they aren't to be used. Jesus Christ.

So are we defining gay as being frazier...or is it really about being into guys. I find it odd that men want to be like women and get caught up in alot of that drama.

No offense to women . But yeah. Drama.

I just get along better with men...

So why the need to keep on with the stereotypical gay guy shit..

Your opinion... is it wrong to veer from the stereotypical sf gay s and actually admit there are gay men who don't see themselves like this?

It's not all about driving a prius...but omg if you are gonna buy a car buy a toyota..you'll thank me later
.or having a rainbow sticker or anti trump sticker on your car.

It's about avoiding stereotypes..and just being yourself

likesmatureones 55M

7/8/2019 5:24 pm


raxxess77 55M

7/8/2019 6:38 pm

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raxxess77 55M

7/8/2019 6:39 pm

You may be gay if you prefer the feel of a mans ass instead of a woman or you think all day about sucking cock and heading to the nearest truck-stop


raxxess77 55M

7/8/2019 6:43 pm

you are definitely Not-Gay if you prefer to fuck stuffed Bunnies while wearing panty-hose and singing show-tunes. You probably are Gay if you fuck other men wearing pantyhose or they fuck you and you're male. other than that..no worries. too much pressure to perform. I prefer stuffed bunnies. they're always ready and hopping.


raxxess77 55M

7/8/2019 6:44 pm

If you find yourself as the "Pivot 'Man' in a Circle-Jerk...You Might be Gay. Just sayin'


likesmatureones 55M

7/9/2019 4:49 am

Sorry this post wasnt about being gay or not..It was about defining a whole group of people in stereotypical fashion..

And certain companies that keep using this stereotype.

Modern family comes to mind...classic example of stereotyping two gay men and their gay friends.
Hell they even stereotyped the lesbian couples on the show



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