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The Advice Line lets you ask all those questions you always wanted and then get advice from all the members of Love Hurts.
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curious_subNSC 70 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
profile photo - 8/8/2017

What type of photo would you prefer to see on the initial profile photo

9 response(s), 26 votes
shoor2pleaseUK 76 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Do women with large clits stroke them like a small penis? - 8/4/2017

I have always wondered ... never had the pleasure of seeing a very large clit in the flesh ... just pics.

8 response(s), 36 votes
submanbxl 68 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
Are men too cock-obsessed? - 8/3/2017

As a man myself, i have a bit of a fixation with my cock. However, i am amazed at how many guys have a cock as a profile pic. Much as i love cocks (mine and others') it gets a teeny bit tedious seeing them all the time. i was wondering that the L/ladies think.

9 response(s), 24 votes
BigGA83 54 M
1 question
Score 0.0
When is Enough Enough ? - 7/29/2017

Doesn1t it seem like alt changes things around on a weekly basis ? It seems things you could do on Alt one week, cant be done the next .

6 response(s), 34 votes
lavielascif 54 T
91 questions
Score 0.0
May Be Sex A Medicine? - 7/29/2017

I think yes, in a hard times you need a power of love and when you love yourself it is a first step to sanity and defend of ill, or not? ask Helga Hart ...

9 response(s), 26 votes
popeyej45 72 C
10 questions
Score 0.0
how?? - 7/24/2017

Several people ask that you reply to them at ALT.com. Have tried using their name and using that method but obviously we're doing something wrong. How does that work??

6 response(s), 24 votes
submanbxl 68 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
How to react... - 7/23/2017

So you see the profile of S/someone interesting and T/they seem to feel the same because they check Y/your profile out too. Then they hotlist Y/you (which is very flattering). Y/you send the a message but get no response. So what to do now? Send another message? Try IM? or is that all too much like stalking or should Y/you just wait for T/them to pluck up courage and reply?

i mean if ...

11 response(s), 29 votes
BlueDuece 72 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Silver, Gold, VIP......This a joke??? - 7/19/2017

Why is it ALT gives away memberships to the females that get a lot of attention, but ignore, males who also get a lot of attention??? ALT....ask yourself why you discriminate against men....bad behavior !!! Puts ALT in the IGGY bin !!!

8 response(s), 47 votes
daisymaytv 112 T
5 questions
Score 0.0
Alt troubles again - 7/14/2017

Good morning/afternoon

Is anybody having problems with Alt and pictures on peoples profiles. Whats happening with me is when I look at peoples pictures on their profiles I cannot see comments left, I cannot leave a comment, I cannot Like the picture if I want to. All I get is like a spinning clock and the fore mentioned items or options do not load. I have tried on various devices and ...

15 response(s), 28 votes
mistressathena11 33 F
1 question
Score 0.0
How long? - 7/11/2017

how long till my photos verified by the moderators?

12 response(s), 45 votes
cpl4fun12401 63 C
4 questions
Score 0.0
WTF - 7/10/2017

What is it with guys listing them selves as straight, but are looking for sex with either a women or man. Can't be straight and have sex with the same gender. ( just saying )

12 response(s), 27 votes
Miomi2010Niasou 31 F
1 question
Score 0.0
How do you open up? - 7/6/2017

Even though I myself am on this site as well as others I still someone who is quite timid and shy. I have difficulties online sometimes just talking or talking to others. Let alone the times I have attempted to go to munches/sloshes and it was all I could do to try and be social.

Going throughout this community and everyday life how do you enable yourself to talk aloud about yourself? ...

10 response(s), 25 votes
sublime2superior 44 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
Top Fan - 7/5/2017

is there a way to delete a top fan points you have given ?

9 response(s), 10 votes
tinman143 57 M
1 question
Score 0.0
The right Mistress - 7/4/2017

Do you find it possible to have Domme/Mistress... Sub/Slave relationship long distance? If so how has it worked out...satisfying or missing something?

5 response(s), 13 votes
rott4444milfsss 44 M
1 question
Score 0.0
what is the best way to get a mature woman - 7/1/2017

trying to hook up with older woman if anyone know anyone that is looking for friend let me know i am interested

4 response(s), 15 votes
sirbob2017 68 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Now what - 6/26/2017

So ALT is at it again, the page format is off Why is it we can't go 3 months without an issue

14 response(s), 14 votes
sublime2superior 44 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
saw Gorean Free library - 6/22/2017

and mistakenly believing i might find a post that debunked the gorean "lifestyle " was i surprised when i followed the link

7 response(s), 16 votes
one_for_you 70 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Real or not? - 6/14/2017

OK....I am a "Standard" member. So what do you make of a "Gold" member who visits your profile at least one (sometimes more) an evening (I only have it online in the evenings), and never leaves a message. They live not that far away. Are they real or just Alt being silly?

12 response(s), 24 votes
seven7seven 53 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Women - 6/5/2017

Some women really wish they could dominate there partner and they don't know !!!!!!?????

8 response(s), 20 votes
ColneaJoans 67 F
13 questions
Score 0.0
The Best Question. - 6/2/2017

What is the best question you have ever seen in this section? (Advice Lines/ Magazine)

Please do not say it's this one. Thank You.

14 response(s), 32 votes
popeyej45 72 C
10 questions
Score 0.0
how - 5/17/2017

Now that non-paying members can't do anything, is it futile to try to contact them?? Is there a way to browse only paying members?? As always, thanks for your help.

7 response(s), 24 votes
rik2066 57 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Customer serveses and technical - 5/14/2017

How quick are these in getting problems solved? My IM is still not working right it only shows a couple within my area of 50 mile which is not right and only 60 or so online altogether which is never right. Anyone else had such a problem?

12 response(s), 34 votes
sirbob2017 68 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
What's going on now? - 5/13/2017

Okay now what is going on, when I go to IM there are less than 20 people on where as last week it had over 200 plus. Now I am a nonpaying member, is it just effecting us?

21 response(s), 32 votes
luv2ridetongue 51 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Music - 5/9/2017

What is your favorite sexy music to listen to while playing? If you have a link it would be much appreciated. Thank you!

25 response(s), 27 votes
rik2066 57 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Local - 5/1/2017



Hi Are they any actual subs, sluts in the south yorkshire area that are genuine and meet ???

8 response(s), 22 votes
juicyslut2001 66 F
6 questions
Score 0.0
Friday night IM - 4/28/2017

Anyone else having challenges with Alt IM tonight?





13 response(s), 27 votes
Quennsjulog 34 F
1 question
Score 0.0
who want to meet? - 4/28/2017

what bring did you do here? let me answer you if you want to

5 response(s), 17 votes
kinkmeister9000 42 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Chatrooms - 4/27/2017

Has anyone ever set one up on here? Do you know how to do it? Thanks in advance for any responses.

4 response(s), 24 votes
Sirbob16 69 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
Would you be interested - 4/21/2017

Okay now I have been on here a bit and one common thing is all the fakes. Would you be interested in a place where all the scammers are listed? Example, hottotrot1978 is a man representing himself as a female. He even has pics to trade. I just think having a place to out them may help reduce the numbers. Thanks

8 response(s), 48 votes
Gskydive 65 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Newbie confusion - 4/20/2017

I'm sure this has been covered, but maybe someone can clue me in:

Why am I (a 58 year old male) getting views and hot listed by twenty-something year old hotties from other countries?

Also, I get emails from across the country -- what is the purpose? Scam or they want me to give them points or what?

Thanks.

9 response(s), 22 votes