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Interested in meeting someone in the real world. Not interested in online only
From my earliest memories, I've been attracted to Dominant Women. I didn't have a name for it back then of course, and it wasn't even until well into college that I began to have a clue what BDSM was. For most of my twenties, I experimented, but I never found the right fit so to speak. Eventually, I settled down with someone that fulfilled enough of my submissive needs to make it work, though she was by no means a Dominant.
That ended not that long ago (though my sexual needs were not the reason at all), and I find myself once again taking tentative steps into the BDSM world, just not as shy and hopefully not as tentative this time around.
So I've been asked a few times what I'm looking for. I wish that was a simple answer! As I'm really just starting out again, I'm pretty open to trying new things. I'm definitely not ready for anything approaching a 24/7 or TPE scenario. I guess the easiest way to put it is that I'm looking for someone to learn and grow with. I do know that I'm not comfortable just 'doing a scene.' For me to play with someone, I need to have somewhat of a connection.
I'm open to the idea of being involved with a couple in the right situation. I just don't want to feel like nothing more than a plaything.
I'm not particularly modest. I've only played publicly a few times in the past. I'm interested in it, but like I said above, I need a connection.
For my vanilla interests, I love hiking and camping. I'm a total person (I like cats too, just haven't had one in a long, long time). I enjoy wood working (that certainly could be a non-vanilla interest too!). I'm pretty handy around the house and cars. I enjoy Sci-fi books and movies. I recently got back into cycling.
I love to cook and bake! One of my joys is planning a big, multi-course dinner and executing it. My specialties really are deserts, ask me about my famous French Silk Pie!
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
99% Rope bunny
94% Submissive
63% Masochist
58% Experimentalist
49% Vanilla
46% Exhibitionist
43% Brat
42% Slave
34% Primal (Prey)
32% Boy/Girl
31% Pet
25% Switch
24% Voyeur
18% Non-monogamist
9% Degradee
2% Ageplayer
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My Ideal Person:
Looking for someone to get involved in the lifestyle again with. It doesn't need to be a relationship beyond that, but I'd be open to that.
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