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| David_n_Babs |
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Seeking kinky ladies, sub females & others for friendship & more
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Last Visit: This week
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| Member Since: April 1, 2007 |
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| Gender: |
Couple (man/woman) |
| Lives in: |
Bedworth, Warwickshire, United Kingdom
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| Travel to: |
Builth Wells, Radnorshire, United Kingdom
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| Relocate?: |
No |
| Swinger Type: |
Sex with others |
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Have Children:
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Yes. We do not live together. |
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Want Children:
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No |
| Drugs: |
I don't use drugs |
| Speaks: |
English |
| Activities Enjoyed: |
{"63":"Toys|3|6","21":"Cock and Ball Torture, Clamps, etc.|2|1","26":"Denim|2|5","18":"Chains|2|6","16":"Candle Wax|2|6","44":"Masks|2|5","55":"Retifism (Shoes or Boots)|2|6","84":"Oral Sex|2|6","27":"Depilation/Shaving|2|6","57":"Role Playing|2|6","61":"Master/Slave|2|6","20":"Cling Film|2|6","31":"Domination|2|1","35":"Feathers|2|6","78":"Sensory Deprivation|2|1","48":"Oral Fixation|2|6","87":"Tickling|2|1","77":"Pinching|2|1","29":"Sadism/Masochism|2|6","50":"Play Piercing|2|1","64":"Transvestism|2|5","58":"Rubber|3|6","12":"Bondage|3|6","41":"Lace/Lingerie|2|6","15":"Confinement/Caging|2|1","52":"Power Exchange|2|2","60":"Scent|2|6","56":"Rimming|2|6","66":"Vibrators|3|6","45":"Masochism|2|6","73":"Lactation|2|6","76":"Participating in Erotic Photography|2|6","19":"Chinese Balls/Ben Wa Balls/Anal Beads|2|1","62":"Tongue Fetish|2|6","67":"Voyeurism|2|6","70":"Podophilia (Foot Fetish)|2|2","68":"Whips|2|6","2":"Age Play|2|1","17":"Chastity Devices|2|1","1":"24/7 (Total Power Exchange)|2|2","30":"Dildos (Handheld & Strap-ons)|2|6","82":"Massage|3|6","25":"Dacryphilia (Arousal from Tears)|2|1","83":"Mutual Masturbation|3|6","75":"Pantyhose/Stockings|2|5","14":"Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.|2|1","69":"Cross Dressing|2|5","59":"Sadism|2|1","49":"Spanking/Paddling|2|6","53":"The Rack/Medieval Devices|2|6","42":"Latex|3|6","46":"Nipples|3|6","23":"Collar and Lead/Leash|2|6","6":"Ass Play|2|6","85":"Anal Sex|2|6","3":"Knife/Needle Play|2|1","36":"Fisting|2|1","9":"Blindfolds|2|6","51":"Piercings|2|5","47":"Doctor/Nurse Fetish|2|6","38":"Handcuffs/Shackles|2|1","8":"Masturbation|3|6","4":"Pain|2|6","34":"Electrotorture (EMS TENS units)|2|1","43":"Leather|2|6","5":"High Heels|2|5"} |
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| Birthdate: |
September 24, 1961
(62 years old)
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| Height: |
5 ft 9 in / 175-177 cm |
| Smoking: |
I'm a non-smoker |
| Drinking: |
I'm a light/social drinker |
| Race: |
Caucasian |
| I think about ALT lifestyle: |
All the time |
| Level of Experience: |
Whole adult life |
| Dress: |
Casual |
| Social Orientation: |
Moderate |
| Safe Sex: |
Yes |
| Demeanor: |
Assertive |
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| Body Hair: |
Little |
| Body Decorations: |
Body Piercings
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| Marital Status: |
Attached |
| Occupation: |
Manager |
| Religion: |
Agnostic |
| Education: |
BA/BS (4 years college) |
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| Birthdate: |
March 25, 1956
(68 years old)
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| Height: |
5 ft 7 in |
| Body Type: |
A little extra padding |
| Smoking: |
I'm a non-smoker |
| Drinking: |
I'm a light/social drinker |
| Race: |
Caucasian |
| Sexual Orientation: |
Bi-sexual |
| I think about ALT lifestyle: |
Once a day |
| Role: |
Switch |
| Level of Experience: |
More than five years |
| Dress: |
Casual |
| Social Orientation: |
Moderate |
| Safe Sex: |
Yes |
| Demeanor: |
Average |
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| Hair Color: |
Platinum Blonde |
| Hair Length: |
Short |
| Eye Color: |
Inconsistent/Variable |
| Glasses or Contacts: |
Glasses |
| Body Decorations: |
Earring(s); Body Piercings; Tattoo(s) |
| Breast Size: |
36 / 80 DD (E, if no DD)
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Marital Status: |
Attached |
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Occupation: |
Self Employed |
| Religion: |
Agnostic |
| Education: |
High school graduate |
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62/68
year old
Couple (man/woman)
in
Bedworth, Warwickshire, United Kingdom
Looking For:
Women, Couples (man/woman), Couples (2 women) or Trans
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[B][size 4][color yellow]SHORT INTRODUCTION[/b]
We are a mature kinky & hedonistic couple who met via Alt.com, and have been together since 2008.
We are seeking kinky ladies, sub/slave females, and compatible others [inc. FF & MF couples] for social as well as "with benefits" friendship ... and a whole lot "more" if things develop that way ... see below for that "more".[/size][/color]
[B][color red][size 4]~~~ "where are we ?" details ~~~[/size][/color][/b]
[size 3][color yellow]Our home is in Bedworth, North Warwickshire, [just 3 mins drive from J3 of the M6] and we like to get "out & about" on the West Midlands Fetish/BDSM scene as & when we can ... so you could see us at the Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar [google "brumbazaar"], or at one or another of the kinky play venues in the area. If you do see us please feel free to come and introduce yourselves.
Regular visits to Builth Wells, Powys happen during the spring, summer & autumn months ... so if you are from around that part of the country (i.e. within 60 miles), match who and what we are seeking (see below), and fancy meeting for a drink and a chat, and may be more if we find we're compatible, then please feel free to send us a message and may be we can make our visits to Wales just that little bit extra special ;) ;)[/size][/color]
[B][color red][size 4]~~~ Main Profile ~~~[/size][/color][/b]
[B][size 4][color red]FIRST : to all the single men reading this[/b]
WE ARE NOT seeking applications, nor chat requests, from single sub, switch or Dom, gents ... any such approaches will be deleted without response, so don't waste your or our time.[/size][/color]
[B][size 3][color green]A quick summary about why we are maintaining a profile on here[/b]
We are interested in finding like-minded non judgemental people with whom we can develop lasting friendships
... and ...
may be a lot more for those with whom we find we have a special level of interpersonal chemistry
... including ...
various types of kinky intimate relationships,
a suitably respectful niece or ward for us to look after & for whom we'd provide appropriate training & guidance,
a full-time sub/slave position for the right lady, or ladies (gothy girls especially welcome),
ownership of a girl puppy or kitten, and a living latex girl doll[/size][/color]
[color orange]If you send us a message we will always reply as soon as we can.
However, before you write to us please consider the content of all of our profile & not just our pictures. We will expect your message to explain your thoughts on how you think you may align with what we are seeking.
If you wink at us we may enquire as to the reason for that wink if we feel there is some alignment in what we are all seeking, but that may take some time to get around to, so why not send us a message instead as they are always dealt with first.
Do not ask us to join your network without first exchanging messages with us. Such unsolicited invites will always be rejected.
If we send you a message ... we'd really like to receive a response.
We see you replying to us as a common courtesy that any reasonable person should abide by, even if its' a 'Thanks, but No Thanks' answer.
We are not looking to develop long distance relationships with people outside of the UK ... however cute and sexy you are ... unless you plan to travel to the UK at sometime in the near future and, before you ask, no ... we won't pay for you to come to the UK !
and finally,
if we do find we have an interest in each other, we will expect an early conversation between us all (you can do a 'number withheld' if you want for that first phone call) to help weed out the many fakes, fantasists & wannabes that inhabit this site.[/color]
[B][size 3][color yellow]So who and what are we seeking ?
This profile is being maintained for two reasons
The first reason is ... & probably the more important one is ...[/color][/size][/b]
[size 3][color orange]We are seeking select individuals who want to be considered as initiates into a poly family.
We intend our poly family to include both part-time (i.e. weekend & holidays) and a very small number of full time individuals, one or two of whom could be live-in in our home. We anticipate that there will have to be a number of specific roles to be filled, such as domestic maid / butler / au pair, indentured apprentices who will be expected to earn their keep, sex slave(s) to either or both of us, household pets, nieces or wards who requiring training, guidance & experience provision from a mature Uncle & Aunt role model, etc., etc..
We realise that some family / household members will only be with us for a period of time before they move on to other relationships, whilst others will chose to see their long term future is with us.[/color][/size]
[B][size 3][color green]The "Family"[/color][/size][/b]
[size 3][color orange]These will be people who have their on accommodation / home but who are happy to spend as much time with us and other "family" members as their work, family & "normal life" commitments allow.
This will not just be for kinky fun, but for all that life has to offer, including holidays, social outings, shared DIY jobs, etc., etc.[/color][/size]
[B][size 3][color green]The "Household"[/color][/size][/b]
[size 3][color orange]These will be people who share our family home on a full-time basis and will be in a 24/7 relationship with both of us.
Of necessity, the numbers of people in the "household" will be limited to one or two very special people.
One of whom will certainly be a full-time companion, helper, lover, etc. for Babs, a sort of 'Girl Friday' if you will. The other could be the same or could be a 24/7 "no limits / no rights" slave. Both roles are within the scope of what we are looking for.[/color][/size]
[B][size 3][color green]Who are we seeking as family and household members ?[/color][/size][/b]
[size 3][color orange]Our main focus for the first few initiates is that they be either bi-curious, bi or lesbian sub ladies, although extra-special bi-sub MF or FF couples, or very very femme TVs/TSs, may be considered.
The people we seek will need to be non judgemental of others & willing to experiment within the boundaries of some pre-agreed hard limits.
Age is not an issue for us, so long as you are 18 or over, but we do prefer people who are medium sized or less (i.e. around UK size 16 or less).
You should not smoke, or be willing to work towards giving up as part of connecting with us, and you should be able to travel to our home in Bedworth (3min off M6 J3), or host a visit from us.
Also, you should be happy to be in a house containing dogs. We don't do cross-species play, but we do share our house with 3 Border Terrier dogs.
If you can identify with us and want we are seeking, then please get in touch.[/color][/size]
[B][size 3][color yellow]The second reason is ...[/color][/size][/b]
[size 3][color orange]To find a few select like minded people who will be happy to join our existing group of friends.
For us, we need to have a similar non judgemental like minded approach to 'things' as well there needing to be a special spark of interpersonal chemistry between everyone to make any intimate sessions really work, and so we seek those with whom we'll find we have "a connection" and who can become friends as well as "friends with benefits".
So of course we are not really looking for one-off meetings but for the development of NSA relationships that will encompass on-going mutually enjoyable get togethers as and when our work & family lives allow.
If we do find that that "special spark" exists, you should know that we are primarily looking for soft swap interactions, i.e. lots of sensual touching, girl-on-girl play, etc., but only full intercourse with own partner.
Neither of us is looking to play alone, unless we get to the point where Babs is happy to have solo play with another lady, and that is only likely to happen after a number of meetings between the ladies in question.
Also, Babs doesn't drive, so if we have to travel anywhere we always go together.[/color][/size]
[B][size 4][color yellow]So ... if you're a single bi or bi-curious lady, a M-biF couple, or even a single lesbian lady or couple, who is/are OK with making a connection with a DomM~Switch-biF couple, and what we've described above is of interest to you, then we'd love to hear from you.[/color][/size][/b]
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My Ideal Person:
**** REMEMBER ****
If you're a single bi or bi-curious lady, a M-biF couple, or even a single lesbian lady or couple, who is/are OK with making a connection with a mature kinky & hedonisitc DomM~Switch-biF couple, and what we've described above is of interest to you, then we'd love to hear from you.
We do have things that we won't do ... these are part of our "No, Never" Hard Limits list. The content of this list is currently as follows :
No ~ Animals; under 18's; activities resulting in death for anyone; things that would, as a consequence of the play, require a stay in an intensive care ward or end with bones being broken; playing with poo, puke or dead bodies; contracting STDs or genital flora & fauna; splitting on our or others faces; indulging in illegal substances or activities liable to result in a visit to a Court Room, or forcing others to do so; putting our, or others, health or life at risk; breaking any pre-agreed "No, Never" listings (i.e. Informed Consent with everything), or ignoring "safe words or gestures".
If any intimate sexual interactions are to be undertaken, "safe sex" practices will always be adhered to.
Everything else is open for discussion.
This list may get added to at any time, but nothing on it now will ever be removed without warning ~ but we can't see at the moment that anything on it now will ever be removed.
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