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About Me
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Posted:Oct 3, 2021 3:29 pm
Last Updated:Oct 7, 2021 10:37 am 645 Views
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In case anyone wants know a more about me and my experience in the lifestyle:
I've had very experience on the kinky side, limited being tied the bed a couple of times, I've fingered my ass a few times (a more regularly these days), put a vibrator up once, and I've been experimenting tying my cock and balls with shoelaces.
What I've figured out so far:
I LOVE being restrained; I would absolutely describe myself as a rope slut. The thought of being bound, helpless, and being used/played with however a woman wants absolutely exhilarates me, especially if I'm also blindfolded and gagged ('s a reason my handle is what is...).
Anal is an area I'd like explore more; I'm not at a point where I think I could handle pegging right now, but 's not something I wouldn't consider in the future, depending on training/experienced gained.
Cock and ball bondage is also high on the list of things I'd like explore more, especially with edging/tease-and-denial. I do enjoy the few ties I've found, but, obviously, self-bondage isn't the or as good as when someone else actually knows what they're doing is doing . And every time I try edge myself, I can't make more than about 5 minutes or so. I love the feeling of being on the edge, but I just don't have the control last longer than that.
Cunnilingus is one of my favorite things. I'd gladly worship your pussy as long as you want, and I wouldn't even want or expect the favor be returned.
Speaking of, I've know for a long time that I prefer be told what to do. I've always been more concerned with pleasing my partner, even at the expense of my own pleasure. If I want to cum, I can do it myself or I'd stick to a strictly vanilla relationship. I'm here, so that's obviously not the case.
Beyond that, I'd love to explore nearly everything else. I really do like the idea of being seen and treated as an object, tool, or toy to be played with however women want. Women have been viewed and treated as sex objects for centuries; they should do the males.
I want be called whatever She wants; sub, slave, slut, , whatever. Especially in third-person; makes me feel even less like a man and more like an object.
Hopefully this gave someone a more insight into me. Just a background on what my experience is and what I think about myself. At the end of the day, I'm just a dirty man- who's interested in going down all those kinky paths he hasn't yet.
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Milk Me
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Posted:Sep 16, 2021 8:28 pm
Last Updated:Sep 28, 2021 10:57 pm 744 Views
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Saw this somewhere else and am a little obsessed with the thought of having this done to me.
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The First Time
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Posted:Aug 2, 2021 11:51 pm
Last Updated:Sep 13, 2021 9:47 pm 1117 Views
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I've never served or sessioned with a mistress before. I'm very eager to. When will it happen? I don't know.
In the meantime, I've been doing my best to understand my role and what is expected of me. Some things I've figured out (I think):
-Obey every command TO THE LETTER. If I walk into the room and am told to strip, that means EVERYTHING, not just down to my underwear. Mistress will tell me what to wear if she wants to see me in something.
-Speak only when told to. Answer her questions. If she wants to something more, she'll ask.
-Eyes only where she tells them to be. I'm not allowed to look at her unless I have permission.
-Punishment should be expected and accepted.
-Request nothing. I'm the submissive, she is the Domme. What I want is secondary to what she wants.
Doing my homework, those seem to be some of the things bad submissive don't get. Mistress desires control and obedience; that's what pleases her. How can I give that to her if I'm asking for things or permission to do something?
That being said, I've also learned that it's not completely one-way street (although most of the traffic is going in one direction). My limits are mine, and will be respected, so long as they're established beforehand. Communication is key. But once it begins, there's no negotiation, unless, of course, I want to be cast aside because I can't follow the rules.
The good thing is, because I'm inexperienced, I'm a blank canvas; it's all new to me!
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Mistress Will Tell You She Wants You
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Posted:Jan 9, 2021 2:04 am
Last Updated:Nov 15, 2021 9:44 pm 1195 Views
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I'll admit that I'm very inexperienced, but I find it curious that I see male subs begging mistresses pick them and "allow them serve them."
Isn't the point of being a submissive surrender choice, desire, and control? If a mistress is interested in you, won't she tell you and tell you what you need do prove yourself?
Subs aren't supposed ask for anything, just make themselves available, right? Not beg for attention.
Besides, aren't we just objects be used as she sees fit?
I could be wrong; like I said, I don't know a whole hell of a lot. But I won't beg the Goddess let serve her; she'll let know.
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More Thoughts From A Newbie Sub...
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Posted:Jun 30, 2020 10:32 pm
Last Updated:Jan 9, 2021 1:45 am 1027 Views
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It's funny how vanilla folks will look at the lifestyle as weird, deviant, immoral, whatever, but get them in the bedroom, and they're all about having their hair pulled, spanked, bursting out the fuzzy handcuffs. Just goes to show you that everyone has a dominant or submissive in them; most people don't want to admit that they're the thing they think is weird, deviant, immoral...
So, yeah, I've always felt I had that submissive in me; that desire to be told what to do, my desires be damned. But when I tell a partner to tell me what to do,, it's always something like "Fuck me harder! Pound me!" That's it? That's all you got? I'm here, willing to do whatever you tell me to do, and it's just about trying to get each other to cum?
Have I mentioned that virgins are boring?
I don't know why the thought of surrendering myself to a mistress is so arousing and enticing, bit it is. I guess part of it is seeing a woman getting exactly what she wants, especially after decades of women being shamed out of enjoy their bodies (or someone else's body), yet men are celebrated for it. And, frankly, arousing and climaxing a man is relatively easily; just some friction, maybe a little bit of moisture, and that's it. Really getting a woman to climax is so much harder. And if you can do it, it feels so much more like a victory.
And that's what I want to do; please a woman without worrying about me. I like the idea of being a slut for her. Just so happens I'd like to be tied up when I do jt.
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Why Would I Want To Be a Submissive?
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Posted:Jun 29, 2020 10:05 pm
Last Updated:Jan 9, 2021 2:22 am 1127 Views
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Now, I'll admit that I'm very much a newcomer to the alt lifestyle, especially being on the north side of 40, but I've been intrigued by it for years, ever since the first time I read a kink story in a BDSM magazine many years ago, and I've done my share of research about it. It seems to me that straight vanilla folks may view submissives as being weak. I don't think so. I think it takes a certain amount of strength to put yourself in the hands of someone else, doing what they want you to do (and to you).
And that leads to why the thought of submitting to a Domme/Mistress is so enticing to me; Dommes/Mistresses are women who know what they want. I've been in a LTR with a virgin before, and, to me, it just wasn't as fun. Virgins don't know what they like; I guess there's guys who like the concept of "teaching" a virgin girl, but I don't. I like a partner who knows what they want and aren't afraid to tell me what to do. And that's what makes Dommes/Mistresses so appealing. Of course, it also helps that I've always liked to be told what to do in the bedroom, and have always been more interested in pleasing my partner...
Plus, I think the male stud/female slut double standard is bullshit; nothing wrong with being a male slut to a strong female.
So, whether it's milking as much cum as possible from my balls, having me worship your pussy and/or ass, simply tying me up with ropes/chains/cuffs and shackles, and everything else in between, if it's what pleases you, I'm ready to explore.
And that's the nice thing about being a virgin slave; there's so much to try...
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