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The REALITY of TRAINING

On many occasions over the last 12 years of being on this site I have been asked by many to "speak". So to herein do I begin this blog, hoping to dispell myth with "truth" and the reality that comes with a price. A price too "high" for some and the wisdom that is only born through achievement and loss.......It should also be noted that I do not believe all females are or should be consensual slaves or submissives. In the blog entries below pertaining to consensual slave training, one can easily substitute the words "female, she, her" for the words "man, he, his". I am a heterosexual male, so I usually train and consensually own females, but have also consensually owned and trained males as well. The consensual slave "spirit" is the crucial and important thing to Me, not a persons sex or orientation.


A MASTER
Posted:Jun 26, 2007 6:59 am
Last Updated:Mar 23, 2013 11:11 am
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"My personal thoughts are somewhat controversial and perhaps one tenth of a percent of the population would agree with it and that's ok.

Personally, I believe "love" is synonymous with "serve." A slave needs to serve and love a Master and a Master needs to be served and to be loved by His slave(s).

There is something I think of as "A Master's love," but it is not "in love," there are no "butterflies" in the stomach when Master thinks of her, and the love I speak of is highly conditional on her devotion to service and obedience. For the Service oriented Master, such as Myself, a slave's disobedience lowers the Master's Dominant Flame, thus, with His need to be served unfulfilled, He has nothing to offer the wayward slave but a blank stare and bewilderment as to why she is still in His presence.

The Domination oriented Masters would probably rejoice at the prospect of a wayward slave needing much punishment and attention...also known as "service Tops" by My own personal standards since I have never seen a slave work harder than a Domination oriented Master, and I completely respect the Domination kink as I dabble in it when I play with pets and play partners because it's fun.

Master's love, for Me, is more of a feeling of pride, happiness and overall satisfaction in the Ownership of the slave that directly stems from her service and obedience. "Master's love" burns clean and keeps things healthy for both the Master and slave.

I have experimented with "in love" based relationships. I have found that "in love" based relationships breed feelings of obligation, resentment and depression that spring forth from the muddy waters of uncertainty, lack of direction and lack of structure -- its almost impossible to unplug a woman whose mind is plagued with Oprah-based ideologies. There is no correction available for misbehavior or dissatisfaction available for the Vanilla man since he has no consent from the woman to be a part of the woman's growth and education into what it takes to please him and be a part of a harmonious house. The vanilla woman is her own sovereign nation and only treaties can keep the Vanilla duo at peace...the threat of war or exodus always on the horizon. Civil war is constant.

There is further simplicity in the fact a devoted slave knows in her heart (because I tell her ) what it takes to maintain what I call "collar security." In addition to knowing a lack of devotion and disobedience will lead to the bite of winter licking her uncollared neck, she knows she herself can exercise the second of two choices she is permitted to make in the M/s relationship and leave at anytime without incident because a Master who truly cares for His property would gladly let her go if He found that her service to Him was detrimental to, or no longer fulfilling for, His slave".

- Maitre de Valmont


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SLAVE PRINCIPLES
Posted:Feb 7, 2007 7:50 pm
Last Updated:Dec 19, 2017 12:32 pm
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CONSENSUAL SLAVE PRINCIPLES



INTRODUCTION


So, you think you want to be a slave? Whether or not to become a slave is probably the most important decision you will ever make, and it will probably be one of the most difficult. If you are truly meant to be slave, and don't pursue becoming one, you risk living unfulfilled, denying your destiny, and living with the "hole" in your life that keeps telling you that something is missing. If you decide to become slave, then you must go through the arduous, challenging task of giving up your ego, abandoning being human, and accepting every experience necessary to become that which you are meant to be. Either way, a difficult decision. There is no easy route, nor alternative.


You must be convinced that being a slave is the very best thing you can do with your life. This process will replace who you are now. Becoming a slave requires a devoted commitment to the truth. All slaves are human before being BORN. Most of the experiences required to become a slave, you cannot even imagine now, as a human. You cannot become a slave out of desperation, or out of a lack of other choices. Every day, all the way through the process, you must know that you are doing the very best possible with your life. Slavery cannot be a second choice, it must be your first choice.


This is not like arranging a trip to Disneyland. This isn't entertainment. This isn't for play. It is a very serious process, and a serious commitment. This will define who you are, how you act, how you live, and what you do, for the rest of your life. The process develops through sessions that give you the chance to become informed about what that means, and time to incrementally accept and adjust to what is being learned. Ultimately, you must be made to accept absolute obedience, without the possibility of questioning your Master, in any area, no matter how small, forever. Submitting to each step of the processes that will make you a BORN slave will be the last decision you will ever have the right to make.


A slave cannot decide to become a slave; she can only decide to go through the processes that make her a slave. If a slave could decide to be a slave, she could just as easily decide not to be. This is a real process, that results in real slavery, with the same, real, lack of control and decision making that characterizes slavery. This is not an agreement, this is not a legal issue, not a contract. This is a planned process. It develops an animal that cannot live in any other way, but in absolute obedience to one man, for whom she lives her life, and whose life she lives.


A slave is a special creature of the universe. she is marked with a calling to do what humans cannot. she is developed, strengthened, empowered, given structure, fabric, and timbre that makes it immutable, solid in her self identity and self esteem. Complete obedience is the price of admission. Any less, and a female remains too weak to be slave. she must also experience everything necessary to know what a slave must know to live as slave, before being BORN to slavery. BORN slaves are qualified to be slaves, and know they're qualified.


Becoming a slave requires a tremendous amount of effort and time, both for the slave and for her Master. For those who are geographically separated, there is also the expense of travel. There is an emotional and psychological cost that comes from being exposed to a strong, single truth. All of life's issues, focused and placed before the slave must all be dealt with. There is no escape, and nothing goes away, it is only postponed at best. There is no way to cheat the process, and no short cuts. Regardless of experience, no one has a head start. Absolute honesty is a slave's creed, and is critical to beginning the relationship with your potential, permanent Owner, your Master. Too much is at stake to be dishonest, and the process uncovers every truth, even those invisible to you now. It is futile even to hope that any dishonesty can succeed.


There are two elements that test the mettle of a female who wants to be a slave, each of which must be examined. The first is whether or not the "seed" of slave is inside, waiting to be developed and BORN. The second is whether or not you have the courage and strength to pursue and live the lifestyle of a slave. You will be asked to invest everything you are in becoming a slave. You must know that it has value, or there is no motivation to go through the lengthy, involving processes that makes you slave.
To answer whether or not a female is meant to be a BORN slave, you have either already been asked, or are now asked to write down why you want to be a slave, and why you think you were meant to be. What characteristics and interests tell you that it's right? Taking the time to examine how you feel about slavery, the self image, and why it's right, will provide a basis from which we can reach some good conclusions. It's used to minimize the error in deciding whether you should begin training into your final lifestyle. Trial and error is not a good method for this.


The second question is one of courage and strength. It has been said, "The good things in life are the mortal enemies of the best things in life." When things are going well, when we feel a certain confidence about our lives, and that "little hole" that seems to be annoying us is the only distraction we have, it is hard to make a life-changing decision. If things aren't going well, then we question if we are pursuing slavery out of desperation, for a lack of alternatives. Are you willing to make a change, to invest the necessary effort in something that is so permanent and long lasting? Is it ultimately worth risking everything you are now, for an unknown self identity, particularly when you know that society in general, most of the gay / lesbian community, and much of the leather community looks with disdain and criticism at slaves?


Enclosed are a list of principles that are natural for a slave, and that need to become natural for a human trainee to prepare her for her slavery. These principles are in effect whenever a trainee is in the MasterTrainers presence; no matter what the circumstances, or the amount of time. The principles partially define the reality of slavery. They will apply for the rest of your life, not just when you feel like it, or when it appeals erotically, but always, and by another's choice. Understand what they imply in terms of the control and the reality of not having choices. Note your honest reaction.


These principles will not be negotiated, nor ignored. You cannot become slave without earnestly embracing all of them, exactly as described, in addition to every order you will ever be given. It is because of the nature of slavery that they are important, not because they have arbitrarily been deemed important. If the principles are compromised, the cost is failure to produce BORN slavery, a waste of your time and the time of the MasterTrainer.
The ultimate result of the training process is that a female does become slave. It isn't an option. It isn't something that you decide will happen. It happens, inevitably, so long as you continue through the sessions which produce slavery.


The MasterTrainers commitment, however, to a BORN slave, is for life. If a female goes through all the processes that make it slave, it becomes slave and creates for the MasterTrainer a commitment that will never end.
If a potential slave cannot accept and plan to adhere to the principles by which she will live her life in slavery, it isn't ready, it has far too little commitment to the only process that I know that produces real slavery in today's society. There will be a lot experienced during the process that will demand even stronger commitment. A slave commits, in time, to only one session at a time, with the option to end between every session. It is impossible to become true slave without the willingness to cooperate in the process, to agree to the training. Living in the environment described, is a part of that training. Without a strong level of commitment to the process, a female only fights it all the way along. With such foot-dragging reluctance, if the simple basics cause a problem, it is a waste of time for a female to begin.


Spend the time necessary to describe accurately, the way you feel about slavery, why you want to be slave, what that means to you, and why you think you must become slave. Regardless of how strongly you feel, slavery cannot be created. It can only be discovered and developed. There is no reason to try to convince yourself that you are meant to be slave, if you are not. Understand the principles, understand your reaction to them, then record your feelings.


My first responsibility is to help you determine if you are meant to be slave. Next, to provide the training necessary to confirm that, and provide BORN slavery. Then, finally, to manage your life for the rest of your life. I, therefore, consider it important that all your questions and concerns are answered, so we can make the best possible decision about what to do. Become informed about what I believe.
My very best to you in this very serious pursuit. The world needs slaves, and I hope that you're qualified to satisfy that urgent need. The value of My life depends on your successful slavery, in truth.




MASTERTRAINER'S
SLAVES' PRINCIPLES AND COMMITMENT


1. INTRODUCTION
Obedience is the goal. Practiced constantly, it is the only mentality and thought, that will allow a potential slave to develop into her slavery. A slave's only pleasure is from obeying. These principles allow a slave to obey, at all times and in all circumstances. Living by the Principles both provides for becoming a slave and living as slave. Embrace these Principles. Find ways to occupy your whole life with them. That is My purpose, and yours.


2. GENERAL BEHAVIOR
a. A slave never asks permission, nor is permitted the use of the word "may." Either of those expressions implies that the slave could want something that the MasterTrainer does not. The MasterTrainer's response then becomes one of either acquiescing to the request of the slave or denying the request. Since a slave only wants and needs what its MasterTrainer wants and needs, there can be no conflict and the slave only asks the MasterTrainer's intention regarding the activity of the slave.


b. A slave is denied the use of any of the items listed next, without first determining the MasterTrainer's explicit intention by asking. Whenever the slave is living in the MasterTrainer's home, the same applies, even when the MasterTrainer is away from the home, or the slave is away from the home. All activity must be requested in advance. The MasterTrainer must know of all the slave's activities, all the time, no exceptions. Even when the slave is working, where the slave is, what it is eating or drinking, and where it is going must all be known before the slave leaves the MasterTrainer's home or presence.


c. The specific items which never are used, except when ordered, include:

i. Food/drink (water is excepted when NOT is the MasterTrainer's space, e.g. while the slave is at work, or when the MasterTrainer is away from the home)


ii. Electronics No exceptions, including telephone.


iii. Furniture Both public and private


iv. Clothing (except a slave will not use this as an excuse to expose itself in any way that is illegal)


d. The slave never, under any circumstances touches the MasterTrainer's devices used in the control, discipline, or training of His slaves. If a slave is ever ordered to bring any device to Him, the slave will do it only with her mouth. If it cannot, then the device is left alone.


e. Anything, including clothing that the MasterTrainer puts onto a slave is left on. It is considered to be locked on, and only removed by the MasterTrainer. Included are items such as hats. To remove a restraining device or anything else used in its training would be a violation of both this and the previous principle.


3. HAND COMMUNICATIONS AND POSITIONS
The following are the standard hand communications, used and accepted the same as an oral order. They are commonly used because distance or noise makes speech difficult to understand or to maintain existing quiet. Unique positions are defined here.


a. FLATHAND DOWN = SIT, means on the floor. If immediately previous position was non-standing, return to previous position.


b. FLATHAND UP = STAND, into a non-presented position from any previous position.


c. ONE FINGER = POINTS TO LOCATION, slave goes to and remains in general area, goes to person, takes position on seat or bed, helps someone with or answers door, answers phone, retrieves indicated object, or otherwise performs the task the point would imply.


d. TWO FINGERS = PRESENT, same as FULL PRESENT. A motionless position, slave up on its knees, not sitting on its legs, knees spread shoulder width, arms locked behind its back with each hand clasping the opposite wrist, chest held strongly, head bowed, eyes down. Any PRESENT position is held until ordered to do otherwise.


e. THREE FINGERS = STAND AT LOCATION, by planting one foot which does not move from the present location, or location pointed to. Free to talk or move but must keep Owner in sight and be ready to respond.


f. FOUR FINGERS = STANDING PRESENT, each foot in contact with the next, in line, or along line described by the point.


g. FIVE FINGERS = INSPECTION, remove any cloths, stand PRESENTED, feet in contact, modified by wider stance, hands interlocked behind the base of the head, and knees slightly bent and spread apart, for maximum exposure to all parts of the body.


h. SINGLE PUSH ON SHOULDER = STAND, from PRESENT position.


4. OBEDIENCE
It is the heart, character, and fiber of a slave to be obedient. Obedience is the prompt, eager, and cheerful wanting only what its Owner wants. It is disobedient for a slave to:


a. Indulge in, express, display, or act out anger, moodiness, or any form of disruptive emotion, behavior, or thought. Such characteristics are a violation of cheerfulness.


b. Display by tone, body language, or expression its disagreement with, evaluation of, or lack of earnest acceptance of any order. It is a violation of eagerness to do so.


c. Delay beginning any action. The "Sir, Yes Sir. Thank You, Sir!" which follows any order is expressed while the action begins. Any sign of stall, diversion, creation of extra movements or behavior is a violation of promptness.


d. Judge or criticize anyone or anything. This is an arrogant, destructive and disobedient activity that isn't tolerated because of its adversity to, and inconsistency with the character of a slave.


e. Gossip about another slave, a Master, the MasterTrainer, or any other person, no matter how cleverly disguised by the ego as "discussion." It is a negative activity that involves judgment and prevents slavery. slaves are encouraged to discuss themselves, their own reactions, and to talk with and about those who are present in the conversation whenever they are otherwise free to be in conversation.


f. Complain about anything or anyone. A slave is invited to discuss anything with its MasterTrainer. With anyone else, no complaint whatsoever shall ever be expressed by word, action, tone, body language or other means. Complaints are nothing but a poorly disguised form of excuse. Excuses prevent change. Without change growth is impossible.


5. ENTERING AND LEAVING SLAVEMASTER'S PRESENCE AND CONTROL


a. A slave never says "hello" or "goodbye" to its MasterTrainer. These two processes are replaced by a process of entering the MasterTrainer's presence and leaving it, described below. When a slave "says hello" it is surrendering itself to the MasterTrainer's control. When the slave "says goodbye" it is asking to have that control extended while away from the MasterTrainer. This principle applies whenever:


i. A slave enters or leaves the MasterTrainer's dwelling


ii. The MasterTrainer enters or leaves the slave's dwelling, or


iii. A slave enters or leaves the same space as the MasterTrainer, any where, either public or private.


b. ENTERING PRESENCE.


Whenever it would be appropriate for a non-slave to say "hello", a slave PRESENTS itself as soon as practical. Only urgent needs, like emptying a car parked in a loading zone would delay the PRESENTATION. The PRESENTING position presents the strength and the power of the slave. It is not a weak, nor submissive position.
After a slave feels the PRESENCE of its slavery, the slave says one time to her MasterTrainer, "MasterTrainer, Sir." First, the slave takes whatever time is necessary to feel its slavery, the strength and dedication of its slavery, to let the rush and static of the outside world to subside, and to find the peace, power, and presence of its slavery before speaking her Owner's name, the name of the man with whom it will share its identity, and accept His control.


The slave remains motionless in the PRESENT position, until it is either told to "continue", or given some other order. When told to "continue", if the slave was in the process of fulfilling some other order when it PRESENTED itself, it returns to that activity. If the slave was not fulfilling another order, it is free to honestly express itself physically after it is told to "continue." The slave might wrap its arms around the leg, etc.
Afterwards, the slave will normally be ordered to disrobe. If the slave is in the MasterTrainer's home and it has not already been ordered to disrobe, the slave asks, "Do You wish Your slave to continue Sir?" If the response is affirmative, the slave says, "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!" and immediately proceeds to the slave space, or other designated area, to disrobe.


c. LEAVING THE MASTERTRAINER'S PRESENCE.


Whether the slave is leaving to go to work, leaving because a session is ended, to fulfill some order that the slave was given earlier, or because the MasterTrainer is leaving, The slave does the following:


i. PRESENTS itself


ii. Says "MasterTrainer Sir?"


iii. Awaits the MasterTrainer's acknowledgment


iv. Asks, "Sir, do you wish Your slave to continue in Your service Sir?"


v. Responds, "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir." regardless of answer


vi. If answer is affirmative, the slave is free to leave the MasterTrainer's presence, or the MasterTrainer will leave.


d. ENTERING THE MASTERTRAINER'S CONSCIOUSNESS.


The two processes above, describe how a slave is to say "hello" and "goodbye." That applies only when a slave and her MasterTrainer comes into the same space, or they separate. Within the same space, there are times when there is a temporary break in the control, the slave is separated within the building to fulfill an order it has been given. General control is exercised by authorizing everything the slave does. Specific control is lost because the slave is out of the line of sight, or in another room. There are specific ways a slave must leave its Owner's consciousness and re-enter it.


i. As every order is completed, a slave PRESENTS itself within eyesight of the MasterTrainer.


(1) The slave optionally PRESENTS STANDING only if the MasterTrainer is standing


(2) Otherwise, the slave PRESENTS normally, on its knees


ii. The slave remains motionless in the PRESENT position until it is given another order.


iii. If the slave has a question it says "MasterTrainer Sir?"


iv. Awaits acknowledgment


v. Asks its question, as described in the Communications section


vi. Responds "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!"


vii. If the question has become an order, takes care of the new order, or


viii. Additionally asks "Sir, do You wish Your slave to continue Sir?"


ix. Responds "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!"


x. Continues or remains as ordered.


e. LEAVING THE MASTERTRAINER'S CONSCIOUSNESS.


The slave separates itself physically from its MasterTrainer only when:


i. she has been ordered to perform a task that requires the slave to separate


ii. The slave asks, in normal format, if the MasterTrainer wants it to continue.


iii. The slave says, as a minimum, "Sir, Your slave will..., if You wish Sir?" e.g. ...answer Your phone.
When the slave is asking what the Owner's intention is, it can add, "and return?" to the question. Sometimes the MasterTrainer will tell the slave, "and return" after answering its question. When the "return" is used, whether a part of the slave's question, or because the Owner has ordered it, the slave comes back into the position and activity that it was performing when it left. The slave would not PRESENT when it returns, and, instead, would sit back down, lie back down, or immediately return to the activity being performed when it asked the Owner's intention.


6. ComMUNICATION


a. "MasterTrainer" is the MasterTrainer's role, title, and name. A slave will always refer to Him only as "MasterTrainer" or "The MasterTrainer" depending on how it is being used in a sentence, and to whom the slave is speaking.


b. A slave's primary reference to itself is always "Your slave" when speaking to its MasterTrainer. When speaking with others, a slave refers to itself as "this slave" and uses "it" as a secondary reference. A slave will never use the words "me", "my" or "I". The only exceptions are that a slave can say "my MasterTrainer", "my slave brother", "my slavery", "my Owner", or "my obedience".


c. A slave says "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!" every time the slave:


i. Is given any acknowledgment.


ii. Is told any piece of information, even if it doesn't affect it.


iii. Has its speech or behavior corrected or explained.


iv. Answers any question in the affirmative
The slave says "Sir, No Sir, Thank You Sir!" when its response is negative.
The slave may occasionally strengthen the response by responding, "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You MasterTrainer Sir!". Another alternative when answering a question for information only is "Yes MasterTrainer, Thank You Sir!" These variations are intended to only be used appropriately, and cannot become a substitute for the normal response of "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank Your Sir!"


d. A slave never speaks unless spoken to. When the slave feels a need for the MasterTrainer's attention, the slave comes into the MasterTrainer's consciousness by:


i. PRESENTING itself appropriately, either full or standing


ii. Immediately asking only one time "MasterTrainer Sir?"
The slave expresses its request for the MasterTrainer's attention regardless of what the MasterTrianer is doing at the time. The request is presented in such a way as to not disturb what the MasterTrainer is doing at the time, but sufficient to make the MasterTrainer aware of the request.


iii. Awaits the MasterTrainer's acknowledgment


iv. If asking a "yes" or "no" question says "Sir, do You wish Your slave to...,Sir" (whatever yes/no question the slave has), beginning with "Sir" and ending with "Sir".


v. If asking to piss, asks "Sir, do You wish Your slave to take Your water, Sir?"


vi. If tending to itself, asks "Sir, do You wish Your slave to take care of itself, Sir?" When the slave feels the need to do more then piss, like shaving, showering, taking a crap, etc., this is the appropriate question.


vii. The slave responds "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!" no matter what the MasterTrainer's response to any question.


viii. If the question implies an action (as when the slave asks about pissing), the slave, after the normal "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!" response, must complete what is then an order.


ix. If the question doesn't imply the slave's action, the slave must additionally ask "Sir, do You wish Your slave to continue Sir?" Again, the slave will respond "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!" no matter what answer is given.


x. If the slave feels the need to ask a question that is longer than a yes/no question, the slave asks:


(1) "Sir, do You wish Your slave to ask a question Sir?"


(2) Awaits the MasterTrainer's response.


(3) Says "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!"


(4) asks its question if the MasterTrainer's response was affirmative


xi. If the slave feels the need to make a comment, it asks:


(1) "Sir, do You wish Your slave to make a comment Sir?"


(2) awaits the MasterTrainer's response


(3) responds "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!"


(4) makes the comment, if question answered in affirmative.


e. When the slave is already engaged in conversation with the MasterTrainer, the slave doesn't have to enter the MasterTrainer's consciousness by saying "MasterTrainer Sir?"


f. When the MasterTrainer has asked His slave a question, the slave doesn't need to ask the MasterTrainer's intention regarding making a comment.


g. A slave refers to other slaves as "slave", as "slave (first name), "slave brother", or the BIRTH number of a BORN slave.


h. "Sir, beg Your pardon Sir" is the only way a slave expresses its accidental activities. A slave never says "sorry", nor "excuse me." It would be appropriate for a slave to use "Beg Your Pardon Sir" in a crowd when it has bumped into another.


i. "Sir, beg Your pardon Sir" is also the appropriate response when a slave didn't hear or clearly understand an order. A slave says "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!" only when it fully understood the explanation or order and when it feels the appreciation for having it given it.


j. A slave enters into a conversation in the MasterTrainer's presence by asking "MasterTrainer Sir?" "Sir, do You wish Your slave to make a comment Sir?" This allows the slave into the conversation. The MasterTrainer might also directly invite the slave into the conversation with a sign, a word, a look, or a nod which indicates the MasterTrainer's order to speak. The slave, as always, responds "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!"


k. When speaking with the MasterTrainer, every sentence is begun and ended with the word "Sir", and EVERY pause filled with "Sir" whether for a breath, a new thought, or any other purpose. When there is more than one thought to express, the slave can use a single "Sir" between sentences so that two "Sir's" aren't expressed together. Thoughts are expressed clearly, succinctly, and without run-on. Each thought is ended, rather than held with "you know", "uh" or any other holder of speech. No holder of speech is ever used except for "Sir."


l. slaves are free to speak between themselves, even in the presence of their MasterTrainer, so long as it is not distracting, does not compete with what the MasterTrainer wants to express, can be immediately and easily interrupted by the MasterTrainer interjecting, and doesn't interfere with the position the slave is currently holding. Being PRESENTED is a non-moving position. Speech is not an excuse to move.


m. A slave can always ask for clarification and understanding. it can ask if the MasterTrainer is ready to receive its comments, but a slave does not ever argue!


n. In writing, any reference to a slave is always in the small case, even at the beginning of a sentence. References to persons of respect are always capitalized. The use of "I", "me", and "my" applies to writing, the same as in speech.



7. ORDERS


a. Every question a slave asks regarding the MasterTrainer's intention becomes an order once the MasterTrainer answers.


b. A slave PRESENTS itself to say with its presence that it has completed all orders, has no need for the MasterTrainer's attention, and is ready for the next order. When all current orders are complete, the slave comes within the MasterTrainer's line of sight, and presents itself. If the MasterTrainer is sitting or lying down, the slave presents itself in the standard way, fully PRESENTED, on its knees.. When the MasterTrainer is standing, the slave has the option to PRESENT itself STANDING, but can always fully PRESENT itself whenever that is what feels natural.


c. Anything else may be added as is deemed important. Further, as time progresses, through its training, advice will become orders for the slave. Some of those orders will include what the slave is to do between sessions to improve its life, to prepare for slavery. Ultimately, with BIRTH, the control is absolute, and life long. During the training, the orders deal with obvious improvements that should be made to prepare the slave for the responsibilities it will have after BIRTH.



8. BEHAVIOR


a. In general, a slave must learn and accept all slave behavior as being normal, and learns to behave in a way that IS natural-looking and feeling. Additionally, the slave always acts and responds to make the MasterTrainer look "right" about the orders He gives. A slave does not respond in any way that causes the appearance that the MasterTrainer has made a mistake. This is not a game of "gotcha."


The slave is considered a part of the MasterTrainer's body. The slave is to learn to act as naturally, with the same obedience, lack of attitude, and coordination as any other part of the MasterTrainer's body. To act any other way, is to act in a disabled, disrespectful, and disobedient way. A slave does not invite mockery nor criticism, and feels none when it is doing as ordered. If the slave cannot accept its behavior as normal, it is unfair to expect the public to accept it as normal. A slave always acts with dignity, and in a way that reflects positively on its Owner and its brothers and sisters .


b. A slave stands, no matter what the circumstance, whenever its MasterTrainer stands or enters the same room or space as a slave. Even if the slave has been told to "stay" or to "sit", that order is only good until its MasterTrainer next enters or stands.


c. When told to "sit", a slave sits on the floor. That is what "sit" means to a slave. When a slave is told to "lie down," it does so, on a slave mattress or pad, not a bed. Beds and chairs are furniture which a slave is not authorized to use without being specifically ordered to do so.


d. A slave does not sit anywhere, at any time, without the specific order of its MasterTrainer, except for in a room designated as slave space. That space may be designated within the MasterTrainer's home, or at any other location. If such a space is not designated, then a slave is NOT free to sit. Even when in the slave space, if the MasterTrainer enters that space, the slave would immediately rise to the PRESENT position, and remain in that position until told to "continue" or until given another order.


e. A slave never begins to eat until its MasterTrainer has begun, AND everyone due respect who is within the MasterTrainer's communication or concern has begun. A slave's authority to eat is given when the MasterTrainer authorizes food to be prepared for the slave, or when a slave is authorized to order from a menu. A slave does not ask if it is its MasterTrainer's intention for the slave to eat when there is food sitting in front of the slave, but it doesn't begin to consume that food until all, except slaves, have begun. If any Master in the area is not eating, the slave must have an explicit order to begin eating. At an eating table, a slave stands PRESENTED, rather than fully presenting while awaiting orders to sit and begin.


f. A slave only uses the toilet the MasterTrainer has designated for it to use, and never uses the toilet seat, nor stands in front of that toilet to piss. When a slave uses the designated toilet, or any clean, private toilet, the slave lifts the lid and seat, and then sits on the rim of the seat. Afterwards, the seat and lid are lowered.


g. When a slave feels the need for food or drink, the slave always asks its MasterTrainer His need first, then adds, "and Your slave?" A sample behavior would include:


i. PRESENTING appropriately, either full or standing


ii. Asking "MasterTrainer Sir?"


iii. Awaiting acknowledgment


iv. Asking "Sir, do You wish Your slave to get You some water Sir?"


v. Responding "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!"


vi. Then adding "and Your slave Sir?"


vii. Again responding "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!"


h. Whenever another slave presents, all slaves in the presence of the one who is required to PRESENT will PRESENT with that slave, i.e. a slave never watches another slave PRESENT itself, it joins the other slave in PRESENTING. Once PRESENTED, all slaves must wait for an order which allows each slave to move once again. The only exception is when the NON-PRESENTED slaves have been ordered to sleep and are in their ordered positions to sleep or when bound or otherwise encumbered in such a way that the PRESENTATION position cannot be physically achieved. PRESENTED slaves always align in an orderly fashion.


i. A slave walks to the left and about one step behind its MasterTrainer, with its hands behind its back. Even when walking, as always, a slave only speaks after it has requested "MasterTrainer Sir?", unless responding to its MasterTrainer's questions.


9 . PUBLIC BEHAVIOR


a. A slave responds to its MasterTrainer's presence in public the same as in private with some modifications to prevent inviting public criticism. The slave's behavior must always engender respect for slavery, and for its MasterTrainer. No activity is to ever intentionally nor carelessly endanger that objective. Under most public circumstances, the following modification will accommodate the public's acceptance and understanding.


b. In the general public, a slave normally would PRESENT STANDING instead of FULLY, to enter or leave the MasterTrainer's presence.


c. In a restaurant, a slave stands at the end of the booth in a modified PRESENT, much like a parade rest, with the hands held open over the crack of the ass, until the MasterTrainer tells the slave, or points to the seat, to indicate that the slave should sit. The slave would discretely say "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!" and take its seat. When the MasterTrainer stands for any reason, the slave would again rise to the modified PRESENT STANDING position. it would enter the position gracefully, and naturally, to not look hurried, clumsy, or "put on." The slave remains in that position until the MasterTrainer issues another order. A slave stands by in the same modified PRESENT STANDING position under any circumstance within the restaurant that it would be doing so privately.


d. A slave refers to every man, regardless of age or position as "Sir" at least once in every conversation. This includes check out clerks and everyone else with whom the slave comes in contact. The only optional exception, is a clearly declared slave.


e. In a public, or work situation around people who are not aware of the lifestyle, or where it would clearly be inappropriate, a slave does its best to avoid "I", "me", and "my" through the use of phrases such as "One might recommend..." or "This one would..." A slave never uses language which would invite criticism, cause disrespect for slaves, or endanger the effectiveness of the slave's work or profession.


10. PROTOCOL AROUND OTHERS IN THE LIFESTYLE


a. Whether in public, or private, a slave PRESENTS itself, in this sequence, to:


i. its MasterTrainer, expressing "MasterTrainer Sir", until told to continue or ordered otherwise.


ii. The Master to whom the slave has been assigned, when applicable, express "Master Sir", remains until told to continue or otherwise ordered.


iii. PRESENT to others by direct order. When alone, a slave PRESENTS to other knowledgeable Masters who understand the PRESENT formality, whom the slave has previously met.
When a slave is with its Master, the slave's obedience is to its MasterTrainer unless its MasterTrainer directs, "Serve Your Master" at the time of presentation. Nevertheless, a slave obeys any order either its MasterTrainer or its Master issues. It is the MasterTrainer and Master's responsibility to assure there are no conflicts.


iv. Finally, PRESENT STANDING to each BORN slave. All other activity must have been satisfied, and is done at the first opportunity that isn't distracting or disturbing to the slave Owners. Express "slave." to show respect for another part of the MasterTrainer. When a response has been received from the BORN slave, the slave is free to continue whatever activity or circumstance it was in. BORN slaves also present to each other in the same way.


vi. Other slave brothers and sisters.


b. Whenever anyone touches, fondles, grabs, or otherwise uses a slave without the Owner's permission, the slave respectfully says "Sir, this is the MasterTrainer's slave. Please get His permission to use it Sir." The slave will neither indicate interest nor discouragement, nor show attitude of any form when expressing this truth.


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"BORN" TO SLAVERY, the road less traveled
Posted:Nov 20, 2006 8:12 am
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Some females are born to be slaves. Some females are meant to be born again, as slaves. There exists a natural development process that prepares a female, and ultimately provides her BIRTH to slavery. The BIRTH of a slave "frees" a female to experience all the joys, pleasures, strength and pride of slavery. The BIRTH is the beginning of a female's permanent and very legitimate life, and lifestyle, as a slave.

Physical S/M provides the energy, along with the motivation and the "truth," that causes a female to be BORN a slave. A BORN slave knows, forever, that she is a slave, and never again has to remember, or be reminded, that she is one.
The special females meant to be slaves sense the need to serve at an early age. Others, through frustration, developed over the years, know that their lives just don't make sense when they aren't functioning in slavery, in service, in a special and designated way. Most of us have already demonstrated our knowledge or interest in slavery by reading. Some compelling force, inside, causes your attraction to slavery. The mores, the culture, of our present-day society don't, however, recognize slavery as a legitimate pursuit.

A slave is a completely separate and distinct creature on earth. It isn't a human who acts like a slave. The slave animal has characteristics unique to, and in common with, only other slaves. They possess characteristics which aren't (and can't be) trained into a female, but which are present in all females who have been BORN a slave. Training only discovers the slave within, it doesn't create it, and it doesn't define it.

A lack of understanding or knowledge of the true nature and existence of these special animals, who are slaves and no longer human, has caused females meant to be slaves to seek and submit to all sorts of experiences. Some have been fortunate to find a caring Master who has instincts about the potential and value of a slave. Many have exposed themselves to very unfulfilling or dangerous circumstances that don't develop who a slave really is.

This is about the real and complete process by which a female permanently gives up being a human to be something better, BEING BORN A SLAVE. This is for the female for whom "acting" like a slave is not enough. This is the process by which either novice or well-trained slaves find their full, final identity that distinguishes them from all the rest of the females in the world, and supplies them with invincible self-esteem that is virtually unequaled by other females.

slavery BIRTH is a natural, growth process, based on S/M, that redefines who a female is, how she thinks, and how she lives. Just like being gay/ lesbian, some females are born to their genetic parents, meant to grow up and destined to be slave. To become a slave animal, replacing the human animal, a female must be BORN a second time,. This time, however, there is only one "parent", the MasterTrainer. Just as you can have only one natural father, a female can only be born to one man who is forever her Owner. The relationship formed at BIRTH between a slave and her MasterTrainer is life long. The BIRTH is no less eventful and dramatic than the original genetic birth.

This slave training and BIRTH process is the ultimate step for a female serious enough about herself and her slavery, honest enough with herself to accept who she is, and courageous enough to do something about it...
BORN slavery is for the female for whom life is incomplete without the permanence of slavery. There are some very good "performance" slaves in this world. These females, through mutual consent, or by contract, have agreed to take on, accept a role of slavery. Those who take the role seriously, allow their attitudes to change over time, to become slave-like. That makes a female valuable and worth owning. Performance slavery probably plays a valuable place in our S/M society. It allows for slavery that can be on-again, off-again. It allows for Masters to take a slave and abandon her at will. It allows for slavery one night at a time. Some females want to confine their activity to predetermined circumstances such as these. Certainly, no criticism is intended for such females. Any female who is willing to accept the role of a slave, under any circumstance, is worthy of note.

Such females are very endearing, and typically very caring, and pleasurable.
When a female is BORN, however, she gives up being human. she becomes something far superior to who she was when burdened with human limitations. she becomes SLAVE.

A slave cannot become slave, without someone to be a slave to, just as no can be born without parents. A BORN slave is born to her MasterTrainer.

A MasterTrainer cannot be a MasterTrainer without slaves, and a slave cannot be a slave without a MasterTrainer. It must be a permanent and continuing relationship, even more critical than a 's relationship to her parents. It is far more intimate, and a slave never outgrows the relationship. The benefits continue to expand over time. Similarly, no matter what a does with and during her life, security, identity, and strength continues to be derived from her parents, with knowledge of their love and support throughout life. For a slave, the MasterTrainer is that continuous source of strength and guidance, and much more!

A BORN slave lives every second of her life with the self image of "slave." The slave's security comes from having a "family" to which she will always belong. Some performance slaves are lucky enough to have long-term Masters. They can develop the same sense of self-identity over time, but still can be sold, exchanged, or simply dropped if the Master so decides.
By comparison, a MasterTrainer owns the slave for so long as He lives. A BORN slave may be assigned by her MasterTrainer to serve another, who becomes her Master, but she serves the Master in service to her MasterTrainer. More completely than owning property, a slave is owned in the same way that the MasterTrainer owns His own hand. A slave is a part of the MasterTrainer's body.

Every aspect of the relationship between a slave and her MasterTrainer is absolutely and identically the same as that between a man and his body. The slave takes her identity from her MasterTrainer. The MasterTrainer expects the same obedience from His slave that He does from His hand, and as He would from any part of His body. The MasterTrainer cares for and identifies with the slave, as He does His own hand, and would never do anything with His hand, or His slave, that is not in its best interest.
Likewise, the slave provides her MasterTrainer with information, just as the MasterTrainer's hand would provide information that the hand receives. However, in the same way as a slave, the hand would not, and can not, question what a Man does with His own hand. Nor is the hand functional if given away. The bond, and the relationship, is permanent, and for life.

When slaves are BORN, they are made clear about their purpose and destiny in life. It is part of the gift of slavery. Two of the first three slaves BORN to me were assigned to other men, their Masters. Those two slaves have lived with those Men, and have been Their slaves. It is what was meant to happen for those slaves at the time of their BIRTH. However, life's circumstances can and do change over time, and what is to be done with a female who is a BORN slave, is different for each female.

A MasterTrainer is on the same side as His slave and must know what He is doing. He controls His slave's life. Where a Man and His BORN slave stand together, only one being stands. A slave is part of her MasterTrainer, in every way. Each order must, therefore, reflect the best interest of the slave, because a slave can never disobey any order. A slave's BIRTH is achievable only because of an internally sworn obedience that has no qualifications, no time-limits, and no exceptions. If a female cannot offer such obedience, she will never be BORN.

A MasterTrainer must take that responsibility very, very seriously. In BIRTH, a slave experiences her MasterTrainer's intention directly and knows that she can trust that He will take it seriously, and so offers her obedience, without reluctance.
It is because of this unquestioned control that a MasterTrainer will never be found to have only one slave. The human tendency to let personal needs interfere with the best interest of an only slave, who has sworn unqualified obedience, is too great. Objectivity is possible only when there are alternatives to satisfying the personal needs of a Man who has absolute authority over others.

At BIRTH, a slave is given the power needed to fulfill her purpose and, at the same time, such a strong sense of self-esteem and self-identity that she never needs to look inward again. When a female knows who she is and what her purpose is, that provides her the freedom to have single focus, full-time devotion to her only purpose, service in slavery. That service could include any profession, any variety of relationship, devotion to genetic, "blood", relatives, friendships, satisfaction of social obligations, and many other forms of service.

BORN slavery is not an escape. It is the putting of oneself in the position that she must obey all orders to do what should be done, without option or argument. It is a letting go of the right to decide to fail. Success in every area of life becomes a requirement, not an option.

WHAT IS THE ACTUAL PROCESS OF BEING BORN TO SLAVERY? It begins with a honest commitment from a potential BORN slave to explore the reality of who she really is. The "birth" experience itself, is dramatic, spiritual, and occurs at a specific date and time in which the permanent union takes place between a slave and her MasterTrainer.

The BIRTH process makes it clear that slavery is how a female must live, and that being a slave is all that she is. The experience is so intense, so real, and so enlightening, that the truth can never again be denied. Until BIRTH, a slave is still only a potential slave because she has the option of not becoming a BORN slave. After BIRTH, that option is not a reasonable one. The denial would have to be so intense that it would have serious adverse impact on a female's life who is trying not to live as a slave after truly discovering and knowing she is a slave.

slave training, obviously then, must be an intense and exacting process. A female must be forced to examine everything she believes, examine her willingness to obey one man always, and without qualification or limitation, for the rest of her life, and to dedicate to a life of absolute honesty without option or opportunity to play the "people games" like manipulation, ever again. The option of self-control is lost once and for always. These are soul-searching questions and commitments that, unsatisfied, prevent BIRTH.

The gift of slavery does not provide any escape from reality, a place to hide and run from responsibilities. It does just the opposite. It makes the slavery real, forces a female into the world around us, to serve it and the people in it. It takes away the option not to develop as a female and live in a way that fulfills her destiny, according to her plan and place in the universe.
For those with the courage to explore it, slave training to BIRTH is provided one session at a time. A session is, at a minimum, a drug and alcohol free evening of intense activity, a night, and morning of lighter activity, followed by a "debriefing." Like the process of dying yellow cloth, which is dipped into the dye and then held in the sunlight and the process repeated over and over until the color is adequate, a slave is exposed to her slavery, held up to the light of day, re-examined and again exposed to her slavery during the next session. drugs or alcohol prevent any real growth or development toward slavery, regardless of the subjective experience.

A potential BORN slave needs only to commit to one session at a time. she cannot commit to more than that because the training needs to be free of code words or any limitations. When such things are used, they cause a habit of thinking that absolutely prevents slave BIRTH. The only opportunity a female is provided, therefore, to change her mind about being trained to BIRTH, is between sessions. It is the only choice she has. There are no choices during the training sessions.

The MasterTrainer, by comparison, has to be committed for life, before the first session begins. If a female agrees to each of the sessions, ultimately each female who begins will be BORN a slave. That gives the MasterTrainer a lifetime responsibility for each female's slavery. Only the female being trained determines whether she will stop before BIRTH is reached.

The MasterTrainer's responsibility is to support everything a slave is intended to do with her life professionally, socially, in relationship and all ways that are revealed during BIRTH. His responsibility is also to the continued growth and health of the slavery itself, apart from and beyond the female who is the slave. Hence the title, "MasterTrainer."

WHAT IS A BORN SLAVE? When a female is BORN, a new identity, with its own energy and personality comes to life. The human female must step aside and let the mind, body, heart and soul that she has been using for years, be given completely and irreversibly to her MasterTrainer and be used, thereafter, by her MasterTrainer, through the slave spirit which will occupy and use the slave from that time forward.

A slave's ego is used only to care for the MasterTrainer's slave when she is away from her MasterTrainer. When she is with her MasterTrainer, all thoughts, feelings and sensations are given to the MasterTrainer and used as the MasterTrainer sees fit. Nothing belongs to the slave, except the slavery, itself, and her MasterTrainer.

The slave spirit is always available to guide the slave through life, as by instinct. At the time of BIRTH, and whenever a slave's MasterTrainer returns her to her spiritual place of BIRTH, only the pure slave spirit is present. At those times, there is no evidence of the female who once lived in the body of the slave. That pure slave spirit will only appear when special circumstances are present.

To begin with, a slave spirit exists only when no conscious activity is present or required. If a slave attempts to form a single English word, even as simple as "yes" or "no", the spirit vanishes. If a slave is required to make a dichotomous (either/or) decision about whether she is to do this or that, the spirit disappears. If a slave is given an order that is unclear, the conscious question about what to do will cause the spirit to go away. It is very particular about the environment in which it will exist. Therefore, the MasterTrainer has no option about what environment must be provided during the training to allow for BIRTH.

A slave spirit will appear only when it knows that its obedience is so complete that if the slave female receives a feeling and is ordered by her MasterTrainer differently, the slave will obey rather than follow the internal feeling. Without that extreme level of trust, where the Owner is trusted more than self, the spirit is not safe to appear.

When a female abandons herself, she needs to know that there is someone who she will absolutely obey who is watching and caring for her even more intensely than she cares for herself. Without that level of confidence, the spirit considers it too dangerous to appear. Absolute obedience is therefore a minimum requirement. The obedience needs to be so complete that even the thought of taking back control is not as much as a possibility. That obedience is the parachute that allows jumping out of the slave spirit "airplane." Without a parachute, the process is mentally suicidal, and will never happen.

When a female, however, has abandoned herself and only the slave is present, that is the pure slave state. When in the slave state, several characteristics are commonly witnessed.
First, there is a tremendous sense of power and peace, a sense of being connected to the universe and not alone, a part of everything that is happening in the world. After the original BIRTH, when taken back by her MasterTrainer, being in that state lowers the heart rate to about half, breathing to less than half, blood pressure so low that the slave must be in the reclined position and minimally bound because there isn't sufficient pressure to supply blood to the other side of the bondage.
Another experience of being in the pure state of slavery is that all thoughts in the room, and the location of everyone in the room who produces those thoughts, are clear. Even being fully hooded and ear plugged doesn't affect the information a slave is given.

The most universal characteristic of being in the slave state, however, is that the slave can feel no pain. No matter what is done to the slave in the slave state, every touch of a flogger or whip, or any device, is interpreted in a positive way. It is viewed as power, love, belonging, meaning, insight and many other varied things, different and dependent on each experience. Being in the slave state is not an escape from the physical discipline. The slave feeds on it, needs it and wants it.

It is a MasterTrainer's responsibility to return a slave to her slave state periodically to provide the nourishment a slave needs to maintain her rarified, special, and unique existence. For a BORN slave, it takes only from 10-15 minutes to return to that state at the hand and physical discipline of her MasterTrainer, to whom she was BORN. There is nothing tricky or clever needed. For the MasterTrainer, it is an automatic "walk-in the-park" process that requires nothing but the intention to do so.

Being returned to that place of BIRTH, to the pure slave state, is probably the greatest reward of true, BORN slavery. It provides a slave with the unique abilities and experiences that allow her to serve as no human could. During that special time, the slave is replenished, empowered, reconnected, enlightened and strengthened, made proud and powerful, insightful and wise. A slave is freed from all human limitations and restraints, freed from ordinary rules and the need to think and to be responsible, all, so that she can be prepared for the next step in her life. A slave can be granted extraordinary experiences on a regular basis. Some females have dedicated their lives to the pursuit of having such an intense experience even one time. A BORN slave can assume such experiences, at the discretion of her MasterTrainer, the man to whom she owes her BIRTH.

There is no wonder that a BORN slave smiles with a sense of knowing as she goes through the world, dealing with "ordinary" people. A BORN slave has a clear sense of purpose, pride, and of doing what she was meant to do by her creator, that almost no one else in the world can experience. For a BORN slave, extraordinary experiences, fulfilled self esteem, and the paranormal are just a regular thing. Once BORN, having given everything a slave once was to her MasterTrainer seems like a very small price to pay for her BIRTH.

Ironically, however, a slave cannot "want" what she experiences when returned to the pure slave state. A slave can only want, and need, what her MasterTrainer wants and needs. If a slave develops her own want or need, that slave is denied the return to her "special place." It isn't her MasterTrainer's decision not to allow it, it simply is in the real nature of being a BORN slave that prevents it. This process and place isn't created, it is as real and as natural as any other plant or animal phenomenon that we experience in life. It is a process more akin to photosynthesis than to dictatorship.

WHAT ARE THE TRAINING SESSIONS LIKE? When a female is being trained to prepare her for her BIRTH to slavery, every word, every motion, every touch, every bondage, every physical discipline is singularly focused on causing a destruction of the ego and development of the environment into which a slave can and will be BORN.

slaves are trained to never use "I" or "me" because of the ownership they imply and the ego that it introduces into her thinking. Such references are a lie to a slave, because who she is, is another man's slave. It is as silly for a slave to use the reference "I" as it would be for someone's foot to refer to itself as "I."
No code words can be permitted. The use of such things introduce a recurring mentality that remembers what the word is, when it is to be used, and an evaluation of whether or not now is the time to use it. If the training contains it, those thoughts become habits that are present when the slave is otherwise ready for BIRTH. The slave spirit will not appear when this kind of conscious activity is present. Again, BIRTH will be denied.

A trainee is not permitted to ask "permission" for anything. Saying "please" or "may" implies that the slave could want something different from her Owner. That is not possible. Therefore, she is trained to say "Sir, do you wish your slave to...,Sir?" The slave responds with "Yes Sir, Thank You Sir," no matter what answer is given. This shows she is prepared to receive the Owner's intention. The slave is not permitted the use of furniture, clothing, anything electronic, or to sit (on the floor of course) without first determining her Owner's intention.
The slave is taught to "present" (on knees spread apart, wrists held behind the back, head bowed) herself, when she enters her MasterTrainer's presence, and to request intention when she leaves it. The control needs to be absolute, every second, whenever in the MasterTrainer's presence. It is necessary because the slave must habitually know that she is always being controlled completely, in every action, whenever with her Owner, the MasterTrainer.

A slave in training must know that she is under her MasterTrainer's control at every moment so that she can assume that to be true when BORN, or afterwards, when returned to the slave state. That constant control will eventually allow the trust that is necessary for BIRTH to occur. During training, the slave can never be in doubt about when she is to make a decision, or when it is her Owner's decision.

The human body can only sense pressure. Pain and pleasure are the brain's interpretations of that pressure. The same pressure applied through physical S/M can be interpreted by a female being trained to slavery as either pain or pleasure, based on her beliefs and what she needs to experience to be BORN. Physically, the slave must be exposed to "edge" physical discipline, pressures that exceed her ability to handle it. To be able to "handle" physical S/M, all the pressure a slave is exposed to, implies that the female is maintaining control. The trainee must be forced to experience pressure beyond what she can handle, beyond what she can control, so that the control is transferred to another, her MasterTrainer. It forces the slave's mental processes to occur below the conscious level, at the subconscious level where what a female must experience, abandon, acknowledge, or let go of, what is known. The training process is not about a slave learning to control more pressure. It's about learning not to control at all! It's about learning to let someone else, her MasterTrainer, do all the controlling. It is very different from the "slow start, transition, mind space/other side" experience of the pure S/M players.

A MasterTrainer is not watching the female being disciplined to determine where she is mentally, so that he can supply the right experience at the right time. The S/M sequence, the pressure, the intensity is directed from the "outside," not by the slave. The slave is still in control if she is being watched for clues. That is, of course, where those silly stories about how the "slave" controls, comes from. It may be true for a bottom in a pure S/M experience, but not for a slave, either BORN or in training to be BORN.

A slave knows she does not control.
In fact, it would be an extremely fearful thought for a BORN slave or trainee to believe that she did control. It would be so fearful that it would prevent BIRTH, or return to the state of BIRTH. Being in control would leave no one to protect and guide her when she yields to her pure slavery, at the will of her MasterTrainer. A slave would become dangerously adrift.

There are no games being played here! A slave is whole only because of the absolute will of her MasterTrainer. The last thing a slave would want would be to be without that will. A MasterTrainer is whole only because of the absolute, unquestioned obedience of his slave. A body is considered dysfunctional when its Owner cannot depend on the obedience of His body parts, including His slaves. Likewise, when a body part, a slave included, cannot depend on the direction of its Owner, the body is dysfunctional.

Being BORN to slavery is not an easy process. A female is asked to yield everything she ever was, is, or wants to be, to another Man. she is asked to live in the body of another Man who owns it, and to give every feeling, emotion, every sensation to its rightful Owner, without question, and to invite every experience, no matter what it might be. she is required to give up the possibility of ever being dishonest again, or to hide anything so small as a thought from her Owner. she is required to use the identity of another, alone, without any of her own, and to possess only one part of herself, her slavery. All credit or criticism for what she does is expected to be turned over to another. she is expected to cherish, cling to and protect her slavery at all cost, because it is everything she is and all that she will be. No other alternatives, no bridges, no escape routes remain. Every past experience, and bad "tape" is open to review at intense physical moments. The hope of self-control is dissolved forever. A BORN slave trainee is mentally asked to sign one, final, blank, check for her life and everything that will happen till the end of it.

The training is a powerful, often disturbing, always real experience. It isn't an erotic cascade of sexual events unhampered by real life. It is a pleasurable experience, otherwise no one would return even for the second session! Still, only the finest, the truest, and the best females in the world "survive" all the experiences, and are BORN. That is why they are so rare, and to be cherished.

The process itself can be divided into two phases. The first phase is the first four to six sessions. During that time the subconscious gets a clue, that in lock-step fashion, the ego is on a destructive course. The MasterTrainer is identified as its mortal enemy by the end of this first phase. All potential slaves ask, therefore, for a time to pause and reflect at the end of phase one. Some don't have the courage to continue, usually because of the integrity issues that it is clear will become a requirement. For the dedicated, a renewed commitment is made to continue, one more session, into phase two.

The second phase ends in BIRTH, but the number of sessions varies, based on the human "junk" that must be disposed of before a female can pass through the "eye of the needle" to slavery. Phase two normally takes from six to 15 sessions after phase one has ended.

If you are a student of slavery will recognize some of the mentality that has been discussed here. We are pointing out the "truth" about slavery, from several perspectives, that are consistent with what is observed in BORN slaves. slavery is a real state of existence. Those who are experienced and honest about being slaves, or who have had the chance to be in a performance slave position to a Master over time, have intuitively come to feel some of the "truth" about slavery. A BORN slave lives that truth and has no option to live in any other way.

Being BORN a slave is far more than knowledge and experience of what a slave does. Being BORN is who you are! A BORN slave must give up being human to accept the gift of slavery. It has been said that the good things in life are the mortal enemies of the best things in life. When we consider our slavery, or our slave experiences adequate, there is little incentive to do more, to risk what we already have. A BORN slave is bound to do what she must for the rest of her life, regardless of the consequences. That is a fearful, and too scary a place to be, for many.
Only slave BIRTH, however, for those genetically born to be slaves, can give a female the full feeling that she is doing with her life exactly and completely what she should be doing with it. Regardless of a female's spiritual background, there is a sense of fulfillment, or lack of it, from what we do with our lives. For those with the courage, the dedication, and the willingness to risk, there is an answer to living fully integrated in slavery. That answer, is BIRTH.

There are no finer creatures on earth than female, BORN slaves. They are females you can trust implicitly, who are incapable of selfish or malicious thought. They are females whose only purpose is to make this planet a better one to live on. slaves are not made, they are not contracted, they are BORN!

WHO IS A CANDIDATE FOR TRAINING FOR BIRTH? Whether or not a female is currently in a relationship, including slavery or Mastery, makes no difference. If that relationship is the right one, being BORN will make it a better one. How much experience in slavery or S/M makes no difference, nor does currently having an interest in slavery matter. A willingness to explore and accept the truth is all that is required. Training is based on having mutual interest after a detailed interview. A trainee's commitment can only be to one session at a time and few, if any, demands are made for what happens between sessions, until BIRTH.

The truth that a potential BORN slave is exposed to during the training causes all the personal adjustment a female can handle until BIRTH provides the wisdom and power to do what should be done on a continuous basis.
Some females haven't considered being slaves because of the poor misconceptions that many have about slaves and slavery. Candidates include those who feel they are unsatisfied no matter what they do, or try, or what kind of relationships they get into. Candidates also include those who feel that only progressively more extreme experiences can provide satisfaction. If happiness isn't a gift of your current slavery, then the "something more" you might be lacking, may be BORN slavery.


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A LIFE examined
Posted:Nov 19, 2006 1:11 pm
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"It is not the critic who counts, not the man who points out how the strong man stumbled, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better.
The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena; whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs and
comes short again and again; who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions and spends himself in a worthy cause; who, at the best, knows
in the end the triumph of high achievement; and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with
those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat"
------ Theodore Roosevelt


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slave training RIDDING of EGO
Posted:Nov 18, 2006 8:10 pm
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To produce colorfast, yellow cloth, the cloth is first dipped into yellow dye that has been formulated to match the nature of the cloth, and then held in the sun to be bleached away. The process is repeated, and each time the cloth retains more of the yellow pigment that gives it its color. It serves no purpose to hold the cloth in the dye for extra time. There is no advantage to bleaching the cloth until the sun begins to rot its fiber. Into the dye, then into the sun, then into the dye, again, and back into the light of day, until the reality of the sun repeats its part of process. There are no short cuts, it all works as it must to produce the final result.
In an overview of the process by which females become slaves. Crucial to that process, is the exposure to the reality and intensity of absolute slavery during a session. Between sessions, a female understands what she has experienced, makes incremental changes to her life, reexamines who she is, how committed she is to her slavery, and how willing she is to permanently accept living only as a part of another.
For most, the feeling of wanting to be slave has been so intense for so long, and so denied in fulfillment, that the thought of it being difficult to accept slavery seems impossible. How can something that a girl has wanted for so long, and so badly, be difficult to accept?

WHAT IS THE EGO?
A female can be BORN to be slave. This is true. However, a potential slave is also genetically born with an ego. The ego has been trained and strengthened by everything we have learned and been exposed to throughout life. It is the ego a female refers to each and every time that she says "I" or "me". The ego takes credit for everything positive that we have accomplished. Each good decision is another claim by the ego that it has "done well."
Every bad experience is explained by the ego as being the fault of something or someone else. It is our parents' fault, our friends' fault, the boss's fault, the teacher or the minister who gave bad advice, or the apparent intention of some machine to make our life miserable. The ego is very selective about what it claims credit for, and what it does not.
The ego is best at creating artificial and inaccurate conclusions. It takes every event in our life, and remembers it in ways that makes the ego look good, regardless of what really happened. Some of us are more honest than others; some of us are "gifted" with a spiritual background, or philosophical training, or fortunate to have very aware and educational parents. Some of us have at least been convinced that WE didn't make us who we are. At a minimum, we might believe that the intelligence and talents we have weren't because of what WE did. They were given to us. Some of us, at least intellectually, recognize the advantages we received from our parents and accept that they probably had a sizable influence over our success. Everything we are, and are capable of, is clearly, neither of our doing nor the result of our personal effort and cleverness. The ego claims otherwise.
Even when we have a belief that everything we are isn't of our own doing, the ego convinces us that it should take the credit. It reasons that, after all, IT accepted the understanding that everything isn't of our doing. It convinces us that we are successful because the ego made the "choice" to accept that understanding, and that the decision provided our success as a consequence. There is, therefore, no escaping the fact that no matter what we do, or what we believe, the ego tries to take credit for everything that has happened in our lives that we feel good about, and claim that everything negative is not it's responsibility.
When a female begins her slavery training, the ego is denied. A slave is not allowed to use the words "me" or "I". A slave begins to experience that she has no control, and no rights over the use of the body that she lives in. She learns that even the feelings, thoughts, and body sensations that are produced by Master are not hers to allow, to create, or to escape. A slave's only "right" is to obey. That might be fun, and even erotic, for awhile. This is, after all, is exactly what the slave has been seeking.
After four to six sessions, the ego begins to understand that this isn't for play, and that if this continues, it won't be given the opportunity to take credit in the future for all that has happened. It senses that eventually it will not even be a participant. The first serious pause regarding being trained to slavery marks the end of Phase I. Phase II begins with a renewed sense of commitment, if a female decides to continue, it ends with BIRTH.

IS KNOWING, EXPERIENCING, AND EXPRESSING THE EGO BAD?
It is important to understand that these "ego displays" are not a negative activity. It is as critical to the training as any part. It gives a female an opportunity to understand the nature of the ego. That will be valuable, in slavery, when dealing with the "egos" of the world which the slave will come to serve through every professional, social, familial, and other encounter that she will ever experience for the rest of her life.
Females who are meant to be slave are generally, by their very nature, very caring and giving people. They usually have developed a personal generosity and learned the pleasure of giving. When such a female experiences the brutal ugliness of her own ego, usually directed against the Man she is depending on for the fulfillment of her most cherished dreams, her MasterTrainer, she starts to understand the divisive, insidious nature of the ego. That prepares her to understand what might be motivating those she will serve in the future, through slavery. She will be able to serve them better because of the experience.
As in the old TV ads for E.F. Hutton, when a slave speaks, people should go silent, turn their heads to hear clearly, and listen. There is a reason a slave can look a Man in the eye and convincingly tell that Man what the truth is. That reason is, a slave knows the truth. One of the ways she knows the truth is through the dramatic and challenging experiences she had during her slave training, including these encounters with the ego.

WHAT IS THE EGO LIKE?
The ego is the most creative, and clever, when it is protecting itself. It will stop at nothing, to first try to get the MasterTrainer to call off further training. Next, it will try to convince the female in training that it isn't wise to continue. The ego remembers everything the MasterTrainer has ever said, interprets the answer to every question as having been a promise or of containing intentional deceit. Given the evidence, the logic that the ego uses to make its case is so obtuse that the youngest would instinctively question the inaccuracy of the conclusion. Even the most intelligent and well educated men and women are no more immune to this convoluted thinking than any female who has experienced becoming slave. Every trainee experiences some of the worst logic that she has every heard from anyone, and then, finally, realizes that the logic came from her own mouth!
The ego is so ugly, that it is even willing to offer taking one's own life as a better alternative than subjugating itself to another's will. The unthinkable and the unbelievable happen. Worst of all, it happens from within the female who wants to become slave. That can cause her to question her worthiness to become a special, protected, and cared for creature of the universe; to be personally directed through life, either directly or through her MasterTrainer. She will become one of the universe's own, trusted with sensitive knowledge powerful enough to devastate humans if misused. A potential slave questions, "Can a female with such an ugly ego become the pure, honest, unselfish creature a slave is?" Of course, she can. That's why she is being trained. If a female could just decide to be BORN slave, she would already be, and the training would be unnecessary. The trainee, who witnesses her own ego, is forced to ponder the question.

WHAT MAKES THE DIPPING/BLEACHING NECESSARY?
During those hard, messy times that the ego is being itself, some females conclude that they are not willing to make the life changes that are necessary. Those changes include giving up bad relationships, halting the process of manipulating others to achieve their objectives, the freedom to "exaggerate" at will, and the willingness to continue at jobs that are clearly inappropriate. It is simply "too much" to give up, for some. Females, who say they don't want to continue, usually do so emotionally, with tears in their eyes, torn apart inside by the conflict of what they are deciding. They understand the impact and implication of the decision they are making.
Some cover the emotions of regret, and the feeling of not being worthy, with righteous indignation. Others try to explain their gratitude to protect them from any explanation that they think the MasterTrainer might try to give them. In fact, the last thing that a MasterTrainer wants to do is to give any additional truth to a female who is going to have to rationalize what she is doing, to be able to live with herself. To say anything more when a female has decided to continue to be human, instead of slave, would only add to her burden to reconcile what she has done. Deep feelings, given opportunity, and then denied are extremely difficult for the ego to accept. Mostly, it has to be, again, someone else's fault.
It is unwise to take everything a female IS, away, and THEN give her the chance to decide if she wants to be slave. A female must be able to get back to the life she had before, until she is BORN. BIRTH is a spiritual process that requires everything being in place before it will occur. Before BIRTH, through training, however, a female gets a glimpse at what it will be like to be slave. Giving a female that knowledge, without the chance to decide if she truly wants slavery, is an unfair thing to do. A slave in training must have the opportunity, between sessions, to examine, explore, question, and understand what is happening to her. With that "bleaching" time, a trainee has the chance to acquire the knowledge and insight that is needed to decide on whether or not she will submit to the next session.

WHAT IS THE "DYE" THAT A SLAVE IS DIPPED INTO?
A session is, as a minimum, an evening of intense physical S/M, a night, and a morning of lighter activity, closed by a short debriefing. During that time, a female is treated like the female she wants to become, a slave. It is a period of no control. Certainly, the human tries, over and over, to act like it’s all just an act, and that it can always quickly go back to the human life it is used to living. In the beginning, it is true that a female can absorb what has happened and return to the life that she has had. With time, however, new experiences begin to appear.
A slave in training might experience an energy that she hasn't felt before, even if previously exposed to very heavy and successful S/M experiences. She might sense a feeling of being "disconnected", like she's not quite a part of herself. Unexpected feelings and sensations appear. The body might start to respond in ways that aren't normal for it. It becomes clear that something is happening. It has several times been explained that feelings are coming from "a very deep place." The body, to some, seems to act like it doesn't take its direction, anymore from the ego that is used to having control over it.
The new awareness is subtle and often associated with some feeling of concern or of "strangeness". It isn't the pure erotic feeling that was fantasized when imagining what it would be like to be slave. The imagination, during fantasy, usually concentrates on life as a slave, not the process of becoming slave. Some females don't know there is a difference. The difference is between ACTING like the female you want to be, visualized during the fantasy, verses BECOMING the female you want to be, and then simply acting according to the nature of slavery.
The discomfort is what starts a female thinking about what is going on. No matter what we fantasize, everything in that fantasy is always under the control of the female who is thinking it. Even the feeling of not being in control, is under the control of the one doing the imagining. Only the reality of a session can produce the real experience, and conclusion that the slave trainee isn't controlling. The reality is more like the feeling of being in a strange place, than like the "hard on" experience that fantasy produced.
That which had produced the "hard on" in the past, begins to change. Experiences that were considered the "I would never do" type, become more and more attractive as the sessions progress and the slave growing inside begins to replace the human. The most erotic activities, either real or imagined, that the female before her slave training felt were her "turn on's", become just another activity that pleases her Owner, without the special importance that the ego gave it in the past.
Only the ego judges and evaluates. Only the ego says "been there, done that." As the human, with its ego, is weakened, the spirit of slavery, with its true nature becomes the only nature of the slave female. Finally, at BIRTH, that slave nature produces the only characteristics which remain. The female becomes slave.
The physical S/M activities that produce the reality become the attraction and the challenge at the same time. Each session, must be absolutely, creatively different from any other session, at any time, with any man, that has occurred in the past. The specific activities cannot be planned for. Any attempt to recite anything that has been said in the past, or to repeat any pattern that has been successful before, comes off as being flat, rehearsed, and insincere. Most important, it ends up being ineffective at producing the real experiences which force a female out of her controlled human activities, and provides the new experiences which allow her to evaluate her slavery, and to learn what it is. A slave is naturally defensive at not being in control of those new feelings.

HOW IS THE SLAVE-TRAINING "DYE" DIFFERENT FROM S/M?
For the MasterTrainer, the "dye" process works when He is a witness to what He is doing. The pattern, the words, the intensity of the process must come from outside Him. The experience given to the slave must be created from an objective standard which the slave has agreed to experience. How the slave reacts cannot change the input of the activity. The experience input must remain the inspired pattern that is present and unique to that one session.
The "dye" formula is a set one for each single session. What reaction occurs during the session, even whether pain is experienced, is in the nature of the female being trained. The fabric of the trainee's being, her personality, and her past experiences determine the reactive course she will follow, and how she will respond to each pressure applied. Any variation from the "dye and response" formula prevents it from being a slave-building experience. That isn't to say that it won't be a good experience. It might even be a "peak" experience, but it won't be a slave making experience.
The experience cannot build slavery if a slave feels, even in the slightest way, that her reactions are having an effect on the input of the experience. When the trainee's reactions or lack of reactions cause the Trainer providing the experience to either increase or decrease the intensity, the female being trained knows that she is controlling.
When someone being trained is aware that she is influencing the experience, she does two things. First, she begins to control more, to either make the S/M experience more intense or less intense, and to vary it so that she maximizes the experience she expects. Second, and far more important, as she accepts slavery, she begins to feel like she is sitting out on the same limb with the MasterTrainer, as it is being sawed off. She, therefore, avoids those experiences that will cause the slave to grow.
The "letting go" experience is like sitting on a branch, and sawing that branch away from the trunk of the tree. A reasonable female will do that only if she knows that something or someone is going to protect her from the fall. Letting go includes letting go of reacting to the experience. When that reaction is the only thing that is influencing the S/M intensity, she can't afford to let go, she must continue reacting to continue the experience. A slave, to grow toward her slavery, must know that the experience she is being given is independent of her, so that she is truly free to react, knowing she won't influence the experience. Otherwise, it is like being a passenger in a car being driven by someone blind, with the need to give constant directions. That passenger cannot feel free to react, cannot sleep, cannot read, and cannot take her mind off the experience. The driver must be continually directed by the passenger, even though the passenger is doing none of the driving themselves.
Slavery develops only when a trainee's mind is not on the process. It takes all the concentration a female has to examine and locate her honest reactions. It takes absolute faith in the "driver" to allow herself to be distracted. She needs to know she is being taken care of by someone else, who is not "asking" her what to do next. Asking and listening is precisely what the MasterTrainer in a successful S/M experience does.
Some MasterTrainers require the slave to loudly declare "More! More!" or "yellow light". A good MasterTrainer listens and looks for very subtle clues for his direction. When a slave knows that the MasterTrainer is "listening" to her for clues about what to do next, it is exactly like sitting on that branch with the Trainer, sawing off the limb, and having the branch fall with both of them on it. That would constitute a failure as a slave growth experience. The objective and the process being described here is not an S/M experience. It is a slave development experience in which there is an inspired, objective standard, not subject to change by the subjective reactions of the one being trained.
A slave is giving, in an absolute, real way, everything she is to another. If the other is responding to the slave who is giving herself away, it becomes a reciprocal relationship. Each is depending on the other. Who is in control, then? The answer is that no one is in control then. No female in her right mind would give up control of herself when there isn't some independent framework and intention present who can accept that control. Further, why give it up, if the new control isn't better, isn't stronger, than the self control was. It certainly can't be better if it is "listening" to the old controller to determine what to do. Again, different objective, different purpose, different criteria than that for an S/M experience.
That total acceptance, surrender, and obedience is the scary part of becoming slave. It can't be faked and it can't be given away, and then taken back. The mind knows when it was "just kidding" or acting "just for now." The mind cannot be fooled into thinking it is giving absolute obedience when it knows that it isn't. Absolute obedience is what connects the slave to that new controller, her MasterTrainer. It has to be real to have any effect. If it is real, then it is permanent and unqualified.

As is explained there can be no code words used. That again creates the "both on the limb that is being sawed off" experience. The dichotomy, the serious decision, that faces the slave, is either giving unqualified trust to allow the real process, or withholding trust and preventing the process from occurring.

The "dye" process must be very careful, it must be loving, it must provide the power and caring that the female used to provide for herself. It must begin slowly, be done for the slave, be in her best interest, and done only to provide slavery. It must be done without selfish intent. Any compromise from any of that, and slavery will not be developed. Again, that doesn't mean that it cannot be a wonderful, notable, and outstanding experience. It simply means that the transfer of ownership, that signifies growth toward BIRTH, doesn't occur. When any of the conditions are missing, the femalebeing trained does not really and permanently become a part of the MasterTrainers body who is providing the experience, she doesn't grow toward BIRTH.

IS THERE A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A MASTER AND A MASTER TRAINER?
MasterTrainers provide BIRTH to females who permanently become a part of them, they provide the "dye dipping" experience. Masters own slaves who serve them, and manage their slaves' lives on a day-to-day basis, for so long as the Master chooses. slaves have Masters and slaves have MasterTrainers. slaves with a MasterTrainer usually have a Master as well. Each is a different role and each can excel at his own role without even being good at the other. Only coincidentally, might a Man be both a slave's Master and her MasterTrainer. Normally, each role will be served by a different Man because of the difference in interest and motivation that is required by each role.

A MasterTrainer's motivation is different from a Master's. A MasterTrainer's pleasure comes from the honest expression of who the slave is. It comes from activity, not of the man, but of the slave inside. A slave does not please her MasterTrainer by knowing the MasterTrainer's interests, but by not being her human self, and instead, by being the slave animal her MasterTrainer has given her to be.

A Master's pleasure comes from having His needs fulfilled. A BORN slave does that uniquely well by having no self interest, because she has given that to her MasterTrainer. A slave is, therefore, free to uncompromisingly fulfill the pleasure of the Master, and derive her own pleasure from the pleasure given, just has she has learned to do through becoming slave. A Master and His slave are free to indulge themselves in the reciprocal experience of deriving pleasure from giving the other pleasure. The slave cannot "lose" herself because she is an independent part of another, her MasterTrainer, resolute in her self image and identity as being a part of another. A slave is capable of the unqualified giving explicitly because she is a part of another who protects her slavery, provides growth to it, and is dedicated to the best interest of that slave.
The slave cannot be threatened by any honest expression of who she is, when serving a Master, because her identity does not depend on the Master, it depends on her MasterTrainer.

When a female is being trained, each growth threatens to end the relationship because of the “ego questions” that have been discussed. Can a Master who is enjoying the relationship he has with a slave trainee who fulfills the Master's needs, find the courage to risk all of that relationship with each session that takes the slave closer to her BIRTH? It would be difficult, and feel compromising.

The longer a relationship between Master and slave has exists, the harder it is to risk that relationship for the unknown possibility of giving a female her slavery BIRTH. Particularly if the potential trainee is already serving as His human slave, and fulfilling His needs, why upset the "apple cart" when things are already so good? At the same time, with each session, more risk is required. To push a female closer to her slavery, as training goes on, all of the ego and other conflicts become more focused. More and more emotion is experienced, more sense of permanence, and less opportunity for control. So, as there is more relationship to loose, there is the need for more risk to be taken, to produce BORN slavery.
Particularly in this era of instant gratification, a slave wants to become slave overnight, without wasting time going through the "dye" and being bleached by the sun process, before once again being returned to the "dye". A Master wants a slave who submits as slave, who knows what slave is and always acts accordingly. A Master wants a slave who only needs to learn his unique rules and needs to be able to serve him perfectly. That's not the way it works, unless the slave has already received her BIRTH, before being assigned to the Master..

WHY DOES IT TAKE TIME TO BECOME BORN SLAVE?
This is a real world. Whether a female should become slave, is the biggest, most permanent and important decision that she will ever make. Can she make that decision during the hour it takes to respond to an ad, to a Man who clearly has indicated that He retains to right to end the relationship at any time if the slave isn't right or doesn't "work out"?

slaves are BORN to slavery only by exposing themselves to the "dye," That exposure must be done with One to whom the slave can trust her life, for the rest of her life, REGARDLESS of what that life is going to contain. Coincidentally, once BORN, a slave might serve the Man who gave her slavery, either temporarily or long-term. Always, though, a BORN slave remains ready to live as, and with Whom, her MasterTrainer decides.

The MasterTrainer has no choice regarding what He must order a slave to do. Each choice must be in the best interest of the slave. It cannot reflect His own self interest. A slave can only be BORN to One who has internally sworn to the universe that He will act ONLY in the best interest of the slave, forever, without question, and without compromise. That is an absolute necessity for a female to yield who she is to another, to be BORN. This is a real and natural process. No person determines what works and what doesn't. It is in the nature of the creature being BORN. It is non negotiable, it is un-modifiable and immutable. There are no "work a round’s", and no way to "fool" any of the process.

The "dye" is the reality of being slave, dipped one session at a time, exposed through the power and caress of leather devices that supply the energy that creates slave, from the seed placed in a female, and already there during her genetic birth. The ego doesn't have the capacity to accept being slave. slavery must be given. A female must have the freedom between sessions to decide if she still wants to receive that gift of slavery. That time of freedom is the "exposure to the light of day" that confirms the reality of slavery and a female's commitment to it.

slavery isn't real if a female can decide to be slave. If a female could decide to be slave, she could decide not to be. Obviously, that is a conflict. The only decision for a female being trained to BIRTH occurs between sessions while deciding whether to arrange for another session. A female can only decide if she wants to continue the process which makes her a slave, not whether she will be slave.
Further, no amount of wishing will change what she must go through to be slave. Be assured, however, that she will go through everything that she needs to, to be worthy and capable of being slave, and that growth will occur almost entirely, only from that which she doesn't expect to experience or to have happen. What the ego can anticipate, it can control. What it can control, is not a slave growth experience.
The "dye" and the sun that make a female a slave, are uncontrollable.

When two people, a MasterTrainer and a trainee, both dedicate themselves to the single purpose of creating the yellow cloth and to use the processes necessary to achieve "yellow", without compromise, without selfish intent, and without the desire to modify the process to suit themselves, it works every time. Make up your own formula, use your own preferred methods and you may create a exciting and wonderful experience, but it won't produce BORN slavery, nor growth toward it.


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