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Pairadoxak 62 M
14 Articles
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Updates of the Obvious #6 - Fake Alt Profiles   10/2/2008

Alt seems to have “suffered” a rash of what appear to be fake accounts being set up within the past few months. Principally, these accounts seem to have certain commonalities – they are of young females who have professional quality nude shots. While there have always been some of these fakes, the massive deluge of late bring into question the whole concept of the site. However, I’ve ...


4 Comments, 175 Views, 17 Votes ,4.26 Score
MistresSandi5 53 F
2 Articles
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"trophy wife"   9/9/2008

I was recently chatting with someone who I actually gave a second chance to, the first time we corresponded he turned me off by things he said, so it didn't work out. I decided to give him a second chance, probably a big mistake now that I reflect back! I asked this man who says he is submissive, what he is looking for in a relationship. His response was that he was seeking a "trophy wife" one ...


6 Comments, 248 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
Miss_Chris47 71 C
13 Articles
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Bondage lovers normal, maybe even happier   9/8/2008

By Tamara McLean

August 25, 2008 03:37pm

AN unusual sex survey has found that Australians who enjoy bondage and discipline are not damaged or dangerous, and might even be happier than those who practise "normal" sex.

The research showed 2 per cent of adult Australians regularly partake in sadomasochism and dominance and submission-type sexual role play.

And ...


2 Comments, 65 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
rados43 39 M
7 Articles
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drivers   8/28/2008

the drivers in my city need to drive more carefully. when i ride my bike i always nearly get involved in some accident! grr


4 Comments, 53 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
farangdom2 53 M
1 Article
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instant messenger   8/8/2008

is anyone else having problems with im, having to keep logging in and out?getting quite frustrated with it.


1 Comments, 50 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
Miss_Chris47 71 C
13 Articles
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Alcohol is my hard limit   7/29/2008

I have been interviewing a young man from Michigan. Willing to travel 5 hours to be spanked. He was hoping for a corporal much like the old school negotiating how many strikes with a cane. For some reason I thought to ask him if he had been drinking. Perhaps it was the fact he kept repeating questions, I don't know, he admitted to drinking a little bit. I said to him well I do not permit alcohol ...


7 Comments, 199 Views, 10 Votes ,5.58 Score
slavegirl4u1975 49 F
8 Articles
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My pain, not yours, Don't judge!   7/24/2008

I recently posted some pics, of an amazingly fun experience. I have gotten quite the feedback on them. I have received some very negative comments on how I am crazy, and stupid for letting someone be that abusive to me.

Fist let me start with... 1) He is NOT abusive by any means! A sick twisted sadist(pursssss for Sadist Charming) maybe, but NOT abusive!!! 2)I ...



6 Comments, 196 Views, 20 Votes ,5.93 Score
Pairadoxak 62 M
14 Articles
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Updates of the Obvious #4   7/11/2008

- Telepathic I am not. Empathic I am (or try to be). Just because I can tell you need water or are about to drop does not mean I know what you want to eat or that you want to take our friendship to a new level. Talk. - I'm searching. Most likely, so are you. Until I find the person(s) for me, I am still searching. I don't expect anything different from you. - You want to go play and have a good ...


2 Comments, 31 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
Pairadoxak 62 M
14 Articles
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Updates of the Obvious, #2   7/11/2008

Sometimes, you think things can go without needing to be spelled out. Then, life throws you a curve and makes you reconsider. So, in that vein, new updates of the obvious:

- Relationships exist when both people agree to such. Until then, there is no relationship. Talking to me does not equal that I am your dominant. (That's a good thing, esp. since I talk to lots of other dominants!) It ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 0 Votes
lovelylisa205 54 F
6 Articles
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New voting system   6/27/2008

I think ALT should implement a new voting system. It should be as follows :

Excellent - great question

Excellent BUT - great question, don't like the member

Very Good - good question

So So - okay question

Dislike - don't like the question

Hate - written by a troll or about a troll

Disgusting - hate the question and the person writing ...


3 Comments, 110 Views, 18 Votes ,2.44 Score
libertine02 63 F
1 Article
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BDSM: Sickness or Lifestyle?   6/18/2008

BDSM: Sickness or Lifestyle? Written by: The Goddess Nibiru

I have been involved with BDSM in various ways since my late teens. My fascination with it began at 9 years old. The moment I saw Eartha Kitt donned, as her Catwoman persona, in head-to-toe leather, I was hitched. The pièce de résistance? ...


4 Comments, 97 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
AJW1 55 M
5 Articles
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It's been awhile   6/3/2008

Not just one of My favorite songs but also since I took time to breathe, think and write.

Life these days comes at U/us at such pace, it can be unrelenting, vicious harsh and yes painful in so many ways. Is this why as each year passes each generation becomes more encapsulated in the moment of "Instant Gratification"? Is the pace so fast that W/we dare not take our eyes off the present ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 0 Votes
lovelylisa205 54 F
6 Articles
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Words/phrases I never want to hear, AGAIN!!   6/1/2008

There are words often used in the magazine section that I would be happy never to hear again.

Please feel free to add to the list.

proof evidence false abuse reports archives clique tingods pack attack false claims shut your pie hole impendent (LOLOLOLO set the record straight liar facts fake spy truth



Did I leave any out?


4 Comments, 208 Views, 18 Votes ,4.35 Score
lovelylisa205 54 F
6 Articles
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A little Ditty ... Everybody sing!!   6/1/2008

Kott'n and Mog-dom Sittin' in a tree S I C K he and she

First comes hate Then comes lies Here comes kotton With 2 black eyes


4 Comments, 154 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
lovelylisa205 54 F
6 Articles
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How dare he??   5/31/2008

"It is not as important what others think about us, as it is that we do not do anything that violates our principles. If we live only by our principles when easy or all others are they loose the status of principles but become nothing more that guidelines.

I understand that you feel hurt and betrayed by me that I have caused you grave injury. I know that my speech leaves much ...



0 Comments, 81 Views, 10 Votes ,4.38 Score
MistresSandi5 53 F
2 Articles
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Here's my rant!   5/16/2008

So, I was wondering what other Dommes think when they are treated rudely by subs who contact them and then get bent out of shape because they feel you are "rude" for not responding, either at all or not as much as they would like? I have had this utterly ridiculous experience several times. I do have my auto reply on which has a very nice message saying basically, thank you for responding, I ...


6 Comments, 230 Views, 14 Votes ,3.62 Score
barryj43 80 M
24 Articles
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Hijacking threads   5/2/2008

Hijacking threads seem to be a favorite game of some people. Out of the blue they quote someone who responded to a thread and slander and slur this person completely ignoring the original question or rant.

I wonder if it is because it is their only chance they have to attack someone they have a disagreement with. Because of on going feuds they have probably blocked the other person from ...


4 Comments, 177 Views, 21 Votes ,4.86 Score
Pairadoxak 62 M
14 Articles
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"Updates of the Obvious"   4/28/2008

Sometimes, you think things can go without needing to be spelled out. Then, life throws you a curve and makes you reconsider. So, in that vein, here are some updates of the obvious:

- Relationships exist when both people agree to such. Until then, there is no relationship. Talking to me does not equal that I am your dominant. That's a good thing, esp. since I talk to lots of other ...


2 Comments, 87 Views, 7 Votes ,5.33 Score
barryj43 80 M
24 Articles
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Bigots   4/27/2008

I am a little perplexed these days. Why would narrow minded people with bigoted attitudes come to "ALT" and pass judgment on peoples lifestyles.

"ALT" I understand stands for Alternative life styles so why would a bigot remain if he or she finds thing not up to their standards of so called normalcy. I would think if the climate isn't to their liking they would go elsewhere for their ...


13 Comments, 182 Views, 12 Votes ,2.45 Score
barryj43 80 M
24 Articles
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Is "ALT " now an adult sex site or is it for folks in BDSM lifestyle.   4/27/2008

It would be nice if "ALT" was a BDSM site but the last couple of week there seem to be more and more new people coming in asking the most inane question about how to get their rocks off. Preferably for free.



It would be nice if these new people checked out the site and saw what it is about before jumping in and asking who wants to blow them, preferably without having to buy a ...


12 Comments, 248 Views, 21 Votes ,3.50 Score
suckUlantslave4u 56 F
3 Articles
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My opinion   4/6/2008

Perhaps if more people would purchase a membership, the site holders would have no choice but to up the perks and advantages we all believe, we as paying members should be getting now.

Everyone is entitled to their opinion, but it amazes me how anyone could think that they should receive what paying members receive. I don't know any profession or business that allows FREE anything ...


8 Comments, 314 Views, 22 Votes ,5.29 Score
MyLoveandPet 55 C
7 Articles
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Advice for the uptight and unsatisfied   4/4/2008

There are sooo many sad, unsatisfied, submissive men who wish their wives could and would understand them (lead them). bleash;

If I could get all these repressed, uptight, crazy women in a room I would tell them "Who fucking cares about what you do in private that no ones knows about any way? Why why why waste your life being unsatisfied? Life ...


0 Comments, 248 Views, 20 Votes ,4.91 Score
teachu2Bnice_27 62 F
5 Articles
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As My Comment is Likely to Be Censored, A Reply to We Cannot Afford to Be Silent   3/17/2008

Think its fair to say that if people are so weak that the words of others are enough to drive them off, then likely they were not meant to be here in the first place. So mock Asians, extremist or even, religious fanatics (ah yeah sure most know of at least 'one' such CHARACTER) really should be viewd as little threat. However if their tactics should ...


10 Comments, 255 Views, 25 Votes ,3.13 Score
teachu2Bnice_27 62 F
5 Articles
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Have You Heard? Ms Blah Blah's Back!!!!   3/12/2008

But make no mistake, Lisa. You have not been missed so much as to shift focus off of suck and onto you. Nice try though. Is it hot where you are Lisa? Pressure getting to you yet, dawn? LOL Yeah know it is and is exactly why you had to come back. Try and save sucky from being outed. Pity you arrived much much too late! lovelylisa1 What was that post ...


0 Comments, 81 Views, 11 Votes ,2.42 Score
Incantatrice_Gio 52 C
4 Articles
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Sucky and the truth   3/11/2008

To all that have been following in one way or another the utter tripe that is being spouted by the 'only real person here' SUCKY.

Once I know that there is an audience watching I will paste the link to my previous handle of over 2 years ago and you will be able to see that 'sucky' hasn't changed one bit in the fact she still insults people, accuses them of being fake, having multiple ...


18 Comments, 279 Views, 21 Votes ,3.25 Score
lovelylisa205 54 F
6 Articles
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Six and counting ........................................   3/11/2008

For those interested, I have assembled the multiple profiles of babbsy. I don't doubt there are more, and I will reveal them as I uncover them. teachu2b, 2expose, workyou, amandadevil, 2punishyou, and dadsluve4katie.

Yes, the names are intentionally incomplete or spelled wrong. I don't want to offend anyone. She does have a short fuse, you know.

Already I am blocked from at ...


31 Comments, 601 Views, 20 Votes ,0.06 Score
Incantatrice_Gio 52 C
4 Articles
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BDSM at heart   3/11/2008

In a galaxy far far away..............

Just a little rant about how we in the BDSM community seem to be the third class in society.

Why is it that being a member of the BDSM community and living the lifestyle is looked down upon by most. Is it because they don't understand or are afraid of who we are?

To come out of the BDSM closet to friends and god forbid family seems ...


7 Comments, 111 Views, 11 Votes ,4.29 Score
lovelylisa205 54 F
6 Articles
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I'm baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaack!!!!!!!!!!   3/10/2008

Hi, BinB!!!! Did you miss me? I see you have been very busy spreading filth and venom all over the place. Exactly how many profiles do you have now? How do you keep track of them all? Do you have them on a big piece of paper and play "Pin the tail on the profile" to determine which one to use? Who is taking care of the wee'un while you are chained to that computer? Or has she been taken ...


18 Comments, 382 Views, 17 Votes
Incantatrice_Gio 52 C
4 Articles
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Pay up!   2/29/2008

I have been on Alt now for a fair few years (over 7) now with one profile or another.

I recall when Alt started they were really strict on the mention of money and such.

Now it seems that people proudly post that a tribute is expected for their services or are quite blatant about charging for it during chat or emails.

Did I miss the meeting where it was agreed that Alt ...


12 Comments, 206 Views, 14 Votes ,4.74 Score
teachu2Bnice_27 62 F
5 Articles
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The Pathetic Little Life of a silly little man!   2/22/2008

A so called dominant comes to the advice lines seeking some momentarily attention. Somehow along the way he gets it but then quickly decides it's not what he bargained for and promptly turns on another. One that no one would seriously believe would ever have anything to do with his kind. This tiny little spineless mouse of a would be "man" posts vicious and hurtful "facts" about ...


0 Comments, 104 Views, 13 Votes ,3.65 Score