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Obsidiandreams  
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Member Since: June 6, 2019

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Information:
Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   March 13, 1966
(58 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Waterville, Maine, United States
Relocate?:   No
Height:   5 ft 10 in / 177-180 cm
Body Type:   A little extra padding
Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:   I don't drink at all
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   Associate degree (2 years college)
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   Chinese (Mandarin), English
Hair Color:   Hair? What Hair?
Hair Length :   Short
Eye Color :   Brown
Glasses or Contacts :   None


LifeStyle
I think about ALT lifestyle:   Just curious
Role:   Switch
Level of Experience:   I am new at this
Dress:   Casual
Social Orientation :   Not applicable
Safe Sex:   Prefer not to say
Demeanor:   Average

Personal
Male Endowment: Average/
Average
Circumcised: Yes
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children : Happy with what I have
Religion: Alternative

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58 year old Man in Waterville, Maine, United States Looking For: Women or Couples (2 women)

Profile for Obsidiandreams
LQQKn2BtakeNsearESly?RUredE2?👿... is so teasingly vague, it could be taken literally, or either way figuratively... or all of the above... you are welcome to show me how you intend to take it, I enjoy life no matter what situation I find myself in.... I am a straight man looking for a woman/women to explore some fun kinky possibilities with. I am married, and yes, I have permission, no, she's not interested in playing, even with me due to uterine fibroid tumors... but even so, with all the good things in my life because of her, and wonderful times we have shared together, I would hate for her to ever feel broken, simply because of the one thing she can't share with me, but am lucky enough that she understands, doesn't mind, but doesn't want to know... sooo, if you're looking for a relationship, I'm just only able to be a part time playmate of convenience, so I realize that isn't going to work for a lot of people here, if you see I've taken a peek at your profile, but haven't messaged you, it is probably just I have doubt if you'd be finding yourself quickly having an absolute interest in me, just because something about you caught my eye enough to take a peek at you... When browsing here, it's impossible to miss the huge diversity of different interests at play, but, there's really just 2 groups of folks here, one group is looking for someone to have a relationship with, and the other group is only looking for a person/people as a playmate to have experiences with... I am in that 2nd group, I am just looking for women to share kink/roleplaying experiences with... if my life's goals/situation change, then I will certainly change this profile to show that. Please keep this in your mind. I list myself as a switch, but personality wise, I am a man by the classical definition, independent, lonewolf, contemplative... but definitely not a true submissive. If you are a mistress reading this, you could think it a complete contradiction for me to want you to be playing with me, unless you consider things from a fantasy forced fun perspective, in which I find myself in bondage at you mercy being forcefully taken, used and sexuality dominated by a predatory alpha woman... I don't have to be a submissive to have the curiosity of wanting to know how it would it feel to be forcefully taken by a woman... so, a lot of the normal submissive role aspects would do nothing for me. I also realize many mistresses, are looking for a domestic ltr, and I can't offer that, however, maybe some of my kinks that I am either curious about or already into are... taboo or less commonly found enough that you would want to experiment or explore with these, even if other things didn't line up.... I realize that a certain amount of pain could be involved with some of my kinks, but that said, I don't truly consider myself a masochist, even if my tolerances could possibly be a little more than average. Pain, used in slow purposely escalated ways, to punish, force compliance, or remind who's in control, in an edging way, punishment/reward or pain given in increments, again, in slow purposely escalated with time to adjust to each plateau at the level you are at, before escalating higher... can be very seductively used in eroticly provocatively dominating ways to motivate absolute compliance without brutalizing some one.... I point this difference out because... the more taboo the kinks with pain play involved, could tend to attract a more sadist type of a mistress, and I don't think of myself as a masochist, even if I possibly could be borderline..... so I guess it's a case of be careful what you wish for... after she has you where she wants you, she may have completely enjoyed forcefully taking you so much... she decides to force you to allow yourself to be her slut slave in a more permanent way, submissive or not... OH my... LOL there's so many ways for a woman to absolutely captivate a fellow! If you are a submissive reading this, hello! If we were to meet and play, then because of the situation, I would hope you would take the time to seriously self reflect on the specific attributes of yourself, importantly, trying to directly, concisely identify your individual desires about the manner of how you do or don't want me to play with you, not just what kinks you're finding yourself imagining wanting to explore enjoying with me, knowing these nuances, are greatly appreciated and necessary in helping me turn you on when I play with you... and just as importantly, help me to play with you in a more relaxed, exciting, safer, fulfilling way for you... I would truly love the times that find us playing together with each other to be something you are always finding yourself truly enjoying as much as you're allowing me enjoy playing with you is... help me know what's important or really desired in our exchanges if you should find yourself approaching me to explore them together... and definitely script out one of your most intensely erotic fantasies you are wanting to make happen... Even within the limits of my current vanilla life, I am sure there are many possibilities that can be shared with the right like minded woman... I am willing to chat with you to see if we can explore accommodating these experiences together with each other... [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
My ideal person... is that like a fantasy pick? I am seeking a woman, or possibly women, depending on what life brings, to share kink roll play experiences with.. when I say women, I meant women who play together as a group, not juggling time with multiple different individuals.. communication is a good place to start... mindful, respectful, out of roll, having a good mutual understanding of intent within role... d/d/and drama free as much as is possible, and being able to be comfortably down to earth honest in all interactions. I am open minded to any experience within our mutual limits or desire to try. No matter if with another novice learning together, or with an experienced woman being shown in private, or introduced to the community... with the hope these shared experiences are mutually satisfying, physically and emotionally, with the hope that a positive growth in understanding, deepening awareness can occur within myself and any woman I am blessed to be able to interact with and learn from here.


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