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random musings of a fiery spirit on a journey

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Posted:Jan 9, 2019 8:55 am
Last Updated:Jan 12, 2019 2:53 pm
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I am interested in making real life connections with WOMEN. I am lesbian not remotely straight nor bisexual. Women only. Please respect that. I live the lifestyle in real life, not online.

I am a single professional educated independent feminine masochist property. I have been active in the lifestyle community for many years across the country. I currently reside in coastal Beaufort County, SC. (Hilton Head Island, Savannah, Charleston area.)

I am open to meeting mature females who are active in the lifestyle as friends. I am open to meeting female tops, dominants, sadomasochists and sadists (40's-60's) who are active and experienced in the lifestyle as friends and possibly select play-partners. I have references. I'm always looking to explore new munches, communities, and events with good company.

Ideally I hope to meet a mature single educated professional feminine lesbian who is an experienced and active lifestyle Dominant and Sadist (sensual S&M/sex positive, not abusive.) A woman who also desires a loving monogamous heart based relationship with a lifestyle dynamic. Ownership/marriage minded. A life partner relationship not just a dynamic. I enjoy travelling and would happily do so to get to know a potential partner. Relocatable too.

There are many paths and layers within the BDSM lifestyle. My interests are just as varied. I have an insatiable appetite to experience, learn, and grow as person, within a relationship and within the realm of sensual S&M. Consistent structure and goal-orientated discipline pave the way to a shared enlightenment. There too is a masochistic streak; craving for the challenges, releases, and pleasures from receiving pain. It's a powerful means for connecting with my submissive spirit; it's cathartic. It's from there the dominant and protective aspects of my daily life are humbled and cleansed from my being; where I may return to my happy loving carefree highly sexual girlish authentic self. No matter my pretty verbal musings, I am still very much a deviant with all kinds of twisted ideas and delights. Deep discussions, intellectual discourse and intimate soulful exchanges are not only enlightening and intense but also thrilling and fun all at once. Live for those ah-ha moments, laughing out loud, and those wonderful moments when the world melts away and I am safe to be soft, free and beyond my wildest dreams. I am seemingly full of contradictions yet underneath them all the simplest intentions linger in optimistic hope. As a self-accomplished capable independent woman, I have a challenging personality with independent thoughts and opinions. Yet, at the root of all the cerebral antics lies within a very soft core that longs for a lasting exchange based on honesty, trust, love, and intimacy; where discipline, structure, communication and consistency are the doorways to explore mutual desires. The desire to serve and yield to one woman does not make me a lesser person. There is empowerment in submission; one becomes more, not less in the evolution. At least that is my ideal of a healthy relationship with a foundation of power exchange. Connection is everything; it is fundamental to the reveal my authentic self and all diverse colors and chords. Though it is my nature to be submissive it is not my nurture. I am not a brat, nor a switch, nor a dominant. Yet I am spunky and brightly spirited. I am capable and independent; doing what needs to be done to get what I want out of life. In the nature of my work, I am the person of power and responsibility; blessed to be so trusted, I'm very passionate about it. My humor can be brash; I can be awkwardly blunt or tap-dance around the flames until I'm tossed into the fire. I adore the fire. My alpha armor is just that, armor. I am not for everyone or just anyone. I have limits, rules, deal breakers and healthy boundaries as should my potential mate. At best, I am an acquired taste for a discerning palate with an insatiable itch to scratch - me.

My Ideal Partner
• Feminine Lesbian • Mature (40-60)
• Single professional female desiring a long term committed relationship with a woman. If I can't meet your work colleges or family as your wife/partner we will not be compatible for a relationship. My belief is that lifestyle dynamics belong among the lifestyle community only. I understand and practice professional and familial discretion.
• Dominant in daily life not just the bedroom, head of household, rigorously honest, independent, self-sufficient, disciplined, consistent, excellent communicator, intelligent, sophisticated, health conscious-fit, compassionate, emotionally available, loving, nurturing, maternal, romantic, passionate, deviant, twisted, sensual, highly-sexual, sadistic, primal, ritualistic, and spiritually minded.
• Educated, experienced and an active member of the BDSM community (5+ years preferred.) If you've never been to a munch/demo/conference/dungeon/play party we are likely not compatible for a relationship. Experience and skills are fundamental requirements for the things that we do.

Fortes and flaws; she is all woman. Her ideal is to share her life with ONE woman. She doesn’t let life lead her, she is not ruled by the past, thus living life on her own terms. She knows who she is, what she needs and wants in life yet is open to discovering the unexpected magic that living life can bring forth. She is bold, daring, brassy, and adventurous. She is culturally aware and has a sense of spirituality that influences her actions. She inspires with strength of character, intelligence, leadership, honesty, passion, grace and kindness. She is at peace with her dominant nature. She enjoys overcoming obstacles and challenges. Chaos is not something she invites to her door; rather she is prepared to weather the storms that may come. She has a commanding presence; not demanding. She loves being in control. She has a passion for the kind of control that is forceful and specific yet loving and rewarding. She has a primal aspect and is a loving ethical Sadist. She is fearless in letting go; revealing her own vulnerabilities as a sign of strength. She believes in love; she can receive and give love fully. She engages in the intimacy of deep thoughts and discussions sharing her knowledge and experience. She loves to laugh and live out loud. She creates; she builds. She knows the rules yet thinks outside the box and thus uniquely finds the best approach for success in all her endeavors. She is the essence of the BDSM lifestyle but it is not her whole life, it is merely an expression of all that she is. Her house (her life) is in order; she actively masters her own life. For all that she has become, all that she has accomplished in this lifetime, this woman is not yet satisfied. She has yet to discover the one woman that can walk at her side, complementing her drive, spirit and tenacity. She has yet to know the one that can touch her soul back exponentially to all that she gives. She craves a partner for life with a fiery soul that burns for her and her alone. She longs for the yang to her yin, for mutual fealty-the merging of wants, needs, and desires in complement. She desires one as equally as she is desired in return. A companion, a lover, a life-partner, and dominant lifestyle counterpart, this elusive woman is the life mate for my fierce and fiery soul. When our paths collide, our journey will begin.

I've been told I've set the bar much too high. I've been told this painting by words reveals much about myself. Exactly. Yes. Very true. If you feel some connection to what I've written please feel free to contact me.
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