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persistent pesky pins
Posted:Jun 17, 2019 12:27 pm
Last Updated:Jun 18, 2019 3:32 pm
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resistance is futile. rather. its grown futile.

the thoughts. the thinking deeply. wandering. wondering. spinning most days. the moon is here in her fullness. the inner feral wild is howling. itchin. scratchin. damn those pins.

refuse to recall the day. after the 21 days. stopped counting. searched high and low. piled them high. built a fire. burned them to ash and all that remained were the springs. found a few stragglers. put them in the keepsake place with the other items that just can not be discarded. one of the pink and purple ones. of course. not since then. not once used. not once self abused. roughly four months later. still think of them daily. become part of the dna.

perhaps there greater challenge is to endure the pain of absence. reach deeper to find pleasure. the sunshine helps. the bright blue skies. basking shamelessly bare in the pool waters. wave after wave. over and over. catch a glimmer. a wiggle. a randy grin. head to toe power twitch. mother nature always finds a way to remind. the more she sparks and fans a flame. the more the grrl itches. wonders. wanders. and howls at the moon.

there is a tidal wave of unexpressed bang at the dyke. breathes. a deluge. atwood has a quote. cant find it. but it fits. then. read all the others "a word after a word is power"-filled options that linger in my mind like anthems. all those planted seeds. damn that gardener. fire starter. fortes and flaws. sighs. alas. never mind.

persistent pesky pins.

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A lil bit about fiery ...
Posted:Jan 9, 2019 8:55 am
Last Updated:Jun 24, 2019 6:13 am
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Single professional educated independent feminine lesbian. More than 31 flavors but certainly a rather heavy masochist with handful of babygirl.

I am open to meeting and spending quality time getting to know a mature single educated professional feminine lesbian who is an experienced and active lifestyle dominant/sadist (sensual S&M/sex positive.) A woman who also desires a loving relationship with a lifestyle dynamic. Ownership minded. A life partner relationship not just a dynamic.
Zero interest in on-line games and dishonest people. I'm the real deal and am only interested in communicating with those who live the lifestyle in the real world.

There are many paths and layers within the BDSM lifestyle. My interests are just as varied. I have an insatiable appetite to experience, learn, and grow as per, within a loving nurturing "for-keeps & forever" relationship, to share the depths of my submissive heart, body, mind, and soul with my Owner, Sadist, and loving partner. Consistent structure and goal-orientated discipline pave the way to a shared enlightenment. There too is a hungry masochistic streak; craving for the challenges, releases, from receiving her most wickedly wonderful pleasures through pain. It's a powerful means for connecting with my submissive spirit; it's cathartic. It's from there the dominant and protective aspects of my daily life are humbled and cleansed from my being; where I may return to my happy loving carefree nature and authentic loving caring highly sexual girlish self. No matter my pretty verbal musings, I am still very much a deviant with all kinds of twisted ideas and delights.

Deep discussions, intellectual discourse and intimate soulful exchanges are not only enlightening and intense but also thrilling and fun all at once. Live for those ah-ha moments, laughing loud, and those wonderful moments when the world melts away and I am safe to be soft, free and beyond my wildest dreams. I am seemingly full of contradictions yet underneath them all the simplest intentions linger in optimistic hope. As a self-accomplished woman, I have a challenging perality with independent thoughts and opinions. Yet, at the root of all the cerebral antics lies within a very soft submissive core that longs for a lasting exchange based on honesty, trust, love, and intimacy; where discipline, structure, communication and consistency are the doorways to explore mutual desires. The desire to serve and yield to one woman does not make me a lesser per. There is empowerment in submission; one becomes more, not less in the evolution. Humbled by her darkest pleasures shared; never humiliated. At least that is my ideal of a healthy relationship with a foundation of power exchange.

Connection is everything; it is fundamental to the reveal my authentic self. Though it is my nature to be submissive it is not my nurture. I am rather strong willed, often stubborn, and jam packed with spunk and spirit, but I am not a brat. My humor can be brash; I can be awkwardly blunt or tap-dance around the flames until I'm tossed into the fire. My alpha armor can be perceived as challenging. I am not for everyone or just anyone. I have limits, rules, deal breakers and healthy boundaries as should my potential mate. At best, I am an acquired taste for a discerning palate with an insatiable need and desire to live in love, scratch all our primal itches, and a constant craving for "cake" that yearns to be satiated. I was designed for one and truly believe she was designed for me. The yang to yin. True complements that thrive upon and with each other, together.

My Ideal Per

I hope to meet a mature single educated professional feminine lesbian who is an experienced and active lifestyle Dominant and Sadist (sensual S&M/sex positive, not abusive.) A woman who also desires a loving monogamous heart based relationship with a lifestyle dynamic. Ownership/marriage minded. A life partner relationship not just a dynamic. I enjoy travelling and would happily do so to get to know a potential partner. Relocatable too.

I am open to meeting mature females who are local to me and active in the lifestyle as friends. I am open to meeting female tops, dominants, sadomasochists and sadists (40's-60's) who are active and experienced in the lifestyle as friends and possibly select play-partners. I have references. I'm always looking to explore new munches, communities, and events with good company. Though friendships and play-partner opportunities are possible with women who are otherwise attached, I do not serve, cater to nor play with males. I am not well-suited for random hook-ups nor pick-up play either.

My Ideal Partner
• Single Feminine Lesbian • Mature (Mid 40s-60s)
• Professional female desiring a long term committed relationship with a woman. If I can't meet your work colleges or family as your wife or partner we will not be compatible for a relationship. My belief is that lifestyle dynamics belong among the lifestyle community only. I understand and practice professional and familial discretion.
• Dominant in daily life not just the bedroom, head of household, rigorously honest, independent, self-sufficient, disciplined, consistent, excellent communicator, intelligent, sophisticated, health conscious-fit, compassionate, emotionally available, loving, nurturing, maternal, romantic, passionate, deviant, twisted, sensual, highly-sexual, sadistic, primal, ritualistic, and spiritually minded.
• Educated, experienced and an active member of the BDSM community (5+ years preferred.) If you've never been to a munch/demo/conference/dungeon/play party we are likely not compatible for a relationship. Experience and skills are fundamental requirements for the things that we do.

Fortes and flaws; she is all woman. Her ideal is to share her life with ONE woman. She doesn’t let life lead her, she is not ruled by the past, thus living life on her own terms. She knows who she is, what she needs and wants in life yet is open to discovering the unexpected magic that living life can bring forth. She is bold, daring, brassy, and adventurous. She is culturally aware and has a sense of spirituality that influences her actions. She inspires with strength of character, intelligence, leadership, honesty, passion, grace and kindness. She is at peace with her dominant nature. She enjoys overcoming obstacles and challenges. Chaos is not something she invites to her door; rather she is prepared to weather the storms that may come. She has a commanding presence; not demanding. She loves being in control. She has a passion for the kind of control that is forceful and specific yet loving and rewarding. She has a primal aspect and is a loving ethical Sadist. She is fearless in letting go; revealing her own vulnerabilities as a sign of strength. She believes in love; she can receive and give love fully. She engages in the intimacy of deep thoughts and discussions sharing her knowledge and experience. She loves to laugh and live out loud. She creates; she builds. She knows the rules yet thinks outside the box and thus uniquely finds the best approach for success in all her endeavors. She is the essence of the BDSM lifestyle but it is not her whole life, it is merely an expression of all that she is. Her house (her life) is in order; she actively masters her own life. For all that she has become, all that she has accomplished in this lifetime, this woman is not yet satisfied. She has yet to discover the one woman that can walk at her side, complementing her drive, spirit and tenacity. She has yet to know the one that can touch her soul back exponentially to all that she gives. She craves a partner for life with a fiery soul that burns for her and her alone. She longs for the yang to her yin, for mutual fealty-the merging of wants, needs, and desires in complement. She desires one as equally as she is desired in return. A companion, a lover, a life-partner, and dominant lifestyle counterpart, this elusive woman is the life mate for my fierce and fiery soul. When our paths collide, our journey will begin.

I've been told I've set the bar much too high. I've been told this painting by words reveals much about myself. Exactly. Yes. Very true. If you feel some connection to what I've written please feel free to contact me.
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