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The Advice Line lets you ask all those questions you always wanted and then get advice from all the members of Love Hurts.
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balborius 59 M
1 question
Score 0.0
How come - 4/30/2018

That to them, you're just a freak, like me! They need you right now, but when they don't, they'll cast you out, like a leper! You see, their morals, their code, it's a bad joke. Dropped at the first sign of trouble. They're only as good as the world allows them to be. I'll show you. When the chips are down, these... these civilized people, they'll eat each other. See, ...

13 response(s), 36 votes
sub2younow 62 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Profile pics - 4/28/2018

Just a quicky...guess that's why I am denied orgasm... Anyone else having their photos disappear? Was there one minute and then just a gif.

16 response(s), 29 votes
daz69696969 50 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
is anyone else having messenger issues - 4/28/2018

Hi is anyone else having messenger problems ?

16 response(s), 28 votes
SinisterBoss 54 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Vegas still a good stop? - 4/25/2018

I live about an hour from Vegas, and have met a fair share of people there from all over the country, but it seems not as many people are heading this way now. What does everyone think? Is Vegas still a hot spot for couples to come and have fun?

9 response(s), 17 votes
MrRopeWorks 67 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Profile denied, wtf? - 4/19/2018

I did an update to my profile following which it was denied. I can't see any reason for the denial and the more I look at it the more baffled I am. I'm hoping someone can help me out and tell me what is objectionable in the update. It reads as follows; <br><br> Another update - With all this talk of master/slave, training, etc. maybe I should clarify. I really don't have ...

17 response(s), 39 votes
albanynycouple51 62 C
19 questions
Score 0.0
rope coarse n hard , soft n silky - 4/16/2018

bound nice and tight, enjoy the rope soft n silky you ?
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23 response(s), 31 votes
diavoloslave 62 M
9 questions
Score 0.0
She said i changed her???? - 4/11/2018

I am just a guy that is very playful and like to have fun when i am serving, i recently ran in to long past lady who i had a session with and had a great time with. She seemed to be very playful as well. We sat down to have a coffee to get caught up with each others activities, this when she said to me that i changed her as she doesn't have fun with most that she plays with and she gets to ...

14 response(s), 22 votes
fredbear4 60 C
3 questions
Score 0.0
Problems - 4/10/2018

We'd like to know if anyone else was having problems with this site last night or was it just us.

34 response(s), 62 votes
curious_subNSC 70 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
Cum and GO or Stay - 4/10/2018

this question is for all After all the adult fun is over, do most host/hostess want you to dress and leave or start and chat like friends. The same question for the invitees dress and leave or stay and chat?

13 response(s), 26 votes
diavoloslave 62 M
9 questions
Score 0.0
Branding - 4/6/2018

over the i have been asked this question ....and was never sure 100% what it really meant...i really dont think about it much but am curious to hear your option of it? what your idea is of Branding would be?

19 response(s), 30 votes
bjrn 74 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Life after Death - 4/4/2018

I have a serious question . My Husband of 30 years the love of my life died in December & no I'm not ready yet to find someone else. To all outward appearances w had a conventional marriage we met when I was 36 he was 46 He was a big man with big tastes & taught me very much about myself & sexuality. He introduced me to toys but we weren't into a lot of what is discussed on ...

13 response(s), 25 votes
albanynycouple51 62 C
19 questions
Score 0.0
april 7 2018 albany ny - 4/4/2018

any local events partys munchies this satnite in albany ny areas ?
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11 response(s), 20 votes
Switch4MrRight1 57 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
What’s your biggest pet peeve about meeting someone in person? - 3/31/2018

Does their photo not match what they look like in real life? Are they taller, skinnier, wider than what they said? Do they lack conversation skills? Did they set a date and then not even show?

35 response(s), 43 votes
diavoloslave 62 M
9 questions
Score 0.0
Curiosity of dungeons and if people use them? - 3/29/2018

Although i have been in this life style for many years, and been designing and making things for ppl for years i have never used or even been invited to public dungeon. My question is this....Do ppl still use them? or has it gotten to the point that ppl just dress up a room in there home. to suit themselves now?? i ask the question as in past few years i been getting request for more single item ...

13 response(s), 20 votes
diavoloslave 62 M
9 questions
Score 0.0
Respect - 3/26/2018

In most relationships, mutual respect is a key factor in the success of that relationship. Would you say that in a Dom/sub relationship, its more or less and why?

5 response(s), 7 votes
LuvPinkTaco 46 M
11 questions
Score 0.0
Back to vanilla to bdsm ? - 3/25/2018

Did you ever swear off the alt/bdsm lifestyle after a bad experience or relationship and decided to settle for a more traditional vanilla relationship, only to find out you really couldn't and ran back to alt/bdsm ?

6 response(s), 18 votes
LuvPinkTaco 46 M
11 questions
Score 0.0
Your very First time - 3/25/2018

If you could do one and only one thing differently about your first time (sex and/or bdsm ) , what would it be?

8 response(s), 9 votes
diavoloslave 62 M
9 questions
Score 0.0
what was the deciding facter that turned you to this life style??? - 3/25/2018

My was when i was sitting in a bar having a drink when a lady i was having a chat with ask me why i liked looking at her feet... that started it for me

4 response(s), 4 votes
antreas2015 39 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
ise kala - 3/24/2018

ise kala

2 response(s), 6 votes
diavoloslave 62 M
9 questions
Score 0.0
What gets you off about being submissive/Dominant? - 3/23/2018

interested in knowing the parts your mind takes you when thinking of what interests you about being either submissive or Dominant?

7 response(s), 11 votes
clye22 63 M
1 question
Score 0.0
how does one clean out for anal sex - 3/22/2018

how does one clean out for anal sex

7 response(s), 15 votes
diavoloslave 62 M
9 questions
Score 0.0
Does dressing up for your roll help in the roll you play? - 3/22/2018

when your in play mode with your active partner/partners how important is it to you to dress the part?, does it help you play your part better.? does it help you get into your roll easier?

3 response(s), 3 votes
diavoloslave 62 M
9 questions
Score 0.0
Is the a proper etiquettes for a submissive to approach a dominate here? - 3/20/2018

i just was wondering as a very social guy and one who likes to keeps things light and fun i always felt that there was. what is you option ?

15 response(s), 14 votes
diavoloslave 62 M
9 questions
Score 0.0
what is an exceptable pic to post facial or a full body shot - 3/20/2018

was just curious after going through hundreds of member pics which people here like to see more of?

11 response(s), 9 votes
unicornlover6969 39 M
1 question
Score 0.0
How big is too big? - 3/19/2018

I've always been well endowed and with a 11.6" i've often been turned down for sex, so ladies whats the perfect large size?

10 response(s), 22 votes
DecibelRating 108 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Groups and requests - 3/18/2018

Does anyone know if it's possible to send a request to another member to join a specific group? Much like you can do on Facebook? <br><br> If that functionality exists on Alt, I can't find it. <br><br> <br><br>

5 response(s), 6 votes
asianat2008 69 M
115 questions
Score 0.0
nipple kissing and sucking..... - 3/16/2018

In many porn clips nipple sucking and kissing are exihibited by loving partners. After kissing nipples the partners go down. What is Your lusty thoughts on them?

8 response(s), 24 votes
asianat2008 69 M
115 questions
Score 0.0
Pussy likings.... - 3/16/2018

Many of mature friends here watch porn clips to kill their lonely hours and appease their sexual needs. In this connection I am to say that porn stars show their hairy pussies and sometimes they are also clean shaved ones.....I am interested to know from you my senior experienced friends that whether it is good to have hairy pussies or clean shaved pussies during love making and for oral ...

6 response(s), 18 votes
albanynycouple51 62 C
19 questions
Score 0.0
leather n fetish wear makers , any good 1s that are members ? - 3/13/2018

any members make own leather wear gear ect, ? do tell n show your skill's. luv new finds to wear use .
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18 response(s), 25 votes
Switch4MrRight1 57 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
What’s your favorite thing about this site! - 3/9/2018

Let me know what you think

26 response(s), 44 votes