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How To: Have Sex In Public (5 Easy Tips)...
Posted:Jul 17, 2019 6:36 am
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2019 1:10 pm
If you’re looking to make your sex life a little more interesting, a public tryst could be just the thing to get your heart racing in all the right ways. Sure, it’s risky, but it’s also a lot of fun if you know what you’re doing. Now, when I say “in public” I don’t necessarily mean a scenario like the one in the movie “Crank” where Amy Smart gets nailed in front of a bus full of Japanese tourists. Sure, that may sound fun, but it’s also a sure-fire way to end up in jail…or on some random per’s Snapchat. If you’re looking to enjoy the thrill of a public romp without the need for bail money, these five tips could help.

1. Make a Plan
When it comes to great sex spontaneity is best, but if you’ve never done it in public before you’ll be far better off if you come up with a plan ahead of time. This will help you relax and not spend the entire time looking around to see who’s coming (ha, see what I did there?). If you’re not sure how to start, try asking experienced couples for advice. Before my first public adventure, I spent a lot of time chatting with other exhibitionists on to see what worked for them. I ended up getting some great advice that made my first time so much easier.

2.Dress for the Occasion
Your Insta-worthy floral romper may make for a cute selfie, but if you’re trying to bang one out and not get caught, you may want to opt for clothing that’s easier to deal with should you have to make a run for it. Stick with skirts and dresses (sans underwear) and button-up blouses that allow you to let the girls out without having to take your shirt off completely. It also helps to avoid bright colors that are hard to miss, so save your bright neon garments for another day.

3.Location, Location, Location
Picking the right location is key, especially if you want to relax and enjoy yourself. Find a place that has minimal lighting, limited foot traffic, and an easy escape route should you inadvertently find yourself putting on a live sex show for unsuspecting passersby. It also helps to scope the location out ahead of time so you know what you are dealing with. For example, I once met a guy during my time on Adult FriendFinder who was really into the idea of banging underneath the Golden Gate Bridge. We weren’t sure how to make that work so we planned an excursion a few days before to check out the location and found a perfectly secluded parking lot directly under the bridge. A few nights later we went back to the spot (which by that time was entirely deserted) and went at it for nearly an hour without ever seeing another passing car or human being. We never saw each other again, but it’s still one of my favorite sexual experiences to look back on.

4. Leave the Screamers at Home
It’s always nice to know your partner is having as much fun as you are, but if you have a loud moaner on your hands (or dick, whatever) you’re pretty much guaranteed to get caught. It’s also a great way to get the cops called on you. I may or may not know that from experience…

5. Don’t Be a Creep
While the idea of having sex in public is exciting to you, it won’t be as exciting to anyone else who may happen upon your public sexy time shenanigans. Be conscious of those around you, and for the love of Thor please be sure you aren’t anywhere near a school. You really don’t want to be caught by impressionable young s and end up talking to Chris Hansen on “To Catch a Predator.” While you’re at it, you may also want to check out the laws in your area, as some places have stricter laws than others should you get caught. For example, some jurisdictions will simply let you off with a ticket, while others charge you with public indecency, exposure, or some other such thing you most definitely do not want to fuck with.
If you’re still a little apprehensive about going all the way in a public place, start slow and work your way up to the good stuff. Try a hot n’ heavy make-out session at the theatre first, or even a quick and dirty car blowjob if you’re feeling a little extra. Whatever you do, just have fun doing it!

~BDSM Cafe.
Posted:Jul 17, 2019 5:15 am
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2019 7:19 am
It’s probably the single most used image for submission and with good rea. When you kneel in front of someone you make yourself vulnerable you are making yourself not only small but unable to move quickly, it’s a perfect position for a Dominant to feel powerful and in control.

So why do I want to kneel? Simply put He has earned the right to be in control, he has earned the right to my reverence, by his words and deeds. By his teaching and caring.

But beyond that I kneel to remind us both of our places, I kneel to bring us back to our dynamic. I also kneel when I step of line, or when I need to be calmed or calm My Master.

What I get of the act of kneeling is a sense of calm a centering of my mind, a release from my worries and stresses, a chance to stop and breathe. A time to show My Master my trust and vulnerability but also my strength of character to allow him total control. There is no weakness in kneeling only power.

Kneeling can be any agreed act for me. It’s the physical act of going to my knees, for others it may be bowing of their heads… the meaning and purpose are exactly the .

Posted:Jul 16, 2019 7:03 am
Last Updated:Jul 16, 2019 6:58 pm
Sometimes we lie because it’s easier than telling the truth. Sometimes we lie because we need to forget. Sometimes we lie because you don’t want to tell her she looks fat in those jeans. Sometimes we lie because fantasy is better than reality. Sometimes we lie because it’s too painful, to tell the truth. Sometimes we lie because we think it’s the truth. Sometimes we lie because it’s faster to do so. Sometimes we lie because you need to get out of something. Sometimes we lie because life can’t wait. Sometimes we lie because pain is not an option. Sometimes we lie because there is nothing better to do. Sometimes we lie because we need to turn attention away from ourselves. Sometimes we lie because we don’t know what else to do. Sometimes we lie because we don’t want to tell ren there isn’t a Santa Claus. Sometimes we lie because it gives us a laugh. Sometimes we lie because sarcasm gives emphasis. Sometimes we lie because we need to prove a point. Sometimes we lie because everyone needs a break once in a while. Sometimes we lie because an alibi is needed. Sometimes we lie because a surprise is being planned. Sometimes we lie because we could lose money. Sometimes we lie because we want to keep a friend. Sometimes we lie because we are instructed to. Sometimes we lie because money is offered. Sometimes we lie because revenge is sweet. Sometimes we lie because we would like to hurt someone emotionally. Sometimes we lie because agreeing is easier than debating. Sometimes we lie because we are scared. And rarely do we ever tell the truth.

—The Love Whisperer
Full Moon Nights.
Posted:Jul 16, 2019 6:42 am
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2019 5:53 am
Something as calm, as sensually delicious as those nights of a full moon. I always feel a little more uninhibited on those nights when the moon is full. I'm not sure why? I do believe it is an absolutely lovely and amazing thing to see, especially when it comes up over an ocean.

* Does a full moon have an effect on your attitude?

That Thing, Whatever It’s Called...
Posted:Jul 15, 2019 4:22 am
Last Updated:Jul 16, 2019 1:39 am
Some people say they just want someone to love and to be loved by them in return. Apparently, that is their ultimate goal in life. God knows how many gs have been written about that exact subject. Screw that shit. I don’t want only that. If you want someone to just love you then get a puppy. I want so much more than that.

You don’t just want love. You can love someone but not have a connection, no real deep intimacy. For some rea, you just don’t click on some spiritual, cosmic, higher plane, whatever you want to call it. If that’s not there you’re missing a big part. That love you feel is never going to be as fulfilling as it could be.

But then you can have this amazing connection with a per where you are both on the same wavelength. Your minds are aligned. You almost know what the other per is thinking or feeling at any given moment. But there’s no sexual chemistry. There’s no desire. No lust. That connection will never be what it potentially could be.

And we all know about those times when the sex and passion are off the charts. You can’t imagine it possibly be any better. You’re convinced that people should be filming you as you always produce some high-quality sex that the world needs to be aware of. But during those times when there’s no sex happening, there’s no tenderness. There’s no affection. There’s no real desire to make the other per truly happy other than physically. There’s no love.

So there you have it. You can love someone but not be sexually compatible. You can be hot for each other all the time but you just don’t care about each other in that special way. You can find a soul mate type of connection but you don’t love them in a way you know your heart is capable of. So close and yet so damn far. This is turning into quite a positive piece of writing, isn’t it? I blame the bottle of wine that was inhaled late one night when this was written…

So what do we want? Clearly, most of the world hasn’t really figured it out or there wouldn’t be so many who believe that their true other half is still out there somewhere but is not the per lying next to them in bed. Who simply want more. I have no idea what that’s called but it’s more than just passion and desire. Way more than just an intimate connection. And most definitely more than just love.

But you’ll know when you’ve found it because you count the minutes until you’ll see him again when you’re apart. You live for those times when you make her laugh until tears roll down her face. A gentle touch of skin in the middle of the night makes your heart almost burst with joy. And you can’t wait to rip each other’s clothes off and find out how much more pleasure you can possibly give each other than the last time when you rocked the building’s foundations. Sounds like some kind of fantasy, I know, but sometimes fantasies do come true. If yours hasn’t yet, keep looking. That thing, whatever you want to call it, is out there somewhere…

~Dirty Romantic.
Meditation and it's Benefits .....
Posted:Jul 15, 2019 3:44 am
Last Updated:Jul 16, 2019 4:14 am
Lately, meditation has seemed to have taken off, every health site going is telling people ‘you should be meditating!’. I’ve seen countless adverts for apps to help with meditation, and even owners of the Apple Watch are reminded to ‘take a breath’ for a minute each day. It seems that media at the moment is all about mindfulness and meditation, which is great. But why? You can infer from the sheer amount of apps, books, and podcasts to guide meditation that it helps, but what does it help with?

It’s important to know all the ins and outs of something before you add it into your daily routine. So I'd like to share with you 5 benefits of Meditation.

1) Reduces stress

Pretty straight forward really but when you’re stressed your mind is reeling. You’re agitated, fidgeting and flustered. Sometimes stress can be really debilitating and stop you from completing everyday tasks. Or it could lead to anxiety. The levels of stress that we feel need to be combated with some time where your brain and body is calm and void of tension. When you meditate, the goal is to clear your mind and let go of your stresses, to keep your breathing calm and just be still. Stress creates that agitation and restlessness, so to shut down that part of your mind for 10 minutes can be really beneficial. Regular meditation can keep your stress levels down and make you feel happier.

2) Decreases any tension-related pain

Tension related pain is when your muscles or joints hurt due to retained tension. When you’re anxious or stressed you could be holding your muscles rigid, doing this for prolonged periods can cause extreme pain. Some people might also find the pain so restricting and debilitating that it prevents physical activity, sometimes to the point of becoming bedridden. It’s also common to experience pain or cramps in any of the body’s muscles. These symptoms can also be experienced as muscle spasms, twitching, ‘clamping up,’ and persistent pain. Meditating offers you the time to unfold all your muscles and release any hidden tension. Releasing the tension for prolonged periods will ease the pain and hopefully remind your muscles to untense.

3) Improves concentration

Everyday life can get so stressful and sometimes. Because of everything on our plates, we don’t concentrate on each task to the full. Our minds are overworked and just like any organ, the brain needs time to decompress so that you can perform at 100%. Meditating gives your mind a chance to just be still and switch off for a while. Doing this regularly means overall your concentration will increase because your mind isn’t running on empty. Greater concentration is related to the increased energy meditation provides. It also trains your brain to be able to focus on tasks to the full and increases the speed your mind can process information.

4) Helps to improve your sleep

It happens to everybody, nights where your brain just won’t switch off. You can’t stop thinking about that one thing and you haven’t got the skills to control your thoughts. Nearly half the population will struggle with insomnia at some point. Becoming skilled in meditation may help you control or redirect the racing or “runaway” thoughts that often lead to insomnia. Additionally, it can help relax your body, releasing tension and placing you in a peaceful state in which you’re more likely to fall asleep. A variety of meditation techniques can help you relax and control the “runaway” thoughts that can interfere with sleep. This can shorten the time it takes to fall asleep and increase sleep quality.

5) Lowers high blood pressure

High blood pressure can be caused by a range of things. However when stress causes high blood pressure, meditating can be a contributing factor to helping reduce it. Over time, high blood pressure makes the heart work harder to pump blood, which can lead to poor heart function. Both meditation and deep breathing are thought to activate the parasympathetic nervous system. This system is engaged when the body relaxes, slowing the heart rate and lowering blood pressure. In part, meditation appears to control blood pressure by relaxing the nerve signals that coordinate heart function, tension in blood vessels and the “fight-or-flight” response that increases alertness in stressful situations. Blood pressure decreases not only during meditation but also over time in individuals who meditate regularly.

Article from Psychology Today 2019

So meditating is great for you all around. Start slow, believe it or not, I love meditating when I'm tied up tight. When I'm left to patiently wait. It always helps center me and helps me relax.
Sunday Vinyl *Beach Mix*
Posted:Jul 14, 2019 3:18 am
Last Updated:Jul 15, 2019 4:25 am
*Trapped ~ Bruce Springs ~The Essential Bruce Springs
* New Slang ~ The Shins ~ Oh, Inverted Life
* Riptide ~ Vance Joy ~ Dream Your Life Away
* Monkey Man ~ Rolling Stones ~ Let It Bleed
* 5:01 AM ~Roger Waters ~ Pros And Cons Of Hitch Hiking
* Good Day ~ Nappy Roots ~Nappy Roots
* Back Where It All Began ~ Allman Brothers Band ~Where It All Begins
* Shakedown Street~ Grateful Dead~ The Very Best Of....
* Use Me ~ Bill Withers ~Still Bill
* Pusherman ~ Curtis Mayfield ~ Superfly
* What'd I Say ~ Ray Charles ~ The Atlantic Hits

Bruce Springs & The E Street Band

Well it seems like I'm caught up in your trap again
And it seems like I'll be wearin' the same old' chains
Good will conquer evil and the truth will set you free
Then I know someday I'll find the key
Then I know somewhere I'll find the key

Well it seems like I've been playin' the game way too long
And it seems the game I played has made you strong
Well when the game is over, I won't walk out a loser
And I know that I'll walk out of here again
And I know that someday I'll walk out of here again

But now I'm trapped, oh yeah!
Trapped, oh yeah yeah!
Trapped, oh yeah!
Trapped, oh yeah!

Now it seems like I've been sleepin' in your bed too long
And it seems like you've been meanin' to do me harm
But I'll teach my eyes to see beyond these walls in front of me
And someday I'll walk out of here again
Yeah I know someday I'll walk out of here again

Well it seems like I've been playin' the game way too long
And it seems the game I played has made you strong
Because I'm trapped, oh yeah!
Trapped, oh yeah yeah!
Trapped, oh yeah yeah!
Trapped, oh yeah!
I'm trapped, oh yeah yeah!
Trapped, oh yeah yeah
Trapped, oh yeahhhhhh
Trapped, oh yeahhhh
I'm trapped

gwriters: Jimmy Cliff

*I'd like to think the music is coming out of that beautiful shell
Dragon Love
Posted:Jul 12, 2019 6:16 am
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2019 10:01 pm

Forced Orgasms
Posted:Jul 12, 2019 5:15 am
Last Updated:Jul 12, 2019 5:53 pm
It’s been a few weeks since my first experience with forced orgasms. And ,fuck! I can’t get it of my mind! I masturbate to the memories. I edge to the sensations that awakened that one morning at the expert hands of .

I remember clutching Sunny (one of my stuffies) in my hands. had placed her there, right after cuffing my hands together and above my head.

I remember how hard I came the 2nd time. Not really ready but relieved that he allowed me to because “He needed His cunt to get lots of attention and love”.

I remember trying to close my legs when kept teasing my little clit with the Hitachi.

I remember not able able to move because me legs were spread open tied to the end of the bed.

I remember fighting my fourth orgasm. Begging with a broken voice “no, no, no.. ”. I remember growling and scolding me for telling Him what to do. “I own this cunt. I do what I want”.

I remember fighting the next orgasm, and the next one. Screaming and crying after each wave of pleasure, begging Him for mercy. “, please.. I can’t come any more”. “No. No. No. . Please…”.

I remember squirming on the bed trying to move away from and His toy.

… but then my mind explodes and… I don’t remember.

I don’t remember how many more times I came, but my body responding to each orgasm beautifully. My screams turning into deep, soulful moans.

I don’t remember laying still, welcoming the vibrations and convulsing rhythmically to the pleasure I was experiencing.

I don’t remember thinking of anything other than wanting to come some more. Because pleasure like this is how Heaven must feel. And I wanted to relish in that feeling for as long as I could.

Forced orgasms… I remember loving them… I remember wanting more.

Your Story....
Posted:Jul 11, 2019 11:47 am
Last Updated:Jul 12, 2019 5:46 am
~Beau Tauplin


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