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Jayne46 77 T
5 Articles
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Sex with transgendered   5/21/2005

I get tired of men that are afraid of their sexuallity and think transgenders are a way of having gay sex without feeling guilt. I get hit on by lots of "straight" men all the time. They want to date me and practically beg for a date. When it comes to a first meeting in public (a girl has to be careful) they usually don't show up. That is not only rude but also makes me feel bad. I've tried ...


5 Comments, 369 Views, 22 Votes ,5.05 Score
handyman692 69 M
2 Articles
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waiting for responses   5/18/2005

Why are most Doms / Domms rude? They don't even bother to respond, even when you are willing to service them in ways you would never normaly do. Still waiting to break my cheery.


7 Comments, 321 Views, 14 Votes
2lonely1 78 M
15 Articles
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First amendment to the U.S. Constitution   5/14/2005

Hi all, <br> While this isn't a rant in the usual sense of the word, it is composed and posted for the edification of all those who offer a rant, opinion, piece of advice or whatever, and then proclaim that their right to free speech is being inhibited when they get negative responses. <br> It's been said many times, many ways by many, many people who visit these pages: ...


2 Comments, 208 Views, 9 Votes ,0.65 Score
YimYim123 43 M
7 Articles
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So far   5/11/2005

Ive been on this site for about 5 years now, and have still to meet a soul!. I am looking for a loving relationship with a Domme but this somehow doesnt seem likely as the vast majority of ads here are offering a service in exchange for money, any way Im not just stuck on the net I also go to munches, they are ok and Ive met some nice freindly people however there are never any Dommes ...


2 Comments, 208 Views, 7 Votes ,1.26 Score
Kurse666 52 M
9 Articles
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Save us from ourselves Part2   5/11/2005

To the ones who have bothered to reply. <br> I am not full of myself. I just believe that having my say (good or bad) is my right. Most of us live in a place where freedom of speech is accepted! To the one who chooses to insult me for airing my feelings, you are the kind of person i am on about. You hide faceless behind a computer terminal and send insults and tell me that my ...


2 Comments, 179 Views, 7 Votes ,0.49 Score
Kurse666 52 M
9 Articles
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Save us from ourselves.   5/10/2005

Hi everyone who reads this. I have just read a couple of rants and they all appear to be the same. Fakers and collectors who are on this site advertising themselves as things they can only read about. How has the once glorious and secrative world of BDSM become a haven for freaks, sickos, pretenders, wannabes, collectors and dreamers? Well I beleive it is because of the internet. Whilst ...


2 Comments, 188 Views, 7 Votes
Mollena 53 F
7 Articles
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DOMINATE THIS!!!!!!!   5/9/2005

My friend, the lovely, tasty, succulent love-mango Khloe_P recently encountered one of the more clueless gambits leveraged by people who refer to themselves as “dominants” or “masters”. I have seen so many similar situations, and so many submissive people beat themselves up over this, I shall commence to rant a bit. <br> [rant] <br> “dominants” and ...


13 Comments, 517 Views, 31 Votes ,8.03 Score
mixtrixc 51 F
8 Articles
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Offhand remark is still pissing me off   4/30/2005

Okay, so I ranted mildly in my post to this advice question, but it's still under my skin, and pissing me off. Some chick was asking about wearing priest and nun costumes in sex play. Stating that she wasn't a Christian, she asked if it would be sacrilegious and then had to drop in a line about if priests are doing it to boys, why can't I. <br> What a stupid, ignorant, feeble ...


5 Comments, 378 Views, 12 Votes ,6.51 Score
CDloverPDX3 59 M
1 Article
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Explaining the infamous Cock Shots   4/26/2005

I detest the practice as much as the next guy (and feel for the gals), but I'm getting tired of people exclaiming bewilderment at all the faceless cock shots on ALT. <br> Hello! <br> Believe it or not, dungeon dwellers, most people who have an appreciation for BDSM still need to go to work, raise , and get on with thir vanilla lives and responsibilities. <br> ...


5 Comments, 271 Views, 14 Votes ,2.02 Score
SexySimone2005 51 T
2 Articles
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Unwanted attention   4/23/2005

Why is it when you painstakenly put all your details into your profile you will always get the person who doesn't fit your criteria trying to hit on you. <br> I have had a couple of unwanted admirers and I know its quite flattering but do they just look at your picture and think "hey, I wanna piece of that." <br> I know you can block these people but I am more ...


4 Comments, 204 Views, 9 Votes ,5.56 Score
mercykl 75 C
2 Articles
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Boys playing on cam....   4/22/2005

I annot fathom the countless IM's I have recieved that are playing instant gratification theater! Those fellows are second only to the masters who do not read profiles. <br> ARRRRRRRRGH!!!!!!


0 Comments, 71 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
virginia4500 57 M
1 Article
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Topping from the bottom   4/20/2005

"Topping from the bottom." I came across this phrase not too long ago and was floored by its simplistic accuracy. It sums up what I found to be the mindset of so many of the "subs" out there. Though most commonly practiced by males who proclaim to be sub but really want nothing more than a beautiful woman to either tell them how to fuck her or for her to stick something in their asses, ...


8 Comments, 417 Views, 18 Votes ,0.53 Score
YimYim123 43 M
7 Articles
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With regards to 'knew_me'   4/16/2005

Its true I also find this, male subs need to learn that they have one of the most pointless sexualities in the world as much of the time it eats your wallet and has no real arms to hold you in. Move on, dont give a shit and get on with your life, dont waste it worrying and feeling bad, just compartmentalize your sexuality in your wanking hand, so the fuck what?


5 Comments, 236 Views, 15 Votes
illicit_desires 49 F
1 Article
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sub/slaves with names of their master's in handle   4/13/2005

what is up with the sub/slaves that have their master/mistress's name in their handle...they get mean spirited with newbies that dont know and call them by their master/mistress's name ....why not just put it in their profile that they are owned by a certain master/mistress to avoid confusion if it is going to be that upsetting to them? some sub/slaves think having their master/mistress ...


4 Comments, 241 Views, 17 Votes ,3.55 Score
beguiling47 66 F
4 Articles
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You want it all?   4/9/2005

Help me understand this... a person is married and post a profile looking for partners that will give their mind, body and soul to them. The profiler wants a "soul mate." Hello, shouldn't that be your spouse. <br> I understand fulfilling fantansies, experimenting with others, enjoying your kink with another because it isn't that of your spouse, but don't bull shit people by ...


6 Comments, 258 Views, 15 Votes ,5.58 Score
Kissed35 55 F
7 Articles
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Messages from submissive men...?   4/8/2005

I think it's weird the amount of mail I get from submissive men. Men who state clearly in their profile that they are submissive. Either to dominate me or to be dommed by me....confusing. Many of them even have the word SUB in their screenname. <br> This irritates me as I clearly state in My profile that I am submissive! I wonder what are they thinking? <br> ...


5 Comments, 438 Views, 10 Votes ,5.38 Score
MistressTK 43 F
4 Articles
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Lose the L337 Speak!!!   4/7/2005

How many times has this happened to you: someone winked at you, you look at their profile, & their picture, & you decide you're interested. You wink back. They e-mail you & instead of writing coherently they constantly use "U" instead of typing out "YOU", "R" instead of "ARE", "2" instead of "TO/TOO" etc etc etc <br> <br> Do you have ANY idea how annoying that is? ...


6 Comments, 391 Views, 20 Votes ,5.42 Score
TheSlavePrincess 49 F
1 Article
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Task of Finding a Gift.   4/4/2005

I never thought I would be writing anything so open online, I tend to be much more reserved with my thoughts and feelings then to just put them up for all to read. However, I find myself in a bit of a dilemma and thought I would share with the world. Perhaps in sharing I can find what it is I am seeking and fulfill my latest task. Daddy has given me until Sunday to find Him a gift for Him ...


7 Comments, 301 Views, 10 Votes
dlb197633549 76 M
4 Articles
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Rejected Photos   4/2/2005

Ever wonder why you had a profile photo rejected but never been able to find out why? It would be, of course, because those who screen the photos are so exacting in their work that, if they have the slighest suspicion that your photo may not be of you, they will reject it, right? Not!!!!!! I just submitted the photo on the profile of "cleeburke" for review. It is the mugshot of Nick Nolte ...


7 Comments, 358 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
diehardinstl 41 M
3 Articles
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Advice responces   3/30/2005

I hve posted a few questions when i was looking for an item or advice on subjuect that my partner and I had intrest in but no knowledge or experience. I have gotten alot great advice but now I'm about to give some. <br> When you see an advice request posted that is talking about something that you don't know anything about...... KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT. <br> I posted ...


7 Comments, 209 Views, 13 Votes ,1.97 Score
submarinar 65 M
20 Articles
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Stop Crying; Redoux.   3/25/2005

Is once not enough? Must I keep repeating that when you post a question in a public forum, that you cannot expect everyone to agree? Of late, I've recieved e-mails here at ALT, and even seen post, of people complaining about my responses to their posting. All I can say is.....Ahhhhh, did I hurt your little feelings? Mean ole submarinar been too rough on your poor little ass? Well, ...


3 Comments, 279 Views, 10 Votes ,5.18 Score
wannagangbang4 57 F
2 Articles
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not being able to view the basic profile.   3/21/2005

i have noticed that i am unable to read some peoples profiles. not all of them mind you just some. even some of the profiles of people who have emailed me. is there some kind of block that members choose to keep their profiles from being viewed besides turning them off?


2 Comments, 199 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
melj 67 C
6 Articles
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Alt fails members   3/20/2005

I thought I would say my piece… <br> I read a lot of the postings and feel that most should post as they see fit… ALT does fail its members quite considerably in certain areas; “ObeyTheGuvnor” has pointed out in his post. <br> Having moderators who do their job in a timely manor would help, but taking into consideration all members not just a select few… ...


3 Comments, 192 Views, 13 Votes ,4.65 Score
numpty_spud 61 M
4 Articles
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Tolerance and consideration   3/17/2005

Maybe I'm just getting old (no comments please ) but when I started in the BDSM scene the "alternative" in "alternative lifestyle" implied a tolerance for other peoples sick warped perversions that the vanilla community couldn't be relied upon to have. <br> This doesn't seem to be evident in a minority of the members of alt. They seem, in fact, to have traded their strict, ...


9 Comments, 387 Views, 12 Votes ,5.98 Score
submarinar 65 M
20 Articles
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Stop crying!   3/13/2005

Okay, people, I've seen enough! Lately, a lot of folks have been crying about the "ALT police" or the "cyber detectives". Seems someone had the audacity to disagree with one of their brilliant postings! Can you imagine, someone actually had the nerve to say they didn't do something right! <br> News flash, bozos...it's a public forum. If you can't stand a little critisizim, ...


8 Comments, 314 Views, 12 Votes ,3.33 Score
nicles 40 C
1 Article
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Only the Good Die Young   3/8/2005

The title is only a catcher this is all about the freedom of all mankind. By giving our selves to jobs and schools and police and Government we are giving up our only rights we have. Your probably wondering what kind of asshole is writing this shit about freedoms. well ill tell you this one man here cant stand living with sheep Anymore. When you go to vote you are unwillingly addmitting ...


3 Comments, 193 Views, 6 Votes
MEDICALSCAT 57 M
3 Articles
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How many real lifestylers are on this site   3/6/2005

I will give you the stastics 102 views to my profile since December and 3 actual contacts from people. I know that I might not fit some peoples tastes, but I have also contacted people and have either not recieved any reply or the pesons tastes turn out to be compleatly different to what their profile claims. As a standard member I cannot afford to waste my points viewing people who are not ...


1 Comments, 156 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
numpty_spud 61 M
4 Articles
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Ten pleas for subs   3/4/2005

After I read subcuriousgirl's article about "Ten Tips for Men", which I found brilliantly funny, I thought I'd turn it on it's head. <br> Not nearly as funny but may help subs to get a little more out of the site. <br> 1: Tell us what you want. The more information you put in your profile, the better. If I'm not what your looking for I don't want to waste your ...


2 Comments, 224 Views, 12 Votes ,4.74 Score
BrendaB 65 T
7 Articles
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Boneheaded "Normal" people   3/1/2005

I should have put my article here instead. Not a personal rant just a comment on the people who think that their way is the only way to live, somehow it has become normal to pry into everone elses personal life and then make comments about it wherever in the media in public etc. I've heard idiots talk trash about other people as well as me. Somehow they think that by looking at someone ...


3 Comments, 137 Views, 11 Votes ,2.42 Score
martin_lindup 52 M
11 Articles
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Mulit posters   2/28/2005

Am I the only one getting totaly fed up of site members uploading larhe numbers of posts to one board at a time. In one case recently a guy submitted 16 posts in one day to the article section, all were erotic stories so shouldn't have even been there. I'm sure few take the time to go thru the pages to find 'older posts' so if your unlucky enough to make a ligitimate post on a day when one ...


3 Comments, 95 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score