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My Journey Into Kink
Posted:Jun 26, 2019 4:43 pm
Last Updated:Jul 8, 2019 5:10 pm
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While I had always thought the idea of a woman being restrained was incredibly sexyfrom a very age, I was unsure what make of my clearly perverted desires. (It would be years before I learned that yes, i was a pervert, but that was totally cool.)

Somehow that didn’t stop me from starting to tie up my equally inexperienced girlfriend in my 20s. For whatever reason rope/bondage was a gateway kink. Wanting to learn more I eventually found the beautiful Bay Area kink community, and committed to learning and growing my understanding of BDSM. It was the best thing that ever happened to me.

Finding that community brought some wonderful kinky friends into my life, in turn introduced me new experiences I had never thought I'd enjoy. It’s now a part of my life. I go a kink or lifestyle events, munchs, or volunteer (I am a Dungeon Monitor at SF Citadel) about once a month. So, not 24/7 but an important part of my life.

These days I found myself drawn to partners share an interest in some combination of babygirl, , obedience & submission training, bondage, spanking, rope, and erotic humiliation. It's funny the things we learn about ourselves. I've always played as a bondage and flogger kind of a guy. At first was not all that interested in babygirl, , or humiliation. But that changed as I learned more about kink.

While I was open trying new fetishes in theory, initially most didn’t appeal . I incorporated more varied kink into real life scenes at the request of my submissive playmates. Wow. As I played I truly became intrigued by those fetishes. Exploring boundaries and edges with someone you trust, and trusts you, is exhilarating and intensely intimate.

Initially I dated vanilla girls and would ask if they had wanted to try bondage or some other fetish, but had mixed results. Eventually I realized I was just more interested in kinky girls. They’re significantly more sexually intelligent, happier, smarter, and kinksters are just more fun as a . A little more than 8 years ago I stopped vanilla dating, and decided to seek friends from the kink community. I have made a lot of bad decisions in my life, but this was of the good ones. I don't think kink is for everyone, but vanilla is just not for me. Cheers, Danger
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