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VANILLA SKIES OF PURPLE RAIN 11/25/2017
The vanilla skies were full of purple rain the day that MASTER
and I split. I was so hurtfully pained and saddened. The
man who filled my Vanilla Skies with my Purple Rain had taken
off his heroes cape. He had become a monster like those he
promised he was not like. Those who had tained my skies in
darkness, shades of dooming ebony. He lied, he snuck, he
had her--an intruder in my hearts place. I ...
7 Comments,
115 Views,
23 Votes
,4.30 Score
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Feelings you neve new you had till they come to the suface 9/8/2017
I had a master for 6 months but he does not use me because of
his other slave. but he is mor like a dad than a master I choose
to leave this weekend as I have listend to people who I should
not have listened to but im now scared that I have hurt him
so much as he has not spoke to me much. it huts so much knowing
I may have made a mistake I don't know hot to fix it as
I have done this before and ...
0 Comments,
88 Views,
25 Votes
,2.80 Score
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blessing in disguise 6/3/2017
Breaking up can be a blessing. I recently was dumped and
after the heart ache found ALT.COM and have opened my world
up to new horizons. I have always dreamt fantasized about
BDSM and most likely would have never tried it but now have
the freedom to explore. Why not life is short
1 Comments,
67 Views,
25 Votes
,3.57 Score
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To the Point 11/27/2016
Isn't being blunt the best way to go?
4 Comments,
57 Views,
17 Votes
,1.29 Score
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closure is 2/14/2016
giveing or reciveing closure at the end of a relationship
is so important , i can help heal both so as to not carry excessive
baggage or wounded heart into the next relationshp !
2 Comments,
90 Views,
11 Votes
,3.92 Score
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You only live once 8/23/2015
I know its a cliche but we only live once and the best way to
get over people is to either not care for them or move on quickly.
If people would just stay honest then there should never
be any reason for others to get upset. Usually dishonesty
and unrealistic expectations are the cause of breakups
dont you think? Although sometimes its not good for submissives
to think too much.
1 Comments,
81 Views,
17 Votes
,2.70 Score
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Slut Style!! 7/3/2014
I've been dating Jackson for 2 months now but I have
decided he's to boring in bed and I dont want to keep
sleeping around with his mates behind his back anymore.
So this morning after he left for work I thought I should
give his dad a heads up about what I planned to do. My boyfriends
dad is 63 and a retired alcoholic pervert that constantly
grabs my ass when I walk past saying things like ...
0 Comments,
124 Views,
8 Votes
,4.87 Score
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Advice 4/13/2013
So i have been with this girl for about 6 months. I am no longer
attracted to her. Whenever we have sex its not the same as
when we first got together. Im not really sure how to tel
her without hurting her feelings does anyone have any suggestions
5 Comments,
123 Views,
10 Votes
,1.99 Score
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break ups 3/14/2013
I know a few couples who start off with this life style, them
move into add others to their game, just to have them separate
some time down the track. As I am a sub, I wish to find a Mistress to serve 24/7 and to
only be a slave. i worry that it may turn into something more
on their part as it has done before, and in the end we went
our separate ways. Have other been here and how do you handle it
0 Comments,
54 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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end of a friendship 1/15/2013
My friendship with an amazing young woman I met here has
ended. While not a "relationship" I actually
felt more comfortable with her than with many of my girlfriends.
It was an email friendship, I guess a pen pal type thing.
That it was an email relationship let me open up more than
I normally do and I actually found it easier to open up. It
being an email relationship also was a ...
1 Comments,
125 Views,
14 Votes
,3.46 Score
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New poly relationship, jealousy issues caused breakup 5/15/2012
I pretty much had to get out of my relationship with my Master,
as I felt I was being neglected. I was depressed, blamed
others for making me this way, when in truth I just pushed
myself out of somewhere that I want to be. I told my former
Master that this type of relationship wasn't after
the fact that I allowed the other girl to move in.
I am now in a partial hospitalization program, ...
4 Comments,
200 Views,
17 Votes
,3.55 Score
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re : cheating in the bdsm relationship 4/22/2012
sorry to hear your troubles..
..it's plain that the experience has affected you
<br>
it just goes to show that a bdsm relationship has the same
rules as a vanilla relationship - honesty and communication.
<br>
trouble meeting bdsm partners ??
it's actually easier, with sites like alt.com - people
put up a sign saying this is what i want and all you have to
do is ...
0 Comments,
56 Views,
33 Votes
,7.19 Score
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getting over the pain 4/22/2012
I have recently broken up with someone who was very dear
to me, for reasons that I won't mention..I find it very
difficult to make the transition from being this beautiful
"couple" to now being just "friends"..I
am at my wits end, trying to find the happy medium in which
to conduct this relationship..I miss him terribly, but,
can't continue either..the relationship has not
beneficial to ...
1 Comments,
81 Views,
19 Votes
,7.34 Score
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RE: Getting over the pain 4/22/2012
Been where you are....This is just advise take it or leave it...Shrugs...
As hard as the break up was bet. the 2 of Yyou it is now time to sit back, review things for awhile, discover for yourself what went right or wrong, store it in the back of your head, and then pick yourself up & move on...
Yeah, Easier said than done...Probably the biggest change you can make for yourself is get in ...
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79 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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short and intense 4/22/2012
In the past two months our worlds have become intertwined
like nothing I have experienced.
I suppose you grew used to me letting my world revolve around
you, and yours mine.
Your selflessness and even self-destructive nature wasn’t
a problem since I was like an fledgling and needed everything
done for me. Now I have a strong desire to be able to do for
myself, as well as for you. ...
0 Comments,
176 Views,
26 Votes
,3.89 Score
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re : Help me understand this! Why does he need more? 4/18/2012
well, it sounds very fishy to me..
..a d/s relationship is like a vanilla relationship - based
on honesty and communication.
<br>
considering the ratio of doms:subs, this won't be
the 1st sub to contact him or the last.
<br>
if he won't/can't explain to you what "needs
this for various reasons that he does not have to explain"
refers to, then he's not being honest ...
0 Comments,
80 Views,
13 Votes
,6.00 Score
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To my dear Mistress 4/18/2012
This message I write, I know makes no sense to most people
it is meant for my Mistress. I still feel your control after
everything we have done to each other. I’m still
thinking about you and still feel owned and your property.
I am your slave at your feet where I belong, you are my queen
im ready. To be the slave you can be proud of .
Sincerely,
Slave 20000
0 Comments,
67 Views,
27 Votes
,2.08 Score
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The sooner the better saves hearts 4/18/2012
Always remember when you break up with somebody that you
can drag it out or wait, becasue it wont go away. You always
need to be honest and true to yourself and you partner. Thats
how I remain friends with all my ex's. But treating
them with respect and caring and being a friend even after
we've broken up.
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If you've beenbroken up wiht, value their honesty
and their ...
0 Comments,
126 Views,
49 Votes
,6.23 Score
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What Should I Do? 3/29/2012
I want to break up with my gf that i love, to go and have sex
with whoever i want. Should i just do it behind her back and
stay with her so i can have more sex later on.
5 Comments,
101 Views,
8 Votes
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hows the best way to break up 1/21/2011
whats your opinion on the best way to end a relationship
with someone
3 Comments,
140 Views,
12 Votes
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how to 10/3/2010
can you tell me how the saftest way to break up with a posesive
woman is with out her going crazy i need to do this in a proper
maner and need help i, m not in love and she is not what i, m
looking for in a sub i need a real sub please help me if you
can
10 Comments,
168 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score
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feelings are real!!! 10/3/2010
I've come to realize lately that even though a woman,
or man may be ok with a "no strings" relationship,
their feelings may be the very thing hiding the truth from
themselves, rather than them from you. If I could give any
advise it would be this...what you're partner says
and what you hear may have no bearing on what they mean! tread
lightly in the ever ebing and flowing tides of human ...
2 Comments,
120 Views,
14 Votes
,4.26 Score
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dissapointed 4/2/2010
I came onto this site hoping to have a good time.Obviously
you women are sick depraved jumped up middle class or worse
truly evil middle and ruling class that worship lucifer
and selfishness.Or maybe you are just nasty full stop.I
mean you offer them everything on a plate
and they just treat you like dirt.I wanted to be a submissive
to some sick depraved cow.I mean you illuminati ........ ...
4 Comments,
151 Views,
14 Votes
,0.42 Score
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It's Never A Waste If You Learn More of Yourself 12/26/2009
I met the most wonderful Dom. We emailed and then chatted
on the phone and eventually came to play. Initially our
time together was sporadic due to work and his other social
activities. The more we talked the more we grew closer or
so I thought. Throughout the 1 1/2 years we were together
there were many conversations and alot of sharing. But
after all the time i realized that our time ...
1 Comments,
361 Views,
26 Votes
,4.64 Score
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Best way to call it off with a Mistress? 12/16/2009
Is there an "offical way" to end it with Your
Mistress? Or is it like any other realationship?
3 Comments,
76 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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paths 8/12/2008
on two different paths we entered this life
our paths came together as husband & wife
In that beatiful forest your love made me see
just what I had all around me and what I could be
we walked down the path listening to nature's grand
chorus
always confident and hopefull for the future before us
as I looked into your eyes and on went these years
I never ...
1 Comments,
82 Views,
8 Votes
,5.33 Score
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trying to get my point across to my ex 8/12/2008
I broke up with my ex about 8 months ago. we stayed friends
and it worked well up until about 2 and a half months ago i
broke up with him because i found that i liked him more as
a brother type then a boyfriend he's a good guy. around
christmas he started get really clingy and started telling
me how much loves me and stuff. and not too long after i asked
him to stop taliking to me and to leave me ...
2 Comments,
123 Views,
6 Votes
,1.94 Score
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Three Song set at the Strip Club 1/17/2008
There was a Gentlemen’s club just down the street called
Mario's . I was looking for some excitement and was
in the need to let off some ‘steam’. As I pulled into the parking
lot, two beautiful young ladies were standing outside
having a smoke with barely enough clothing on for a snowy
night in New England. As I walked by to enter, we exchanged
hellos as one of the two ladies, a ...
1 Comments,
67 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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I love you but I had to let you go... 11/19/2007
I thought I will finally meet the man of my life. It all started
with exchanging e-mails then phone calls and finally we
decided to meet. He is 15 years older than me(I thought)and
he is really a gentle person. We made love on our first date
and it is really wonderful. He is a perfect gentleman and
I was really treated like a queen, he pampered me everything.
<br>
Then one ...
1 Comments,
117 Views,
122 Votes
,5.70 Score
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Limbo 11/3/2007
I have recently come out of an ltr. Things were wonderful
until I had to deal with some difficult personal stuff in
my head. Then, I began to withdraw a little, I guess a little
down. During this period, my girlfriend, who I truly loved, decided
to end things as I wasn't giving her the attention she
wanted. She did this on the telephone, (shitty but true),
but gave me a month in case I ...
2 Comments,
71 Views,
26 Votes
,6.80 Score
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