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The Advice Line lets you ask all those questions you always wanted and then get advice from all the members of Love Hurts.
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Sirbob16 69 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
Would you be interested - 4/21/2017

Okay now I have been on here a bit and one common thing is all the fakes. Would you be interested in a place where all the scammers are listed? Example, hottotrot1978 is a man representing himself as a female. He even has pics to trade. I just think having a place to out them may help reduce the numbers. Thanks

8 response(s), 48 votes
Gskydive 65 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Newbie confusion - 4/20/2017

I'm sure this has been covered, but maybe someone can clue me in:

Why am I (a 58 year old male) getting views and hot listed by twenty-something year old hotties from other countries?

Also, I get emails from across the country -- what is the purpose? Scam or they want me to give them points or what?

Thanks.

9 response(s), 22 votes
asianat2008 69 M
115 questions
Score 0.0
How to manae ladies who are doing fraud and interested to go on - 4/16/2017

Recently on social sites I got a number of ladies making contact and started with friendship. After getting acquainted within a couple of hours to couple of days they offered to plan out business deals on herbal seeds across the continents. They said I should act as local dealer, purchase sample packets from 1 to 3 and inform her company. Company will place orders and they with their purchase ...

14 response(s), 30 votes
Simplyalbertaman 70 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
OYHER SITES - 4/12/2017

Who on this site uses it as their primary site? Who uses this as their only site? and who has multiple sites and rarely visits here?

Also how would you rate this site?

14 response(s), 29 votes
femdomsrule 66 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Ball busting? - 4/9/2017

i can't take getting repeatedly kicked hard in the balls. It hurts like an MF, they get all swollen up and are painful for a long time. It feels like real damage. i don't know how some guys can manage to do it. Is this something i will ever get better at over time?

4 response(s), 12 votes
loosey2008 54 F
1 question
Score 0.0
How do I learn to override my gag reflex? - 3/30/2017

I really want to learn to take my Dom's cock into my throat. How do I learn how to do this?

27 response(s), 51 votes
curious_subNSC 70 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
Men's underwear - 3/29/2017

This question is for the Ladies and Couples who play with men What kind of underwear do you like to see men in? Boxers Boxer briefs briefs tighty whitey mid rise low rise thong bikini g string panties commnado other.Please specify

6 response(s), 20 votes
popeyej45 72 C
10 questions
Score 0.0
how - 3/29/2017

As we have been paying members from the start, we don't really know what non paying members can do or not do. Can they reply to our messages?? If not, what is the point. Must we communicate only with other gold members??

7 response(s), 22 votes
juleslikesithard 58 F
1 question
Score 0.0
IM not working - 3/25/2017

Anyone else having issues with the IM? I am able to log in, but not receive or send messages.. sigh..

15 response(s), 35 votes
atong4u 74 M
7 questions
Score 0.1
You are being tracked ! - 3/11/2017

Just had a pop up while on this site saying that any and all porn sites like this are being tracked and might be made public ! Has any one else seen this message ?

18 response(s), 33 votes
Slaveboy262626 31 M
1 question
Score 0.0
seeking a master to train me! - 3/5/2017

I am a young white slaveboy who is 25 years of age "5-10" 170 lbs light brown hair blue eyes mustache 6 1/2 inch cock enjoy staying naked all the time

5 response(s), 22 votes
derderO1 77 M
1 question
Score 0.0
What happened to my post???? - 2/27/2017

I posted an original essay entitled "Cunnilingus, an oral sex fantasy" yesterday. But it doesn't appear anywhere/ Did I do something wrong? derderO1

6 response(s), 13 votes
iusedtobesweet17 48 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Does this happen to you? - 2/27/2017

Today I'm so horny. I've masterbated 3 times and just keep wanting more and more. Does this happen to you or am I just a shameless slut?

12 response(s), 22 votes
Simplyalbertaman 70 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
why are so few willing to write artilcles - 2/18/2017

Seem few people are willing to express there adventures here? Is there a reason for that?

10 response(s), 24 votes
shybaby007 32 F
1 question
Score 0.0
not getting any message and can't view profiles - 2/15/2017

please i can't view profile and i am not getting any messages.... can i still be contacted i need new friends

9 response(s), 35 votes
suboralmn 60 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Cock Sucking Creampie Eating Vacation Boston! - 2/7/2017

I am due for a vacation and I am investigating the possibility of a hot submissively oral vacation where I can suck lots of cock and clean out creampies. Is there a group that has regular gangbangs with a fast machine who keeps her motor clean? Kind of looking for a metropolitan city with a little bit of culture along with my kinky exploration!





Boston it IS~! ...

9 response(s), 64 votes
differntstrokes 62 M
10 questions
Score 0.0
Insecure site? - 1/30/2017

Let me say from the outset that I am not very computer savvy.

I normally log into Alt through Mozilla. When I do, I now see that the little padlock has a red line through it, indicating the site is insecure and when checking further, I am warned personal details are in danger.

I tried through another server, only to be told that Alt does not have a security certificate and ...

10 response(s), 23 votes
shibuingeisha 70 C
1 question
Score 0.0
Dying flames - 1/16/2017

After nearly 10 years living together, my Dom has lost all libido. It's been 3 years since He touched me in any sexual way yet he claims to love me . How to rekindle the roaring inferno that brought us together?

16 response(s), 34 votes
ColneaJoans 67 F
13 questions
Score 0.0
Should we be able to use flowers & points to read our Alt messages ? - 1/10/2017

It makes sense to me, if we can use points (that we get from flowers, posting, etc) to send a message or look at a profile (as standard members) , why can't we use those points to read our inbox messages?

I asked the question a while ago at the site support blog (see: Site Problems, Bug reports, Customer Feedback and Suggestions September 2016 ) and received an answer but it still seems that people cannot read the messages that get sent to ...

20 response(s), 45 votes
play_toy_2017 53 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Play time - 1/9/2017

Are there any real peoples out there?

10 response(s), 33 votes
OLD_WHITESLAVE 69 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Instant Messenger not working ? - 12/31/2016

My IM seems to work when it feels like it, most of the time it will not open. I have cleared my cache, cookies, tried a different browser, all several times, it makes no difference, anyone else have this problem?

20 response(s), 38 votes
Domme91slave93 30 C
3 questions
Score 0.0
Need advice - 12/28/2016

So as many of you know I am a fairly new Mistress and there are times that I feel overwhelmed by all of this stuff. I need advice on how to control that and be the best Mistress I can be. I must point out that I am not a single woman but I am in committed relationship. Thank you in advance and please be kind with your responses. They are greatly appreciated.

6 response(s), 30 votes
Domme91slave93 30 C
3 questions
Score 0.0
Cumming during oral sex - 12/28/2016

Often when my bf/slave gives me oral pleasure, he cums from it. Why does this happen and is it normal?

6 response(s), 34 votes
daisymaytv 112 T
5 questions
Score 0.0
Location - 12/27/2016

Hi I live in the UK in West London

Just been on IM (don't laugh) and quite a few people claim to come from a garrison town called Aldershot.

The following places are where they claim Aldershot is

ESSEX HERTFORDSHIRE WEST MIDLANDS KENT DEVON BATH - AVON CORNWALL LONDON SURREY SUFFOLK CHANNEL ISLANDS BRISTOL

Only one person claimed to come from Aldershot ...

8 response(s), 22 votes
perceptionisall 60 M
1 question
Score 0.0
How many REAL women? - 12/26/2016

Are there any genuine women on Alt or just scammers? I've been on here a month now & I've only had fake profile contacts. I was on here last year & there were definitely more genuine people then. What has happened? Perceptionisall.

17 response(s), 32 votes
slavesteve0 64 M
1 question
Score 0.0
hair - 12/15/2016

Does anyone have pubic hair anymore? i don't, do you.

13 response(s), 35 votes
TimidJaneCD 62 T
16 questions
Score 0.0
Can a guy cum using anal sex and no other stimulation? - 12/12/2016

I tried dildos and nothing happens but if i use a broom handle to message my p-spot I get close. Am I doing something wrong?

19 response(s), 38 votes
Bountyhunter1955 68 M
1 question
Score 0.0
When did things change in this lifestyle? - 12/7/2016

I have been in the BDSM lifestyle My entire life, raised by Dom /Domme parents. After a near fatal fall I was forced to step back from the life for 7 years. Upon returning to this lifestyle I was amazed at to fine that subs/slaves no longer relocate themselves as had been the case as long as I can remember. Sub's/slave's relocated themselves as a sign of their wanting to serve a new ...

14 response(s), 51 votes
Sirbob16 69 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
no response - 12/6/2016

Has anyone else experienced chatting and then no response? It seems like accounts are put on here just to use up my 5 allowed conversation. Have even experienced the same with friens, thy say they never received my text. This is all after the "upgraded".

Just womdering

8 response(s), 28 votes
differntstrokes 62 M
10 questions
Score 0.0
Gold no more! - 12/3/2016

Has anyone else suddenly lost their Gold member status recently?

For years I was a Gold member but for some reaason I am now showing as a Standard member with the associated lack of privileges.

I certainly have not cancelled my Gold membership. i sent a message to ALT.com, but never got a reply. Maybe only Gold and silver members get a reply!! I have re-sent my message. ...

10 response(s), 30 votes