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How to use SAVE IMAGE AS 8/11/2023
When I am approached by a Mistress, the first thing that
I do is run her profile photo by a number of on line registries.
Take, for example, a domme who emailed me last night. Her
ALT profile situates her in Redding, California. I used
Save Image As to download her profile photo to the desktop,
and then used both Tineye and Google images to do a search.
There was a positive hit, for ...
19 Comments,
334 Views,
85 Votes
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Meeting in Public First 8/9/2022
I think it is important to meet in public first to see if you
like one another then being in someone's home. You
just never know if you like one another. Of course you will
experience no shows but that is part of dating process so
expect it. I know I heard horror stories. So becareful out
there. So how do you feel meeting in public first? Just Curious.
15 Comments,
355 Views,
65 Votes
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Public 2/29/2024
Always meet in public first wouldn't you say?
9 Comments,
124 Views,
48 Votes
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A Chat with an Ewhore 9/23/2023
The following is a direct cut/paste from a Google Hangouts
chat log that I recently had with someone who IM'd me
on AdultFriendFinder. It has been reported AdultFriendFinder.
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<br><br>
Ross - 3:28 PM OK, I am on here Rose Garry - 3:29 PM Hello Ross am here with you too Ross - 3:30 PM I can see you are very pretty, you don't have to keep
sending pics Rose ...
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174 Views,
85 Votes
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oohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh 5/11/2022
The most effective ways to earn points are to encourage
other members to become your Top Fans, send you virtual
gifts, or by broadcasting your webcam. Members can tip
you points for a great show! Try some clever approaches
in your profile text and communications to gather Top Fans
and gifts!
7 Comments,
100 Views,
60 Votes
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Legal troubles 4/12/2011
There is another type of safty issue that needs to be addressed
here. This is not so much for those new to the lifestyle,
though I'm sure many of that stary-eyed rank can benifit
from this. I however have seen many older members of this
community fall into this trap time and again. The issue
is of underaged dating without realizing it.
<br>
Do not get caught by this!! If the ...
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1781 Views,
165 Votes
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What steps do you take to be safe? 8/26/2010
Ok I am to the point in this I want to meet the other person.
My question is how do I go to be tottaly safe in the meeting?
6 Comments,
292 Views,
3 Votes
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GAGOL 11/19/2022
Most people struggle with finding their identity at some
point in their life. They go through a series of changes
and eventually come to a point where they understand and
accept who they are. Before they can accept themselves,
they may experiment with new things or try to ignore a part
of themselves they do not want to accept. Gogol Ganguli
from Jhumpa Lahari's novel The Namesake encounters
the ...
5 Comments,
143 Views,
46 Votes
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Safety 101: Is He For Real? 1/17/2020
Top ten signs that the "Dom" who just messaged
you is not for real:
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1. He initiates your first email or IM conversation with
a command. This is called the "On Your Knees Now"
routine, and it's the hallmark of a really clueless
HNG (horny net geek) or "chudwah" (clueless
hetero dom-wannabe).
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2. He gets belligerent, rude or angry if you ask a question
or ...
5 Comments,
468 Views,
28 Votes
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Extreme Abuse 11/3/2023
If you say you are no limits are you in danger of not coming
out alive? <br><br>
Could any NO LIMITS slaves tell me what their experiences
are. And if they have got more cautious as a result of their
lack of limits. <br><br>
Thank you
4 Comments,
94 Views,
66 Votes
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Mother fucker or Dom? 10/31/2020
How to define them? Very simple,
look to their attitude;
Mother fuckers are unable to grow their subs.
They want to get them already educated.
Real domes are always keen to teach, train and grow.
Mother fuckers usually are worry about the level of experience
of their subs.
Mother fuckers ...
4 Comments,
701 Views,
25 Votes
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How Do I Find a Dom/Domme/Master/Mistress? 11/28/2009
Before you even start looking
for a Dominant/Domme/Master/Mistress. Know yourself,
what your desires, your wants, you needs, your limits and
what you are looking for in a Dominant/Domme/Master/Mistress.
It's a good idea to actually write these lists out,
that way while you are talking with them you have the answers
right there and don't have to rely on memory. ...
4 Comments,
247 Views,
28 Votes
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Violence and reality for trans 12/28/2023
This year, world-wide, 331 transgenders were slain. Here
in the united states, twenty-two transgender people were
murdered. Ninety-one percent of those folks were trans-women
of color. Eighty percent were younger than thirty years
of age. We know that these numbers represent an undercount.
In many counties and regions police reports, media and
even blood relatives misgender and deadname ...
3 Comments,
150 Views,
108 Votes
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Chancing an eggshell ambience 9/4/2019
I have recently visited my local BDSM club nights twice
and once to a munch. The munch was very relaxed but I was still
observing etiquette in this situation. I have found the
club nights very nerve wracking as if I was walking on eggshells.
Granted the first night with a Halloween theme went well
and I played with two women, lucky me. The last 'Burlesque'
themed evening I was smiled at by a very ...
3 Comments,
146 Views,
10 Votes
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Use your common sense 3/7/2024
When looking for an experience on this site, just use you
common sense things are easy to spot and if your are unsure
stay away and be safe.
2 Comments,
47 Views,
25 Votes
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asked for money 1/18/2024
How many people her have been asked for money. The other
day a woman was very sad that she couldn't her rent
at a hotel, she didn't get paid till friday. She said
she was in a hotel, because her husband her, but when
I said I was sorry hear that, and if I could see, she disapeared
from the chat, but stayed onlinr.
2 Comments,
107 Views,
69 Votes
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dirty 10/9/2023
making sure everyone here is clean and want to meet and checking
things out to make sure you are real not a scam.
2 Comments,
66 Views,
43 Votes
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safety 1st 8/29/2021
its always good 2 b safe o a date when meeting someone over
the net. U never know if they are some stalker psycho lol
or anything like that so always b careful... n always wrap
it up
2 Comments,
56 Views,
20 Votes
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Safety in Meeting Men for BDSM 12/29/2016
Comments on Safety in BDSM MJ Reldan TheSmartDom
Our society began with women as chattel and slaves. It hasn’t
set a good scene for safe, sane and consentual play. Some
men feel that acceptance of their dominance is permission
to hold ALL power and worse, license to wield it recklessly.
The world of Dominance gives shelter to people of poor character
and sick mind, with little to ...
2 Comments,
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38 Votes
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It could have happened to me 3/12/2010
There is a book entitled "Anyone You Want Me To Be"
I suggest...eveyrone buy it Dom and sub alike. The reasons
I will go into now.
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When I was a brand new submissive, I made about every error
one could make. I met someone claiming to be a Dom on AOL...He
lied about being married and having the usual things
I had found out leter. He wanted me to come out to Nebraska
and ...
2 Comments,
253 Views,
79 Votes
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Hotel Room Info 12/7/2008
A large number of people use hotel rooms when meeting new
people for play, but do you know how important it is to keep
the hotel room cards you get for your doors. These cards
have all the information on them that you gave the clerk,
including credit card number and expiration date. It has
your home address, Phone number, liscence number, and
everything that someone could use to steal ...
2 Comments,
357 Views,
16 Votes
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Warning for UK/London based members 12/28/2023
I got messaged by an American girl based in Virginia stating
that she was coming over to London next week and she said
later that she worked with an organisation affiliated
to ALT that hosted orgy parties and the like. When answering
my questions she was very vague and was evidently trying
to grab money off me. Later another account from someone
in LA responded with exactly the same thing. This ...
1 Comments,
106 Views,
45 Votes
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First meeting 8/29/2022
I believe a first meeting should always take place in a busy
location were numbers can help make anyone feel safe.
1 Comments,
206 Views,
8 Votes
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Ohnun wrote thousand letters to the submissive and masochistic 4/10/2021
Part two of IngYang Pussy.
Soon the buns in form of Her Pussy was named as Ya.
The buns became very popular in the region and the town was
renamed as Ya (after the very popular juice Ya).
IngYang when it renamed itself inYa has got improved his
self-esteem too much and too far.
In the result all citizens of Ya became very fat from eating
the buns Ya.
...
1 Comments,
81 Views,
7 Votes
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About Whites 4/10/2021
In his first work day on Saturday,
American Whites woke up at 6 a.m. .
The Sun was already frying the gray day with all its possibilities.
The coldest shower was used to cry: “Have a nice day
Honey”.
After he has inserted his head into the black mask of a cat’s
face, and hands into vinyl gloves,
the schoolgirl’s skirt was put on his hips; the white ...
1 Comments,
412 Views,
5 Votes
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Safety is a Rwo Way Street 9/7/2019
Safety on dates is really a two way street. I am not a small
guy and in very hard condition. While not a giant I know how
to care for myself and I have the alpha attitude that keeps
most respectful.
I am selective about who I meet and who I date. I don't
send money to on line contacts with tear jerk tales. Have
had those from east and west in USA as well as Russia, Nigeria
and ...
1 Comments,
134 Views,
8 Votes
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profiles 5/10/2011
I would like to point out to people that if they do not fill out their profiles with any details,
then they are possibly setting themselves up to be over
looked. However I do wonder what the point of writing this
in the magazine as most of the readers are people who have
put alot of time and effort into revealing important details
about themselv
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38 Views,
4 Votes
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looking 5/22/2019
sometimes we have to look farther and look into what we have
in cumming sometimes it take bdsm to get to know someone
better and get alone and try new thing and explore new thing
with them. getting to meet someone the first time it take
time to get to know them and get to see what they are into one
you get to know them and see what they are into many doors
open to you and you feel more open to ...
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54 Votes
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my enslavement 1/3/2015
I was coming from the store after picking up a couple packs
of smokes. As I came up the street I saw a bunch of cop cars
on the street in front of the crib. I stood at the corner watching
hoping they weren;t at my place. Soon I saw two cops dragging
my boyfreind out and throwing him into a car. I knew then
going home wasn';t a good choice.
I walked the streets for a bit finally going ...
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308 Votes
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safe sex 8/14/2012
ok so its been a "viral video" with a woman on
there saying all the guys she has infected with aids. but
yesterday on the radio she called in a cleared it up and said
it was just to get more people to view her site and that she
is 100% percent clean. She also said that this was to inform
peole that aids is real and is still going around. SO WRAP
IT UP PEOPLE PLEASE
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