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Bdiddy4305 39M  
42 posts
2/27/2019 7:12 pm
IS ALT YOUR ONLY SITE FOR PERVING?

I occasionally talk to a few people on here and most of them are diversifying their
portfolio of perving out. I was just curious which ones people find better, much better, much much better or worse than Alt.com.

What I really mean is where you can meet up with people and actually hook up.

I only know a couple so feel free to add any write-ins in the comments section.

Keep on banging

buff
Adultfriendfinder
Fetlife
Plenty Of Fish
Match.com
OK Cupid
XMatch
Passion
iHookUp
Passion
OTHER


Tami_Lost 56T  
58 posts
2/27/2019 7:35 pm

I have been on Love Hurts and Match, but they didn't seem right for me. But, I'm not a fit young guy anymore. lol I did meet my late wife on Alt in 2003. We got married in Las Vegas both wearing black vinyl mini dresses! Fetlife seems to be a very user friendly place.


Bdiddy4305 replies on 2/28/2019 8:55 pm:
Great comment and story.

sub_nouveau 49F  
9885 posts
2/27/2019 10:03 pm

As a kinkster, I've had no problem finding partners here, and have been with My Sir for 2.5 years. Close friends (not kinksters) have had no problems finding hookups on AdultFriendFinder, and my ex-dom (sadist) has been successful finding newbies to train as subs on AdultFriendFinder.

Let's talk. It's how we learn about yesterday and comprehend today.


Bdiddy4305 replies on 2/28/2019 8:46 am:
Thanks for the input. Glad to hear things are working out well for you and your friends on these sites.

dragonfly_spirit 42F  
6632 posts
2/27/2019 10:23 pm

I'm not using any of these sites to "hook up"..... so I cant answer that but if you want to meet and get to know real life people I have enjoyed fet most for that..... why? Because they have lists of events and meet ups listed in whatever area your looking. That way you meet up in the real world with real people..... but perhaps if you are just looking to "hook up" and not actually have something real.... perhaps your seeking the wrong thing. But to each their own..... go continue to try to hook up it seems .... to .... be ... working out.... so well for you? Good luck!

dragonfly_spirit
We are each our own devil and we make this world our own hell. . . .


brandygirasol 49T  
3887 posts
2/28/2019 5:50 am

Well for myself the BEST has always been this site along with Love Hurts and connected offshoots= Trannydate & Passion .... Also I'm on fetlife but I rarely ever go there because to me its just a BIG waste of time PLUS once you are there you are trapped and can't remove your profile or videos from the site- I've tried and gave up!!!


steelcager 56M
950 posts
2/28/2019 6:03 am

I've only been looking online for 3 years...so far my scoresheet is as follows:

Alt 2 almosts
Fet 0 almosts
Collar 0 almosts
BDSMU 3 almosts

The results are somewhat discouraging as there is a population of 6.5 million people within 1 hour's drive. There is no better population base in Canada other than the area I live in.


rosaenaluin 60F  
2760 posts
2/28/2019 12:55 pm

As a Dutch woman, i use BDSMZAKEN, FET and this site.
I am not into hook ups, so i would not know.

All those sites are as bad or as good as any other one.
A whole lot of married men, wanting some pussy action.NSA.

I want a real in human connection, like wanting a dino.


Bdiddy4305 replies on 2/28/2019 8:52 pm:
Cool, I was unaware that FET was international. Thanks for the feedback.

VladVampireLord 45M  
14929 posts
3/1/2019 12:15 am

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They come to the party know what they got
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You can't escape the wrath of my heart...


kinkykat22 57F  
1 post
3/1/2019 7:53 am

As far as meeting people, I have had more luck on CollarSpace above all others. Second place is here on ALT and following in third place is Fetlife. But most of these are just friends.

Now as far as meeting in real life to those I met online....CollarSpace beats them all. ALT comes in a very strong second place. Yes, most are just friends. Sometimes distance just does not work.


Bdiddy4305 replies on 3/1/2019 11:31 am:
You don't work for CollarSpace do you? Thanks for the input.

opnmnds2fnd 39M
3 posts
3/1/2019 10:50 am

Well, voted Love Hurts because I have a profile there. I don't use these kinds of sites for "perving out". That might be unavoidable in searching for an adult, sex dating partner with similar kinks and fetishes. Not about fantasy, all about reality. These are meant to be adult dating sites, for meeting real people, not porn sites for perving out etc. Although people like to use these sites to carry out racially supremacist perceptions and propaganda that mirrors/floods porn site echo-chambers.


Sexy__Sub 54F  
41 posts
3/2/2019 6:52 pm

There are much better sites then alt...


SubBoyBeta 20M
1 post
3/3/2019 1:33 pm

I also go on collarspace


TieOrBeTied 44M
22 posts
3/3/2019 8:25 pm

    Quoting sub_nouveau:
    As a kinkster, I've had no problem finding partners here, and have been with My Sir for 2.5 years. Close friends (not kinksters) have had no problems finding hookups on AdultFriendFinder, and my ex-dom (sadist) has been successful finding newbies to train as subs on AdultFriendFinder.
I think this should say "As a WOMAN, I've had no problem finding partners here" )


sub_nouveau 49F  
9885 posts
3/3/2019 11:58 pm

    Quoting TieOrBeTied:
    I think this should say "As a WOMAN, I've had no problem finding partners here" )
Well... given the people I've partnered with here are males - they've had no problem finding a partner either. So, I'm going to stand by my original statement, thanks.

Let's talk. It's how we learn about yesterday and comprehend today.


brandygirasol 49T  
3887 posts
3/4/2019 11:36 am

    Quoting sub_nouveau:
    Well... given the people I've partnered with here are males - they've had no problem finding a partner either. So, I'm going to stand by my original statement, thanks.
Girlfriend your comeback is sooooooo EXQUISITE


TieOrBeTied 44M
22 posts
3/4/2019 10:54 pm

    Quoting sub_nouveau:
    Well... given the people I've partnered with here are males - they've had no problem finding a partner either. So, I'm going to stand by my original statement, thanks.
- A woman finds 100 male partners on Alt in 10 years
- Each of these 100 men finds one female partner in the same timeframe
- Gender equality rules


sub_nouveau 49F  
9885 posts
3/5/2019 1:40 am

    Quoting TieOrBeTied:
    - A woman finds 100 male partners on Alt in 10 years
    - Each of these 100 men finds one female partner in the same timeframe
    - Gender equality rules
Maybe that's your experience, but it's not the experiences of the partners I've had.

Let's talk. It's how we learn about yesterday and comprehend today.


TieOrBeTied 44M
22 posts
3/5/2019 2:20 am

    Quoting sub_nouveau:
    Maybe that's your experience, but it's not the experiences of the partners I've had.
No, my experience is 0.


9161003 62T  
46 posts
3/5/2019 6:19 pm

I like nifty.org for stories.


sub_nouveau 49F  
9885 posts
3/7/2019 12:47 pm

Yeah, perhaps a persistent negative attitude isn't an alluring quality.

Let's talk. It's how we learn about yesterday and comprehend today.


lavielascif 49T  
227 posts
3/8/2019 6:22 pm

i'm think the questions here is not "how", but "how many" - the most people experiencend with many sites or domains( multiple choice), i'm sure.


submanbxl 63M
123 posts
3/12/2019 2:26 am

i'm on a couple


usafdisabledvet 62M  
85 posts
3/15/2019 9:31 pm

well since I come here to blog and not to hook up then hook ups aren't important. But I've been off and on adultfriendfinder for about 10 years. 2nd time on alt. Have my blog on both. It is just a place that I can unwind and get things off my mind and that is all that is important to me. Do have a few friends that I have made and did have one hook-up on adultfriendfinder and a few opportunities had the weather been better. But I live in a place where most the action is 2 hours drive away in either direction. And the weather when you live at 7000 feet above sea level can be a factor.


usafdisabledvet 62M  
85 posts
3/15/2019 9:33 pm

there is a BDSM date line where they list their hangouts and at least half will list their cells. But from my experience in a week of being the fresh meat what you have is a site full of scammers so I wouldn't recommend it.



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