I'm Very much for real, I've been around the LS for a while now and with the aid of a Mentor have defined and refined pretty much who I am and what I want and need from all this.
I am not after a few casual meets to get tied up and hit, nor do I need someone in my life to degrade and humiliate me, I'm not into The Scene; I am taking this search extremely seriously indeed.
I'm after someone who knows how D/s works, who understands what a Lifestyle submissive needs from the dynamic is is prepared to invest the considerable amount of themselves into '"us" in order to make it work. I will of course do my part.
Over time, I want this to evolve into the situation where you are happy to be offering me your collar AND where I will be happy to accept it : You need to understand that D/s is a marriage of equals - neither the Dominant nor the Submissive can exist without each other.
I offer 100% openness and honesty and expect the same in return That is my number 1 Hard Limit.
Get it right, and we have the potential to fly....... YOUR sky will be OUR limit.
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My Ideal Person:
I have had soooooo many approach me without a clue what Lifestyle D/s means. Please do your research before approaching me as I know where I want this journey to begin - where it ends depends upon the dynamic which evolves between us.
For me, this is as much about the mental connection as any of the other elements typically found within a D/s relationship. Don't get me wrong, the other elements are important too, but without you being as equally committed to me and my needs as I will be to yours, this will not work.
You don't demand that I call you Sir or Master or anything like that, nor will I be obeying requests, until the day that we become a D/s partnership. I will not be sexting or sending naked pics, these are privileges reserved for THE One, assuming I ever find Him.
i will never be anyones to abuse. My Owner will get to use me, that is a whole different ball game.
Please don't start this with me unless you have some intention of seeing it through I've had my fill of people doing this to me and it Hurts.
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