Knickers in a twist
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Posted:Jul 4, 2016 10:38 am
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2019 2:09 pm 90568 Views
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At the weekend, I popped out to run some errands leaving my lover sleeping in bed. On my return, I ever so quietly opened the door to see if he was awake and found him lying there naked with a rather silly grin on his face.
Needless to say, one thing led to another and my jeans and thong were soon pulled down to my thighs, and I was laying on my back with my knees up around my ears and his cock deep inside me.
After a while, I decided to free one leg to give better access. Yes, I am that selfless a lover! A while longer the deed was done and once I'd regained a degree of control over my legs I stood.
And that's when I noticed that my left leg was in both leg holes of my thong and it was at the top of my thigh above my jeans. How on earth it managed to get like that as we fucked is beyond me.
Have you ever ended up with your clothes in a similar baffling twist?
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Chat up line #3
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Posted:Jun 30, 2016 5:41 pm
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2019 2:09 pm 92361 Views
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Can anyone tell me what a 'mm' is please? I've googled it and asked my mum and I'm still none the wiser. Perhaps I am innocent after all. Hmmm.
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Tales of the unexpected #4
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Posted:Jun 26, 2016 12:35 pm
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2019 2:09 pm 93620 Views
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A few months back now my lover and I had an amazing long, hard session where we fucked on almost every surface in the beautiful holiday cottage we'd rented for the weekend.
We'd been at it for hours and ended up with me squatting on the sofa using my arms across the back to steady myself as my lover fucked me deep and hard.
He came inside of me. Nothing unusual there. But, he did not lose his erection. He remained rock hard and continued fucking me for a couple of minutes which clearly I was rather pleased about.
Then, all of a sudden, he pulled this startled face and went completely still. I panicked slightly fearing his heart had given out or he'd slipped a disc or some other disaster that would require me to call an ambulance. I'd never seen him look this way before and was a little shocked when I realised the reason why. He'd come a second time.
Now I have seen men who have regained erections quickly and have been able to come again after a short while. But this was something new to me and also to my lover. He was left dazed and stunned for a long while afterwards.
I had wondered whether this would be a one off. It had happened without expecting it to and consciously willing it to occur again would probably mean that it wouldn't. But happen again it has although the first time was the best as it was so utterly surprising.
Have you ever experienced this?
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Flowers
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Posted:Jun 26, 2016 9:52 am
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2019 2:09 pm 70437 Views
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I will frequently buy my lover flowers. The latest bunch were white roses mixed with some colourful purply things pictured above. Irises I think. I'm sure the more green fingered of you will know what they are.
On all but the rarest of occasions the gift is for no specific reason. I just enjoy giving them as he enjoys receiving them. I like knowing that he will see them in the vase over the coming days and will think of me and know he's in my thoughts.
But, on other occasions, when I've given men flowers they have been quite taken aback and have seen the gesture as strange. An affront to their masculinity it would seem. Something that girls don't buy for boys.
Do your gifts to lovers conform to gender stereotypes?
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Chat up line #2
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Posted:Jun 6, 2016 3:26 pm
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2019 2:08 pm 131020 Views
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I received the message above this morning on alt's sister site.
Er no. For a start, it's a Monday and like a huge percentage of people I was at work with a busy day ahead of me. And even if not, I would most likely have plans and not be sat around waiting for such an invitation. And again, there is no attempt to get to know me as a person or engage in any kind of conversation.
Whilst my preference is to meet relatively quickly to test whether the all important chemistry is there, I am wary of meeting someone on the same day we first have contact. This stands even if we have exchanged multiple emails and texts in a very short period of time and the signals are good.
The way people respond over a period of time is important to me as is their response to me not replying to their messages within minutes. Warning bells sound if someone chases every 10 minutes especially if they start getting stroppy or insecure.
I do appreciate that others have different wants, different MOs and different circumstances so I am not judging those who do meet on the same day or soon after. Each to their own. I just know that that approach doesn't feel comfortable to me.
Do you have minimum (or indeed maximum) timeframe for exchanging messages before you'll agree to meet someone?
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Chat up line
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Posted:Jun 6, 2016 2:07 pm
Last Updated:Jan 13, 2019 11:06 am 126672 Views
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'I like to dominate'.
That's all the email said.
One liners like this do little to attract my attention. There was no detail. No attempt to engage me in conversation. Not even an attempt to get me to submit to his will. Just a simple statement of fact from his perspective. Delete.
But what got me thinking was that the email was from a 22 year old man.
Whilst I have dommed both older and younger men, all bar one of my experiences where I have been dominated have been with older men. The exception being with a slightly younger man where we would switch within the relationship. I'm not the slightest bit submissive but I do like to be dominated. There's an important and key distinction in my mind.
So, could I ever see myself being dominated by someone so much younger and (and here's me making an assumption) with so much less experience of life? My conclusion was no.
Perhaps it's unfair and unjust of me but I cannot see someone who, frankly, is young enough to be my to have the presence of character to dominate me.
How important is age/life experience to you when choosing a play partner?
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The best I'll ever have
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Posted:May 6, 2016 11:13 am
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2019 2:08 pm 232899 Views
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I frequently get contacted by people who tell me that they'll be the best whatever I've ever had. They'll make me cum harder than anyone ever has before or they'll fuck me better than anyone ever has before or they will simply be the best at going down on me. You get the gist.
For me, statements along these lines mean an automatic pressing of the delete button.
My experience has been that people who make these bold statements are generally lacking in confidence (and often skill) and don't live up to their claims.
I also get a little annoyed if I'm honest that they make assumptions about my experiences to date and that they can better them. Perhaps they can but I'm wired a particular way and they cannot possibly understand what works for me just by reading my profile and looking at my pics. What gets one person off can leave another completely cold.
Best is also a fluid thing. The best sex I'd ever had 10 years ago would, frankly, be relatively dull and unimaginative today. Best when I'm in a feisty mood is different to best when I've had a hard day and need some loving affection.
Do you think you can define 'the best sex ever'?
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Terminology
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Posted:May 1, 2016 2:16 am
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2019 2:08 pm 245216 Views
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Our wonderful world of kinkery has its own terms and the people I speak to most are fluent in this language. So I sometimes forget that others may not understand. A few recent examples for you.
My boss wanted me to run a new project. He'd come up with a grand sounding name for the initiative which he shortened to D.P. I flatly refused to run an area called this (mostly as I couldn't see myself talking about it in a work context without giggling). There followed a rather awkward conversation to explain my reasons.
I was out for dinner a few weeks ago and ordered the spit roast. The waitress started to giggle as did we. Very immature but very funny. My dinner companion recounted this to a friend and was met with a blank look and, again, had to explain the term.
I was out the other day and commented on a number plate which included the letters FWB. My friend had no idea what the abbreviation meant and even when I said friend with benefits she had no clue what I was on about.
What kink terms have you used in the vanilla world that have been met with similar blank looks?
AFTERNOON UPDATE: And at the garden centre this afternoon I spotted this...
Silly alt has deleted the pic...it was a rose call 'golden shower'
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Numbers
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Posted:Apr 28, 2016 1:02 pm
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2019 2:08 pm 253149 Views
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For years now, I have flatly refused to disclose the number of lovers I have had if someone asks me. There are three main reasons for this:
1) Past experience tells me that people are either shocked or intimidated (or even both).
2) I actually stopped counting a long time ago. I have a broad idea but I no longer know the precise answer.
3) I think it's irrelevant as a measure of experience. I could have had 100 lovers and only ever had sex in missionary position with the lights off. I could have had only 1 lover and have experienced every kinky scenario under the sun.
However, there was a recent deviation from this during a slightly inebriated discussion with my boss in a hotel bar. We were chatting about my love life when, without prompting, he revealed that he had slept with 8 women in his life. It then accidentally slipped out that I have slept with more women than he has. Cue shock and intimidation.
Do you reveal your number to people?
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A blank canvas?
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Posted:Apr 28, 2016 12:22 pm
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2019 2:08 pm 228805 Views
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A few weeks back now my lover tied me to the bed and did some wonderfully wicked things to me. The detail a subject for another post perhaps.
At the end of the session, my bum was deeply marked thanks to a riding crop and a ping pong bat. I enjoyed feeling and seeing the reminders for a good long while afterwards.
Some lovers like to ensure that all marks have completely faded before they add more whilst others are quite happy to layer mark upon mark. What is your preference and why?
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