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Articles by cateyes2004

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The Issue of Consent: A Marital Case in Iowa   3/3/2006

A wife has accused her husband, Travis Frey, of first degree kidnapping and domestic abuse assault causing injury. <br> Frey had written an explicit Contract of Wifely Expectations which


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An Open Letter to the 'doppleganger'   1/9/2006

I struggled with myself about whether I should write this or not. I am aware that my opinion here is probably not wanted or appreciated in light of the fact that SuckUlentslave and I have had a nu


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cateyes2004 68 F
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Can freedom of speech be bought?   9/18/2005

Today I was informed via e-mail (on alt.) that because I happen to disagree with this particular person’s modus operandi, that I need to stop or she will have my account pulled. She seems to bel


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cateyes2004 68 F
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Obligations   8/5/2005

In a recent advice question, two men made the following responses: “If he is the Dom/Master, and she is the sub/slave, what does it matter what he does?” and: “Masters don’t answer to sl


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cateyes2004 68 F
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Starting Somewhere   1/11/2005

Many people have an interest in BDSM before they start participating. In my childhood I had fantasies and played out scenes that had a definite submissive and sometimes masochistic theme. As I gr


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cateyes2004 68 F
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Hard Limits, a submissive's right   10/3/2004

I grow weary of defending my hard limits. Every time I read an article or hear a Dom/me expound on the belief that a submissive person should allow the Dom/me to 'help' with these limits, my anger


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cateyes2004 68 F
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Hard Limits, a submissive's right   10/3/2004

I grow weary of defending my hard limits. Every time I read an article or hear a Dom/me expound on the belief that a submissive person should allow the Dom/me to 'help' with these limits, my anger


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cateyes2004 68 F
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Re: What is the Zone?   8/27/2004

I am fairly new to the BDSM lifestyle. You are asking about the Zone and I believe it is called several different things. I first heard of it referred to as sub-space. I think of it as focu


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cateyes2004 68 F
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Re: ladies just a question   8/23/2004

There are many reasons that I may not answer an initial e-mail. 1. The opening line: if the opening line tries to order me around, or calls me vulgar names, I won't respond, or if I do, it is t


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