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More paintings
Posted:Jun 1, 2019 6:52 pm
Last Updated:Jun 5, 2019 8:06 pm
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Themiddle one is a bit different as it is textured


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Something Different
Posted:May 25, 2019 2:08 pm
Last Updated:May 30, 2019 9:33 pm
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I am experimenting with more styles


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And More Paintings
Posted:May 25, 2019 1:59 pm
Last Updated:May 27, 2019 9:40 pm
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And I keep painting




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And still more paintings
Posted:May 23, 2019 5:38 pm
Last Updated:May 30, 2019 9:31 pm
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This is blog 3 of my paintings





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More of my paintings
Posted:May 23, 2019 5:32 pm
Last Updated:May 25, 2019 1:52 pm
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This is my second blog post sharing my paintings.









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New hobby
Posted:Mar 29, 2019 5:40 pm
Last Updated:May 30, 2019 9:32 pm
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It was suggested I create a blog post to share my new hobby. So here we go




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Cutting The String
Posted:Jan 25, 2019 12:32 pm
Last Updated:Jan 25, 2019 12:40 pm
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A comment was made during a discussion last night that struck a chord with me. I wish I could remember the wording but I don't. Basically, it had to do with when a relationship ends but the contact between the two remains. It dealt with the Dom/Domme keeping the submissive around to fill in until other; shiny thing comes along.

This is something that actually shows a lack of respect for the one being left danging on a string. Submissives tend to accept this because of how deeply their to submit is and how strong they care for the Dom/Domme.
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Sex During First Meeting
Posted:Sep 6, 2017 3:12 pm
Last Updated:Oct 22, 2017 10:21 pm
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I am probably going to get some negative comments but that's okay because this is about my peral beliefs.
To start with I believe sex on a first meeting is a very poor idea, you know very little about the other per except what they have shared with you through online and other possible ways to connect other than face to face. Have I been stupid and not followed my own advice? I am embarrassed to admit yes I have not always done the smart thing.
I received a message from someone from another state saying he would see how well I could please him BEFORE we talked logistics. To me that means meeting, getting fucked and never hearing from him again. Now I have no clue is he is disease free. I have no idea of anything about this per so a meeting would be out of the question.
I have come to realize every meeting is, in fact, taking my life in my hands and if I ended up alone with someone from a first meeting and we went somewhere {hotel, motel, own home} I am then placing my life in the hands of someone I have just met. And I am no longer willing to take that chance.
Oh and by the way, when I told him I wouldn't have sex at a first meeting I was informed as a "Master" he sets the rules not me. Something I also disagree with until I chose to submit to this per/
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I am who I am
Posted:Sep 4, 2017 1:00 pm
Last Updated:Sep 26, 2017 2:13 am
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Was reading a blog post written by someone I see in chat and it triggers thoughts and memories of my own experiences concerning the topic. The topic being submissives having opinions and speaking out.
Guess what, I am a submissive and that doesn't mean I checked my brain at the door. I have thoughts about a wide variety of topics and when they get brought up I speak about my thoughts. If people have an issue they don't have to listen that is their right just as it is my right to speak.
I have been told I am too opinionated to be a submissive, well again guess what. People have opinions and **gasp** I am still a per. And again people don't have to listen to my opinions.
What I am not is a doormat. I will not play the whole I can't think for myself please think for me role. Doesn't work for me.
I t will take a strong self-confident man to deal with me and I know that, but I wouldn't want less. But guess what, if and when he comes along I will honor him and hold my opinions to myself unless he wants to share them.
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Ageism in BDSM
Posted:Aug 23, 2017 10:34 am
Last Updated:Feb 2, 2019 8:49 pm
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I am a 65-year-old woman who is submissive by nature. My age hasn't changed that one tiny bit. I still have the need to serve and to please. But so often, especially on Alt I have been told I am too old to be a submissive as well as things like I need to go back to the old ladies home, I should sit in my rocker and forget. And those are the nicer comments.
Something that I find interesting in this is Doms my age and older are all chasing the ones in their 30s and 40s. And suddenly 55-year-olds have been interested in me. Some have even told me they would rather have a more mature woman who is past playing games and understands more about life. Isn't that interesting?
But guess what. One day you will find yourself being 65 and still be having these desires and needs. I can only hope when your day comes those around you understand that age doesn't make you less.
The point is I guess no matter what your age someone is looking at you and thinking you are too young, too old, too whatever to be in the lifestyle. Next time you find yourself reading someone's age and having those thoughts remember one thing, someone is reading your'sand judging you based on it as well.
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