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merrysfriend 30 M
4 Articles
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best way to brekaup   11/20/2018

anyone know the best way to cut a sub loose?


6 Comments, 55 Views, 22 Votes ,3.37 Score
Jag_60 60 M
84 Articles
Score 3.7
Real time, Playtime or no time   8/1/2018

Are you willing to put in the time to nurture a long lasting relationship or just sant to get your kink off and move on. Tons of over the top profiles and people satisfied with on-line gratification only. In the vanilla world there is a finite number of dates and intractions needed before a desicion is made to proceed or not and I am curious if you applied those standards here that your ...


5 Comments, 52 Views, 15 Votes ,2.82 Score
Jag_60 60 M
84 Articles
Score 3.7
Splitsvile   8/1/2018

True or False if you break up with someone, would you vouch for them with someone else.


3 Comments, 54 Views, 24 Votes ,2.45 Score
StrangerInEgypt 47 M
1 Article
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Why do women cheat and betray a mans trust??!!   7/2/2018

As the title says. <br><br> If you are a woman and you meet a man and tell him that it took you 53 years to find him and you decide at your own will to delete your profile .He is happy with that and believes you but tells you not to cheat or betray his trust at any given time and just tell him that you want to quit then do what you want after that But what you do is you keep growing ...


7 Comments, 125 Views, 24 Votes ,2.90 Score
thetiny1 50 M
1 Article
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sph   6/16/2018

when I joined i figured to just have fun with the fetish and be open . recently divorced i wanted to just go enjoy my freaky small penis humiliation. The breakup killed me and i just needed to have fun, so i started caming , and checking out all the intrests i liked. well it was cool to be open and honest and im glad i did.


0 Comments, 27 Views, 10 Votes ,2.79 Score
topekacbtslut 53 M
2 Articles
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Replaced and Dismissed   2/16/2018

I meet, and began to submit to Mistress Jo when I was only 17 yrs. old, and a day after my 18th birthday signed a contract becoming her property, and slave, and moved in serving her 24/7. Jo was at least 20 yrs. older than me, and a very attractive woman with a tight, athletic body. She was a lifestyle femdom, and had always had a house slave, bringing in young guys to fill the position. ...


6 Comments, 133 Views, 25 Votes ,3.80 Score
Satisfyed69 46 M
5 Articles
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Ladies   1/6/2018

What's easier for you to break up with a guy? Text them or tell them to their face?


2 Comments, 36 Views, 21 Votes ,2.88 Score
Tata2805 34 M
4 Articles
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Hola...   10/30/2017

Linda noche para cojerte


2 Comments, 24 Views, 17 Votes ,0.16 Score
dirtygirlAline 46 F
6 Articles
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pastures new   10/29/2017

any dog owning farmers need a sexy dirty girl


11 Comments, 145 Views, 30 Votes ,5.30 Score
andymo3 45 M
2 Articles
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should i call time   2/4/2017

hi should i call time on my relationship after 15 years im the only one working i pay all the bills and she wont work and is very lazy expects me to do all the cooking and that after a 10 hour day work shift ive never got any money after ive get payed she smokes so i have to cover that .........


8 Comments, 90 Views, 31 Votes ,1.99 Score
Lcd18 64 M
10 Articles
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The One that got away   1/26/2017

I read a post or a comment on this site i thought i'd get something off my

chest.i met a cd in '06 when i joined this site and another, we exchanged

emails he gave me his number, and i should have called but didn't i'm

wishing i had. we had a few things in common crossdressing and some other

things he looked hot and said he found me attractive.i called him 4 ...


1 Comments, 57 Views, 21 Votes ,2.51 Score
Does IM Play up for you.   12/28/2016

I have lots of trouble with IM..Here is a list of my issues..



* IM seems to crash.. * messages don't get through * I sometimes can't receive message from others in IM * Point are not easy to get

What are your issues with IM ?


4 Comments, 55 Views, 29 Votes ,2.14 Score
"Breaking up"   12/17/2016

"Sometimes hearts break in two. The laughter go's away.Keep your heart staying true.Again you will will find a smile another day.Just be yourself and keep emotion in your heart.Believe you will again find love.let the anger finally part.It will soon be happiness your thinking of.They say " Breaking up"can linger on.You just have to keep going.Your heart will always stay strong.With each day ...


7 Comments, 83 Views, 35 Votes ,3.33 Score
MistressRae1 48 F
1 Article
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Divorce   3/21/2016

I was with my husband/slave for 12 years and married 10 years. On November 20, 2015 he told me that he did not want to be married to me any longer and had stopped loving me 5 years ago. I think it was do to the fact that 5 years ago my health went down hill. I had a minor stroke in 2012 and i had back problems that caused me to not to be able to play with my slave.He also had a problem with my ...


7 Comments, 169 Views, 36 Votes ,2.72 Score
badgirlyes1971 47 F
5 Articles
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Whats to become of her now?   11/10/2015

For 8 months you have been her world. She served you. She did her best to please you. She went against her own limits to try to win your admiration. She trusted you like no one else in her past. She gave you herself. You were the reason she lived. Your smile is what made her heart beat. Yes she is me. Sitting here wondering what will become of me now that you are gone. You owned my heart, my body ...


12 Comments, 196 Views, 33 Votes ,3.97 Score
pancha13piedi 44 M
10 Articles
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blessing in disguise   7/14/2015

Breaking up can be a blessing. I recently was dumped and after the heart ache found ALT.COM and have opened my world up to new horizons. I have always dreamt fantasized about BDSM and most likely would have never tried it but now have the freedom to explore. Why not life is short


1 Comments, 64 Views, 23 Votes ,3.60 Score
chpabottom 53 M
11 Articles
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What did the time mean?   6/13/2015

Funny when you meet someone, and things evolve. Even when you know from the beginning that the person you entwine your life with is truly not the right person for you. Eight years later... nothing but turmoil... deceit... never a sense of feeling that they were ever truly the one who valued and appreciated the unconditional love and care that you provided them on a moment to moment basis. ...


4 Comments, 122 Views, 25 Votes ,3.35 Score
Where did you go?   10/31/2014

The other day I read a post by a lady who's Dom just up and left her without saying goodbye...just disappeared. Nor only is the a cruel way to break up but cowardly too. Hope his balls shrivel up like a couple of raisins.


9 Comments, 133 Views, 42 Votes ,4.31 Score
red_stiletto 50 F
8 Articles
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Lost Treasure   8/21/2014

She's crumbling on the inside Bit by bit, day by day, week by week Like turbulent waves crashing against her soul, corroding it

Truth, Trust, Belief, Respect, Compassion, Selflessness Where have you all gone? Dragged out with the tide and swallowed up by the watery depths

She dives into the deep, cold darkness of her soul, Searching in vain for her lost treasures But its too ...


4 Comments, 104 Views, 21 Votes ,3.50 Score
And then He was Gone   5/29/2014

I met him on this site. At the time, I chatted a bit and really did not think I'd meet anyone.

I met a guy, nice guy. I didn't sign on for a few months. Guy didn't work out. I signed back on.

And there he was. Semper Fi, indeed. He welcomed me back and said he had not seen me on for a while. So I told him about the other guy and he said he was sorry that it didn't work out, but ...


10 Comments, 305 Views, 33 Votes ,4.07 Score
eaglor63 54 M
1 Article
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Who is the worst in this relationship?   6/11/2012

I admit that I was wrong for sleeping with the other women. Those where meaningless and done out of need of affection that my wife wouldn't give. Each of the girls offered to bring in a girlfriend or a sister into the equation. One of them even invited me to be the only man at a bachelorette party. I did turn that down, because I was going to get married.

I have regretted getting ...


2 Comments, 117 Views, 17 Votes ,2.56 Score
VictoriousSecret 44 M
2 Articles
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JUST ANOTHER THURSDAY...   3/29/2012

i've been in and out of too many relationships. I've had my heart broken and have been disappointed as well. Over the years, for my hearts protection, i've accepted that peoplel just leave. In life or death, they're here today and gone tommorrow. So i enjoy the time i have with them. I just got out of a relationship in which i was engaged to a woman. Thought she would be the one. Circumstances ...


3 Comments, 109 Views, 20 Votes ,2.61 Score
PlainRae 33 F
9 Articles
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Unfortunately, it's part of life...   9/26/2010

I was in a relationship with a man that I met on this site. We were together for the better part of a little over two years.

When I met him, he had just gotten out of a marriage that he didn't want and he was in the process of filing for divorce.

At the time, he was England, but we both made sure that we would get to speak to each other frequently and we would send emails. ...


3 Comments, 295 Views, 33 Votes ,3.97 Score
zigzag12 46 M
1 Article
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"Greivance and loss in D/s"   3/27/2010

Grievance and loss in a relationship is a feeling I have felt before in vanilla relationships, but only just managed to define and understand with Myself and with the help of loved Oones but something I wanted to share here amongst Oothers that may already understand or can be aware of.

And for Me it’s the loss of My first submissive after 2 ½ years in a D/s relationship.

As ...


1 Comments, 81 Views, 13 Votes ,4.15 Score
joyrdassasin4 27 M
4 Articles
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Advice   1/29/2010

So i have been with this girl for about 6 months. I am no longer attracted to her. Whenever we have sex its not the same as when we first got together. Im not really sure how to tel her without hurting her feelings does anyone have any suggestions


3 Comments, 120 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
Arthand 56 M
1 Article
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closure is   1/28/2010

giveing or reciveing closure at the end of a relationship is so important , i can help heal both so as to not carry excessive baggage or wounded heart into the next relationshp !


3 Comments, 85 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
Volatile 42 F
4 Articles
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you are no longer needed...........   10/7/2009

It seemed a little darker then usual and when She summoned him it just was a little off. Despite the butterflies in his stomach from unease and bad feeling, a though of disobeying never crossed his mind. She summoned him – and that is all that mattered…

he was kneeling, naked, caged as he should be...he waited nervously and as the time passed, started to shiver...unsure why but he ...


0 Comments, 245 Views, 12 Votes ,5.63 Score
Freakkiness 38 M
4 Articles
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hows the best way to break up   9/12/2009

whats your opinion on the best way to end a relationship with someone


1 Comments, 132 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
tattman6 48 M
1 Article
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how to   11/27/2008

can you tell me how the saftest way to break up with a posesive woman is with out her going crazy i need to do this in a proper maner and need help i, m not in love and she is not what i, m looking for in a sub i need a real sub please help me if you can


8 Comments, 166 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
imyourho 44 M
1 Article
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feelings are real!!!   5/5/2008

I've come to realize lately that even though a woman, or man may be ok with a "no strings" relationship, their feelings may be the very thing hiding the truth from themselves, rather than them from you. If I could give any advise it would be this...what you're partner says and what you hear may have no bearing on what they mean! tread lightly in the ever ebing and flowing tides of human ...


1 Comments, 117 Views, 11 Votes ,4.48 Score
fluffycouple1971 47 C
1 Article
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Question   4/20/2008

Just wondering whats the worst storie someone has giving you for breaking up with you?


10 Comments, 277 Views, 19 Votes ,4.97 Score
nativesassy 46 F
1 Article
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Over but not   1/20/2008

I had been with mybf/fiance of nearly a year when he suddenly chose to break it off. Truth is I asked him if we were breaking up and he said yes, but it made him feel sad, so I hastily negotiated for 3 months since then he’s been an interesting person and I’m wondering if he really wants to see me or is he just going through the motions. Should I just release him from this relationship or ...


2 Comments, 167 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
kad20072 38 M
179 Articles
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Three Song set at the Strip Club   1/16/2008

There was a Gentlemen’s club just down the street called Mario's . I was looking for some excitement and was in the need to let off some ‘steam’. As I pulled into the parking lot, two beautiful young ladies were standing outside having a smoke with barely enough clothing on for a snowy night in New England. As I walked by to enter, we exchanged hellos as one of the two ladies, a ...


1 Comments, 65 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
kad20072 38 M
179 Articles
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Three Song set at the Strip Club   1/16/2008

There was a Gentlemen’s club just down the street called Mario's . I was looking for some excitement and was in the need to let off some ‘steam’. As I pulled into the parking lot, two beautiful young ladies were standing outside having a smoke with barely enough clothing on for a snowy night in New England. As I walked by to enter, we exchanged hellos as one of the two ladies, a ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
kad20072 38 M
179 Articles
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WE BREAK UP TO MAKE UP.   11/23/2007

Breaking up in any relationship/marriage is not the end but in fact the beginning of the relationship/marriage.I believe that nothing GOOD comes easy, we have to work extra mile to earn it.A relationship/marriage without misunderstanding, quarrel, Row or even a fight might not make real meaning for the partners. For a relationship/marriage to be Rock solid, there must be a shake up once a while ...


0 Comments, 27 Views, 0 Votes
david38372 49 M
2 Articles
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break   11/1/2007

up break


0 Comments, 38 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
kinkyboy9 38 M
1 Article
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ffffffffffffff   5/6/2007

hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh


2 Comments, 55 Views, 7 Votes ,0.49 Score
online fantasy   2/28/2007

why is it that there are so many pretending to want more than an online fantasy and when you try to meet them they say it is just more fun to keep it a fantasy thing and they never intended to really meet anyone?
isn't there enough folks that want that? instead of trying to trick those of us that want a real relationship?


3 Comments, 87 Views, 10 Votes ,5.18 Score
LustLover29 36 M
1 Article
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she beg for return   2/6/2007

i met a thai girl from a club , she is working as a pro. i book her out a few night and slowly both of us fall in love with each other . after a few weeks she went back to thailand and i visit her a 2-3 trips and even buy ticket to let her come to singapore 1 time every month . We have been 2gether for nearly 2years . i dont mind of her past just wanna to love her with all my heart . But ...


0 Comments, 163 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
RoughandMean 39 M
1 Article
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Break up via email......what the F&*%!!!   12/23/2006

Just wondering what people think of this. JUst happened to a mate of mine. He was sitting at work checking his emails when he recieved on from his girlfriend of 2 years saying that she no longer loved him and by the time she got home all her stuff would be gone.
Obviously she had been planning it for some time, since she had her stuff gone.
I just think its kinda ...


0 Comments, 412 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
blackenedheart 47 F
6 Articles
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Won't you die tonight for love?   9/19/2006

When I look at you I want to destroy your smile. It sits on your face like a lie. You look good, I want to know the truth about you. I want to get close to you. When I do, you see that I see right through you. Your heart beats like a small bird. You know me well. Thats why you can't handle me. it hurts me to act the fool. Pretend I don't see you for wot you are. All of you ...


2 Comments, 267 Views, 19 Votes ,3.78 Score
blackenedheart 47 F
6 Articles
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Think   9/19/2006

Do you ever get the feeling that you are being strung along? Dragging you by that string to your death? by wasting your time with bullshit and lies that feel good? Do you ever get that feeling? DO YOU? Ever at all? Do you think you'll be here forever? Do you think that wasting time is losing time? Do you ever think wasting time is gaing on your death? Not daeth that doesn't touch you, ...


0 Comments, 260 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
Sandrasweety 37 F
1 Article
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So... it's all over   6/19/2006

We were together for a year n a half. I found myself commplitelly changed in this relathionship. The old me, the one who was cheating on guys and was such a free spirit was gone. And, no metter how perfect he was, and belive me, he was, i yust couldn't relax and enjoy the whole thing. My cheatings in the previous life, life I had before him, were a safe place for me. Made me feal like I ...


0 Comments, 383 Views, 15 Votes ,2.52 Score
NibblesNLix 42 M
16 Articles
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Living with your ex!   5/6/2006

My ex girlfriend and I broke up about two and a half months ago. We noticed that we had drifted into a best 'friends who cuddle' zone. We decided to end our relationship so that we could put ourselves out there for others. We basically only changed the title of our relationship and became flatmates who still share a bed and cuddle and share all the bills except we aren't sleeping ...


0 Comments, 131 Views, 11 Votes ,5.97 Score
sepffia 43 C-2M
2 Articles
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this is a test   4/3/2006

this is a test


0 Comments, 51 Views, 1 Votes
sepffia 43 C-2M
2 Articles
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a clean way to dump a person   4/3/2006

this is a test, you can deny the submission


0 Comments, 112 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
jacque_gwrl 47 F
1 Article
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Is it my fault?   1/13/2006

Perhaps i should have seen it coming. Started this relationship with a very strong bang and it ended just as quickly. Living in two different areas doesn't help either and that is what really started this whole break up. He was a very determined man, but once his ego was brused that's it the world was ending. <br> my daily journal was starting to get rather depressing, the ...


0 Comments, 180 Views, 16 Votes ,3.42 Score
domcouple11 44 C
12 Articles
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DOMCOUPLE   1/8/2006

We prefer someone located close to us; however, would consider someone willing to relocate to be with in a 24/7 relationship.


0 Comments, 238 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
LadyDracora 38 F
1 Article
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Breaking up with your BESTfriend   11/21/2005

I just ended a relationship that never should have been put into a position where anything short of family getting physically harmed could effect it. He had been well WE had been eachothers bestfriends for 9yrs or more. And we had been through it all. We defined the meaning of truly being a bestfriend. He saved my life more than three times. We stood by eachothers side through everything. ...


1 Comments, 293 Views, 14 Votes ,3.14 Score
hdbeautysubx 56 F
2 Articles
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Getting him back i needed him so   11/15/2005

His name was Maxamilian Wood. His friends called him Max, Maximus or Maximum. I prefer Max. But, Maximum is humorous when used with my last name. Anyway, the following is the story of how I a long time exgirlfriend my name Baby came back into His life after dissappearing. <br> My mind was a million miles away. The bar seemed like a good idea when I left the house. But, I just sat ...


0 Comments, 126 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
sassafra2924 35 F
6 Articles
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A girl with fire, can't be around a drip like that!!!   11/9/2005

Following on from a previous article named free as a bird, i really wanted to follow it up with some helpful advise. This is for anyone who might have just come accross this article. some bored housewife or lonely soul, who's only escape was to join alt. Someone who's deep down habouring a need to deflect from the norm but is themselves trapped in what shell of a body the inhabit or ...


3 Comments, 506 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
sassafra2924 35 F
6 Articles
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free as a bird   11/8/2005

Breaking up is meant to be one of the hardest things to do, but after leaving a relationship and feelin free and floaty light its hard when mutual friends are waiting for you to crumble.. Its sad when the other person pol vaults into the nearest open arms bed and runs straight back tellin you what a mistake she was... breaking up is all about what you really needed to do for a long time ...


1 Comments, 106 Views, 11 Votes ,4.10 Score
ohioshow3 41 M
10 Articles
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love stinks   11/2/2005

i was seeing a woman for 8 months and things did not work out and she does not want to let go and makes me feel bad about it should i


1 Comments, 89 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
Trikester18 30 M
4 Articles
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Safe Sex?   10/30/2005

Did you know 37, 000 Americans get infected with an std everyday thats over 1500 people an hour. Basic facts before u think about sex. Double up and contraceptives are ur best friend. <br> <br> Tips for people


0 Comments, 198 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
Trikester18 30 M
4 Articles
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Breaking tips for Dummies 101   10/30/2005

Number 1 <br> U got to identify just wtf is going wrong in the relationship once u know that u can work from there. <br> Number 2 <br> Can the problem be fixed if not u got be straight forward on it dont be like i need time <br> Basic tips for dummies


0 Comments, 239 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
masternslutsub 62 C
26 Articles
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hurt   10/24/2005

I am sat here with eyes filled with tears my master/lover has just ended our relationship after almost 3 years. I feel such a mixture of things...but i feel so empty without him and so very lost. My life wont b the same without him.... how can u go from loving someone with all u have heart soul and body to chatty friends i dont if i can.......................


0 Comments, 210 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
fucknhorni 59 M
5 Articles
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why is it so hard?   10/22/2005

i have no ideal myself however , there is a answer to this question / need your feedbacks please people


0 Comments, 110 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
bigpun87 33 M
1 Article
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love from above   10/3/2005

today i've no need for word to show how i feel , the thing i knew is that i lo9ve youy morethan word can ever say.


0 Comments, 33 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
DougErin 51,1940 C
8 Articles
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Dumping an abusive Fiance   9/9/2005

I was engaged once and when I finally realized how wrong she was for me, I took a couple of days to get my thoughts together. I planned a time when it was just the two of us. I simply came out and told her that I realized I wasn't happy and wanted to end this before we each had any more invested in the relationship. I expected her to be mad, and she was. I never let myself get mad ...


0 Comments, 224 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
cuddles45 74 F
1 Article
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What now   8/7/2005

I had been a faithful submissive for a long time My dom stated that he loved only me but could not commit to a steady relationship of living together (not marriage ) He has now dumped me once again and i feel so empty, hurt, and fearful to trust any man to get too close to me again. As i am a loving person this is very difficult for me. I live a long way away from anywhere which makes it ...


0 Comments, 284 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
masternslutsub 62 C
26 Articles
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Talk   6/13/2005

My master and i have just been through the most awful 2 months. And inever want to go throught it again. We almost lost all that we had built up over 2 years. Just because we didnt talk about the simple things that get so easy get mixed up. So if u feel that its goin off the lines talk to each other and stop it before u lose it all. We where lucky and have managed ( i hope) to save what we ...


0 Comments, 332 Views, 24 Votes ,4.49 Score
tweaker86 33 F
1 Article
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Forever, doesn't mean FOREVER   3/3/2005

I dated the love of my life for over 2 years. I lived and depended on him, but now it's over and I have nothing. the breakup was completely my fault and had been a long time coming. I now had to move back in with my parents with no car, no money, and no job. I am screwed.


1 Comments, 512 Views, 27 Votes ,2.61 Score
Violently 44 F
2 Articles
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Unspoken Words   2/9/2005

Forgive me my Lady for being such a dumbass <br> Why should I forgive you <br> You shouldn't <br> Damned straight <br> I implore my Lady, that You will find Mercy in Your will for my wretchedness. Please don't leave me out here on my own. Please don't leave me without hope. <br> You damned yourself fool. Did you know Me so little to ...


1 Comments, 409 Views, 27 Votes ,3.98 Score
hOtCaRmElFuDgE 36 F
8 Articles
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When ur the innocance victim, " How do you move on and be friends?"   1/16/2005

About a Year ago me and my ex broke up its cuz i never said I love u. He told me it and I was speechless, but later that week I find out he's at a friends house that i met online and partied with. They become a item and date for awhile. It doesn't work out so he comes back to me. As a fool i did but to only end up losing him again to ur cousin/best friend. By this time around I was ready to ...


1 Comments, 170 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
BeoWulf_Ont 47 M
13 Articles
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Confused ... as always.   1/8/2005

Generally i just think I'm a sucker. been played more times than I can remember. it gets to thepoint where they all just meld together into one big confusing mess. It get's harder as I get older... 33 yrs old and I've never actually experienced a loving relationship. it tends to put you off of ever finding what you really need. My last relationship lasted 5 yrs. the longest I've had. ...


0 Comments, 256 Views, 20 Votes ,3.51 Score
i26 38 F
6 Articles
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short and intense   12/10/2004

In the past two months our worlds have become intertwined like nothing I have experienced. I suppose you grew used to me letting my world revolve around you, and yours mine. Your selflessness and even self-destructive nature wasn’t a problem since I was like an fledgling and needed everything done for me. Now I have a strong desire to be able to do for myself, as well as for you. ...


0 Comments, 176 Views, 26 Votes ,3.89 Score
i26 38 F
6 Articles
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Making love by the head stone   11/29/2004

Making love by the head stone The graveyard is a parable of Where we are soon to belong Dripping traces of lifes Dead history To many seems sick I think this makes the spirits sing <br> Shh.. A new life being spawned The silence so long Orgasm prolonged The ground is breathing In its heaving Becoming one with everything <br> Following down these ...


1 Comments, 108 Views, 37 Votes ,6.62 Score
joey_jo_jo 33 M
1 Article
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What a Bit@h!   10/14/2004

The day after i broke up with my ex she slept with my friend on a field.... do girls do this often or is she just a super bitch... i dont know?!


1 Comments, 86 Views, 39 Votes ,6.57 Score
it's a hard thing   10/13/2004

Nobody likes to be dumped, it's the bottom line! If your a chick and ure getting over a hot relationship, you start thinking if things can be the way they were. Face the facts he/she dosen't want you anymore try your best to find another mate and GET OVER IT!


0 Comments, 56 Views, 24 Votes ,6.31 Score
mastergenus 44 M
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When your Sub chooses to take off her collar   10/12/2004

Hmm, should I not be phased, or be emotionally hurt by my sub walking away? I was, and am. but why, this deeply? I think it is because in any solid relationship. Well let's break it down. Why? Hm I was told I was not consistant, I was not strict enough, and hard enough to truely break her down to the level of submission she felt she needed. Hmm and yet she asked to be collared, not ...


0 Comments, 158 Views, 15 Votes ,4.66 Score
SatanicQueen 61 F
10 Articles
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So bad yet so good!   10/11/2004

In answer to redass1979 which said: Why in the hell do people keep their significant others around when you come in here and get all this great stuff. I dont care how bad you treat one another. . There is no reason to be with someone in a so called "real" relationship if you are on here doing this shit. <br> Well you're here aren't you? doesn't that put you in the same ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
SatanicQueen 61 F
10 Articles
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Getting Over the Pain (trying to be friends after a breakup)   10/11/2004

Human emotions are not always your friend! It is only when people learn that nothing in life is worth an emotional distress to yourself, that they will begin to live life to the fullest. People come and go, relationships come and go. sure there are good times and bad times, but remembering the good times and moving on is better than remembering the bad times and wallowing in your own ...


0 Comments, 72 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
SatanicQueen 61 F
10 Articles
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Why won't he say its over??   10/11/2004

To CowboyAngel He's playing you like a chump that's why he won't say it's over! Keep ya hanging around just in case his other ventures don't work out! Be strong and tell him goodbye, you don't deserve what he is putting you through. Unless of course you just like being a puppet on a string!!


0 Comments, 38 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
SatanicQueen 61 F
10 Articles
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breaking up   10/11/2004

Well then desiredelf, if your sub has realized what she truly wants and is trying to come back, and you did say you love her, then why still carry the grief? Just consider yourself the winner of the tug-o-war and maybe in time she will explain to you why she handled things the way she did before she left. The ball is in your court now, I hope you handle it well.


0 Comments, 23 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
SatanicQueen 61 F
10 Articles
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response to: My last boyfriend   10/11/2004

Well mahalcock what did you really expect? People more so than not, seem like a dream come true when you first meet them, but can turn into a nightmare soon afterwords. People so often get boared with their other half and think the grass is greaner on the other side. Even quicksand doesn't look like quicksand until you step in it! Ever heard of spice? You should have tried to put some ...


0 Comments, 51 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
SatanicQueen 61 F
10 Articles
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Response to: nude college   10/11/2004

ok veevij, and screwing the mentor is bad how? If it gets them good grades, I say go for it!!!


0 Comments, 24 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
SatanicQueen 61 F
10 Articles
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Still Longing For Her .....   10/11/2004

It's not so much what you did to deserve what happened to you, but be thankful you have fond memories, and move on!


0 Comments, 45 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
BelleMorte 47 F
14 Articles
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RE: Getting over the pain   9/30/2004

Been where you are....This is just advise take it or leave it...Shrugs... As hard as the break up was bet. the 2 of Yyou it is now time to sit back, review things for awhile, discover for yourself what went right or wrong, store it in the back of your head, and then pick yourself up & move on... Yeah, Easier said than done...Probably the biggest change you can make for yourself is get in ...


0 Comments, 78 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
IrishPrincess4 56 F
13 Articles
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Re: What Happens When Honesty Fails   8/6/2004

Alan340....Let her be, if she is in the hospital for attempting her life, she will get the help she needs. Any contact from you at this point will send her back to the place she was prior to entering the hospital. At this point you just need to distance yourself from her. Based on what you say, it can't get better, it can only get worse. She is not balanced and may need medication to ...


0 Comments, 49 Views, 49 Votes ,8.14 Score
lookin4lotsofFun 43 C
9 Articles
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response to ex-husband missed out...   7/13/2004

So why were you such a prude? It is funny all the sex people talk about sex and the reason for infidelity but hardly ever the solution to it or preventing it. You are a good example, had you not been such a prude and been sexually active with your husband, worked at sex with him, being interested in it, being creative, playing, and having fun with it, you could have notonly saved a ...


0 Comments, 94 Views, 57 Votes ,7.71 Score
When is a slave not a slave?   6/28/2004

I recently had what i thoght was a male slave who's only wish was to serve the master. Our agreement was that if I could not look after my slave for any length of time or the slave proved unreliable then I would release him to find a new master. Owing to a sudden unexpected change of job i was placed in a position that my free time no longer was compatable with that of my slave. Doing the ...


0 Comments, 72 Views, 47 Votes ,7.32 Score
runupinya72 46 M
2 Articles
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love of my life ran off !   4/11/2004

all of my life i wanted someone like brandy.now she ran off with my children and we rarely speak.some days it's hard breath without her as my fresh air of life.baby if you ever see this i love you so much!!!nobody can ever replace you in my heart.i miss you, and our children.love always, me...


0 Comments, 34 Views, 13 Votes ,3.98 Score
SweetThing34 49 F
22 Articles
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Re: How to say Goodbye   3/3/2004

You're kidding right? Love...that word is tossed around far too carelessly. If that person "Loved" you there would be no need to say goodbye as a result of lying cheating using etc. Sweetheart face it they did not love you. So saying goodbye is the easiest thing to say if you truly were lied to etc. You cannot possably tell me that you love someone that you cannot trust because the two ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 47 Votes ,8.52 Score
synner667 51 M
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re: how not to break up   2/9/2004

your 'article' is a veiled excuse to tell a really crap joke, right?


0 Comments, 37 Views, 12 Votes ,5.45 Score
synner667 51 M
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re : to good to be true   2/9/2004

sorry, this isn't really anything to do with breaking up.. <br> ..however, this might have been better under the category of 'dating' or 'building a relationship' - where it would actually be relevant !


0 Comments, 37 Views, 15 Votes ,6.65 Score
synner667 51 M
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re : cheating in the bdsm relationship   2/9/2004

sorry to hear your troubles.. ..it's plain that the experience has affected you <br> it just goes to show that a bdsm relationship has the same rules as a vanilla relationship - honesty and communication. <br> trouble meeting bdsm partners ?? it's actually easier, with sites like alt.com - people put up a sign saying this is what i want and all you have to do is ...


0 Comments, 55 Views, 33 Votes ,7.19 Score
synner667 51 M
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re : what i miss most   2/9/2004

great article !! <br> i am keeping this to explain to others why people enjoy a bdsm life. <br> it's evocative of the depths that the master/sub explore and how it really allows people to share and express their desires - without being sordid. <br> thank you


0 Comments, 44 Views, 19 Votes ,6.03 Score
synner667 51 M
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re : Leave the person with dignity, grace and respect   2/9/2004

thank you for the great article.. <br> i think it's not a thought just for ending a relationship, but a guide throughout.


0 Comments, 51 Views, 16 Votes ,7.39 Score
synner667 51 M
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re : Don't give Doms a bad name re : Don't give Doms a bad name   2/9/2004

sorry to hear what happened to you, but if he's that immature, then you're best away from him. <br> your article shows that a d/s relationship is like a vanilla relationship and is based on the same rules - honesty and communication. <br> unfortunately, people in a d/s relationship are only human and carry their frailties with them ["wherever you go, there you are"] ...


0 Comments, 48 Views, 16 Votes ,5.92 Score
synner667 51 M
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re : giving her away   2/9/2004

great article. <br> i think you did the right thing, namely not trying to 'force' the relationship and having it end badly for both of you. <br> bravo, monsieur !!


0 Comments, 63 Views, 18 Votes ,6.26 Score
synner667 51 M
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re : Help me understand this! Why does he need more?   2/9/2004

well, it sounds very fishy to me.. ..a d/s relationship is like a vanilla relationship - based on honesty and communication. <br> considering the ratio of doms:subs, this won't be the 1st sub to contact him or the last. <br> if he won't/can't explain to you what "needs this for various reasons that he does not have to explain" refers to, then he's not being honest ...


0 Comments, 80 Views, 13 Votes ,6.00 Score
SweetThing34 49 F
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This may seem rude but...   2/4/2004

I cannot believe what I am reading! Ladies! What the hell is wrong with you? You meet some guy online, and decide that H/he is the be all and end all of your world? This goes out to those people that got "dumped" and didnt really get together RT much. Please...Where the hell are your brians? Did Y/you check them at the door when Y/you came home from work or something? the world ...


0 Comments, 92 Views, 61 Votes ,9.59 Score
veilpuss 44 F
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Do it with respect and face up to what you've done....   1/25/2004

my Master just broke up with me this weekend and i'm heart broken about it. It's not just the fact that He left, its how and why He did it. A past ex slave/girlfriend of His came back to town and He immediately dumped me to be with her. This is from the Man who only a few days earlier was telling me that i would belong to Him forever, that i was perfect for Him, that He could see me ...


0 Comments, 136 Views, 71 Votes ,9.22 Score
Spankmaster42 57 M
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Reply to Read the Fine Print   1/23/2004

I now where You are coming from - but reading profiles is not a strong point of M/most on alt. Yes, they A/all like to glance through them, but what they are looking at/for is beyond Me. I have had a couple of subs on alt, and each time they have changed their profiles to indicate that they are with Me, and have no desire to meet or cyber with any Other. Does that stop the wannabee Doms ...


0 Comments, 78 Views, 13 Votes ,6.33 Score
never complete breakup   11/3/2003

They'v got you by the balls for life.She, s got pic, s of you on your knees eating ass, your face in a toilet, chuging down lots of piss.I ran into woman i had worshiped a few times at gas station, she took the $45 I had went to her car saying get busy fuce face.I ate her asshole for 30min see her in 2 more yrs.


0 Comments, 109 Views, 47 Votes ,2.67 Score
mishashellshell 58 F
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Soon Baby, We'll have to Say Good-bye.   9/18/2003

You are all that I could ever want in a man, a Dom and a life partner. I trust you as much as I have trusted the one family member that was so very special and so important to my life delvelopment. As you have been. And I know that I have been somewhat important to you, as well. And that means the absolute world to me. And the more that I opened up to you, the better it became. You are ...


0 Comments, 58 Views, 54 Votes ,8.12 Score
Darkthoughts03 58 M
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Once upon a time...   8/14/2003

Once upon a time, <br> a handsome, daring Scorpio man met and began a relationship with a beautiful, sexy Aries woman. Neither was expecting to have an affair such as this. The sparks flew from their very first meeting, and they grew those sparks into a raging inferno of sexuality and emotion. They gave to each other all that they had, their bodies, their hearts, their souls. ...


0 Comments, 130 Views, 50 Votes ,7.38 Score
a note to You   7/22/2003

things that could have been, sometimes just aren't... i have learned the world is what i want it to be. we are what we are and what this life has made us. this hasn't been easy, but, it's made me much stronger for that and many reasons i thank you my Mentor...i thank you for letting me find my way and mend my wounds. <br> i hhope it brings happiness to you ...


1 Comments, 46 Views, 17 Votes ,4.54 Score
penni4yrthts2 59 F
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Dom occupied elsewhere   5/30/2003

I had my first experience with a Dom about a month ago. Being new to the lifestyle, I communicated my hard lines and he his. We talked and finally met. He was attractive and had a great sense of humor. After much talking throughout the evening, I decided that it would be o.k. for him to teach me certain aspects of the Dom/Sub relationship. I was with him for two days and it was great. I ...


0 Comments, 88 Views, 73 Votes ,8.92 Score
lovegrape 48 F
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I made a mistake, I am very sorry....   3/4/2003

To My Master: <br> I love you. I want to be your slave forever and ever. But I have needs you don't want to meet. You ignore my dreams, yet tell me to dream. You ignore my hopes, yet tell me to seek hope. You have told me you will never love me and that you will never marry me. You have told me you don't want kids, yet you know how much I desire children. You have ...


0 Comments, 82 Views, 83 Votes ,7.30 Score
To my dear Mistress   12/8/2002

This message I write, I know makes no sense to most people it is meant for my Mistress. I still feel your control after everything we have done to each other. I’m still thinking about you and still feel owned and your property. I am your slave at your feet where I belong, you are my queen im ready. To be the slave you can be proud of . Sincerely, Slave 20000


0 Comments, 66 Views, 27 Votes ,2.08 Score