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sirraden1972 51 M
6 Articles
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EFFORT AND TIME   1/22/2017

IT TAKES TIME AND EFFORT TO BUILD A RELATIONSHIP. IT TAKES TRUST, COMMITMENT, AND COMPROMISE TO HAVE A GREAT REALATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARTNER.


1 Comments, 16 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
ddprincess 44 F
1 Article
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DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE DATING/NETWORK   1/12/2017

DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE NETWORK http://alt.com FORUMS BLOGS INSTANT MESSAGING VIDEO CHAT VIDEOS GROUPS FORUMS AND MUCH MORE


0 Comments, 58 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
Master_Big_D 54 M
2 Articles
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When chosing a sub, does race really matter?   10/27/2016

I'm open to any race that wants to be with me, but sometimes I get the feeling that the stigma of race is in the air when I'm searching for the sub to be with. I'm still first, and foremost, a gentleman, and a scholar ( college educated with a 3.0 GPA) , and I do dress to impress on first meets.


2 Comments, 41 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
buttlacky 76 M
10 Articles
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Second chance   9/25/2015

Just an expression of thanks for dominant women who give a guy a second chance after he screws up an introduction. Cheers.


0 Comments, 26 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
Wodwosen 68 M
1 Article
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Mescaline but Submissive Gentlemen, Can It Exists or Is It Delusional!   2/8/2015

I am a mature gentlemen in has late fifties who sees himself as being a mescaline man while a gentlemen by the nature of the way I was raised. But I am also sexually submissive to women and enjoy being dominated by a lady during play. I would like to ask you ladies out there can a man be seen as mescaline especially out in the vanilla word we live in, a gentleman with proper etiquette and being ...


3 Comments, 49 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
shekaass112 36 F
1 Article
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a real relationship   1/28/2015

what it takes to be with the person u love so much n yal cant not please each other and the person have to get alone with the person u love or fall in with n yal got to talk to each other n yal may have disagree sometimes that normal n yal have to support each other in everyway


1 Comments, 24 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
classactwilts 61 M
1 Article
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humiliating Sarah, the first time   4/12/2014

All my stories are true unless stated.

I do have a few ideas of fiction I would like to write and will do, sometime. For example about a man who can’t pay his debt to me and the consequences he has to pay, his wife for a weekend.

Another, hopefully amusing as well, about a lady who goes to something like and meets the people running it. They agree to have her for a day to tie ...


1 Comments, 338 Views, 16 Votes ,6.66 Score
sosexy38 40 F
2 Articles
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New to this   10/18/2012

Hi I'm new to this life and i got my first slave I'm looking for some help i don't what I'm doing having trouble controlling him so i ask all the doms & subs out there to share there know how with me


2 Comments, 147 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
MASTERTW1STED 51 M
5 Articles
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Building a Relationship through Humiliation   9/28/2012

Humiliation has many purposes in the training of a slave. One of the major reasons for using humiliation is to force the slave to push the "choice decision" she has made to obey her Master/Mistress and be subject to his/her will. It forces her to realize how deeply this decision is and how obedience is not always easy. This provides positive reinforcement.

Humiliation can have a positive ...


1 Comments, 375 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
GoddessKell 55 F
3 Articles
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TRUST, HONEST and INTEGRITY....   9/20/2012


Since I have been active in this lifestyle (8yrs) I have learned 3 important lessons in this wonderful lifestyle of BDSM and D.s; they are TRUST, HONESTY and INTEGRITY. I want to share this with anyone who will take the time to read what I have myself learned.
TRUST is an essential requirement in establishing a BDSM and ...


5 Comments, 336 Views, 24 Votes ,6.99 Score
Mollena 53 F
7 Articles
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Why dominants need welts, too!   8/11/2012

I recently read about a dominant who switches being tut-tutted by submissives who insist that they are not a "Real Dominant."





*shudder*

I also have heard dominants assert that they refuse to bottom.



Should someone who is not self-identified as a top or dominant ever switch?



In a ...


2 Comments, 127 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
slave20000 52 F
14 Articles
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I have loved!!!   4/18/2012

Yes, I have loved you, do I understand you?....some Do I love you? Yes, theres not a doubt in my mind. To love one is to give them time to grow, yes, I have grown. I told you I was proud of you, some yes, alot no! I thought you were different, perhaps, so was I. I wish you happiness, a waterfront property! For me its my family, you and my cubs. I guess we screwed up and ofcourse were ...


0 Comments, 73 Views, 18 Votes ,2.03 Score
slave20000 52 F
14 Articles
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My Public Apology   4/18/2012

Need to apologize, for alot. See ive made terrible mistakes, for fear...fear of myself. Ive done alot of growing...thanks to you and thanks to who have shown me I am. Maybe it was a dream. It was an honest dream. I knew id make it up to you and if you let me ill show you. Yes I snap, but, you like it that way...you pull the right string and stad the same wound. I will always be yours, for ...


0 Comments, 216 Views, 45 Votes ,2.50 Score
slave20000 52 F
14 Articles
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R diamonds a girls best friend   4/18/2012

Can wealth and diamonds realy fill the void in someones (a dommes) soul. i think NOT! i think the jewels will keep the domme entertained for a while, not very long though...it cant compare the true power exchange...in my life, i believe in the power exchange, i have lived it. can anything else even compare? how long will it take her to venture out and find the one thing that does make her ...


1 Comments, 240 Views, 32 Votes ,1.74 Score
MASTERTW1STED 51 M
5 Articles
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Twisted banter..   4/14/2012

We A/all know communication is the key to any type of relationship. So here's an example of how it works within a humiliation one, for those of you who don't already know..

Communicating with worthless pigs. As we all know, stupid slut females love to talk but are often very poor listeners. Teaching the cunts effective and respectful communication techniques should be the cornerstone of ...


7 Comments, 284 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
anenigmale 61 M
5 Articles
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Collars and Getting Over   3/30/2012

As I cruise thru this li'l playpen that is My life, every now and then, I find myself reevaluating, and sometimes even second guessing, my views about the most fundamental of my beliefs. Examining what my feelings were, are, and what, in fact, is still changing.. I had the opportunity of chatting with a lovely submissive the other night, and thought that the overall ...


0 Comments, 93 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Ben_Leads 59 M
1 Article
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Sensitive Dom?   1/7/2012

Hi and thanks for reading! Maybe you can help me? When I look at how I treat my "Toy" it feels like I am to kind... I enjoy the ideation of them being helpless and at my mercy! I enjoy satisfying their needs above my own.

Always believed that a "Sub" is the one that has the real power! Do you agree? They say how far they will go and when to stop!

What I am getting at is I feel ...


2 Comments, 178 Views, 15 Votes ,3.90 Score
colette77 46 F
10 Articles
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How soon is too soon?   8/14/2011

Do you think that you should give up everything all at once or space it over a period of time? I've thought about this from time to time. I'm an honest person really so I dont lie all you have to do is ask? So not letting someone know something about you seems decietfully almost. Not that you should give complete strangers your whole life story, but if you really think that this person is ...


5 Comments, 209 Views, 11 Votes ,4.10 Score
MsLise 53 F
3 Articles
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Lay down Ground Rules   8/14/2011

You have met Mr/Ms Right or Sub/Slave perfect...Now the work begins for both sides. If you are master/mistress...lay down the ground rules for the relationship....be it short term...long term...causal...24/7 etc. Don't assume someone knows something ...but it in black and white and you have no problems...You choose the path that needs to be taken for the situation but never leave out some form ...


6 Comments, 324 Views, 11 Votes ,5.04 Score
TomBonow 75 M
61 Articles
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New Gay Men   8/13/2011

Rainbow Power Today with the male homosexuality so out of the closet so to speak, the Adulteress affair might sound something like this. Hello Jim, is Carol gone to work yet? Susan left for her Seminar in the Bahamas, come on over you big Burt and bring that polish you got in your basket upright and ready, my asshole is quivering.


1 Comments, 25 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
oscarthegrouch3 49 M
3 Articles
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QUALITIES OF A SUB FROM A DOMINANTS VIEW   7/11/2011

When choosing a sub, what would be your wish list, if you had a top ten of qualities, traits which would endear a sub to you, what would you choose, what do you look for, is it personality, lack of perhaps, inteligence, looks?

What is the number 1 thing you look for?


4 Comments, 312 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
TomBonow 75 M
61 Articles
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Cooking at Home   7/8/2011

Cooking Honey is best! Roll your own and kept it in the family. A family that sleeps together stays together! Blood is thicker than water! Trust the ones you love, and the only ones you can trust are your family! Stick together forever and you’ll always have each it other; they only have themselves! Honey, did mommy leave to go shopping? Yes Daddy! Good, go put on the new red dress I ...


2 Comments, 104 Views, 11 Votes ,2.05 Score
MPCouple 69,1968 C
1 Article
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When The Dominant Becomes Gravely Ill   3/29/2011

I have been enjoying the total power exchange for 20 plus years with girlfriends, renters, other slaves and wives. I had prepared for the day by not totally destroying the slave’s own fire as some desire but to control her. Besides I like the ones with “fire” not the ones who are so totally submissive that you have to tell them everything. I did that when younger and found out it ...


2 Comments, 784 Views, 95 Votes ,8.42 Score
s1nfullynaughty 41 M
2 Articles
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The most important quality..   12/12/2010

As I have come to realize, there is one quality out there that is more important than all the other ones.. ESPECIALLY in this lifestyle..

I would suggest everyone try and get up to speed with this, as it will create a more comfortable, trusting, and exciting dynamic!

NEVER JUDGE!

Also, make it clear from the start that you don't judge people, and you'll be surprised ...


3 Comments, 172 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
zennflower 61 F
10 Articles
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Sub Drop-a very real phenomena   11/20/2010

"Sub-Drop" Over my experiences in the lifestyle it has never ceased to amaze and frustrate me how many people understand what 'sub-space' is, but have no idea what 'sub-drop' is. The truth of the matter is I discovered what it was by experiencing it, and asking for help. I was asked if I was experiencing 'sub-drop' and after a long discussion I was both relieved and worried, to admit ...


18 Comments, 953 Views, 68 Votes ,8.87 Score
BobWRuns 73 M
3 Articles
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Guide to Establishing Dominance Over a Male   8/20/2010

Guide to Establishing Dominance Over a Male 1/29/06 <br> This is intended to provide a guide in establishing and maintaining dominance over a male which can lead to development of a modern day slave. It is a process that can be used to develop dominance over a natural submissive applying to be a slave or an unaware, vanilla, non-submissive. How long it may take and ...


3 Comments, 910 Views, 16 Votes ,6.80 Score
MsPierced 50 F
3 Articles
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What it Means to be a Ma'am   5/16/2010

"Ma'am, all I want to do is be of service to You." Sounds familiar, doesn't it? But the real surprise to most people is that, in many ways, the Ma'am is in service to Her property. This contradiction in terms is the cornerstone of being a Dominant. I will be discussing Lifestyle, 24/7 Dominance and submission. These concepts don't necessarily apply to all situations or relationships, ...


3 Comments, 336 Views, 28 Votes ,7.86 Score
mischiefangel 64 F
1 Article
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Tall Ships, Shinning Stars, Brass Rings and Water Meter Covers   11/14/2009

Tall Ships, Brass Rings, Shinning Stars and Water Meter Covers.....

We all think that we know just what we want; just what we’d wish for if given a chance, but in actuality, how many of us get the opportunity to reach for that star shinning so brightly in the night sky or the magical carousel’s brass ring? How many get to board that tall ship and sail into our destiny?

...


3 Comments, 86 Views, 8 Votes ,5.10 Score
slave_david3 55 M
1 Article
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Learning to serve: the real life slave   11/5/2009

Having experienced serving many Mistresses over the last 5 years, a yearning grew in me to be a real life slave to a Mistress. I would think about this constantly, and the more a fantasized about the prospect, the more profound my yearning became. In fact, it became an obsession. The thought or being truly owned, both body and mind, the idea of giving total and absolute obedience in total ...


3 Comments, 206 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
steelbreezz2 68 M
12 Articles
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Finding "The One"   10/12/2009

I'd like to discuss a long time frustration of mine- women only interested in finding "The One".

Seems like a whole lot of women, submiisve or otherwise, won't have even a conversation with a guy if he can't be deemed immediately "The One".

Now I realize that nobody wants to be used or have their little heart broken, but really ladies, you need to lighten up.

Finding ...


3 Comments, 149 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score