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Everybody please stay safe. We, the world of perverts, of all people, should understand how viruses are transmitted. Stop transmitting viruses. Unless it's your kink and it's consensual. Then hey, have at it. But for the rest of us, we got this, we know how to do this. Let's do this. Stay home. Don't spit on anyone. Drink water and wash your toys. Also, this is a boom time for meeting people online. Reach out and make new friends. We humans need those, too.
We now resume the scheduled programming. Read the rest. It's got a couple funny bits.
Athletic, active, smart, independent, secure...haven't had a job requiring a suit and tie in a long, long time, but I tie my own bowties when the occasion calls. You name the subject and I've probably read about it. Name the kink and I've probably at least tried it. I'm the rare dating site profile that describes a real person who doesn't have some hidden gross deficiency. Most television makes me feel myself getting dumber. Love to dance, done a ton of outdoor adventure stuff. There's a mountain somewhere that bears my name, but you're going to have to ask about that one directly.
As of 01-27-2019:
== Results from bdsmtest ==
93% Master/Mistress
93% Dominant
92% Rigger
89% Sadist
86% Degrader
73% Primal (Hunter)
58% Experimentalist
56% Exhibitionist
54% Rope bunny
53% Non-monogamist
52% Voyeur
46% Ageplayer
43% Daddy/Mommy
43% Brat tamer
41% Owner
25% Switch
23% Vanilla
7% Masochist
6% Primal (Prey)
5% Submissive
4% Brat
4% Degradee
3% Boy/Girl
1% Slave
0% Pet
So now we all know...
This is the "about me" text from my profile on a different site, just to update and flesh out (heh) this one a bit:
About me (edit)
Eh, I've been around a bit. Traveler, reader, swordsman (that's not a euphemism), adventurer...been to high mountains and deep places, want more of all of it.
Sexually, somewhere around here are my bdsm results. I'm bi, but way more selective with men. I'm dominant, but it's not the only kind of sex I know how to have or enjoy.
I'm safe, sane, non-judgemental, a huge fan of darker erotic material (think, Lucy Taylor or Pan Patziarkos), fantasies, and activities. I've done a bunch of kinky stuff. Let's talk about your ideas and desires.
I'm married. She knows. We're good and I won't allow anything to interfere with that. (Same rules for her; she is a partner, not a possession.) Had the conversation again a few days ago. Ask for details, if you want. If those statements are insufficient, you are not the right playmate, but you could easily be the right friend.
Areas where I'm pretty solid and a lot of fun:
quickly putting you at ease;
taking charge within minutes of meeting;
stuff naked human bodies can do together without props or contracts (ie, vanilla); simpler bondage, though as a pretty accomplished trad and alpine climber, I promise you my knots hold and rigging weird stuff is an old, practiced skillset;
the mental game of D/s interactions;
physical pain and discomfort (yours, not mine. I'm a paramedic and know what your body can take to within fairly narrow tolerances);
humiliation (yours)
pushing you further in your exhibitionism;
(I'm told I can be scary. Happy to intimidate you...)
working out your arousal buttons and pushing them;
understanding your kinks, fears, concerns, desires, fantasies and using the knowledge both to give you an amazing intense time but also to push your limits...
Stuff I haven't done but would:
fantasy settings requiring some prep talk, ie "," roleplays involving a power dynamic--I've worked in medicine, outdoor ed, a psych hospital, in treatment with nutty , been a classroom instructor, in charge of people in the military, etc. Also got standing ovations every night for a performance of Camelot! This boy can act...I have a particular fantasy of a therapy session gone off the rails...
Cuckold play (your wife) is a favorite, just had a taste a few times, but couples interested in that dynamic, please reach out, whether it's her and me or you want to be continuously humiliated, cleanup, or taken by me as well.
Serious med fet play with uniforms and such I could make as real as you want;
a whole bunch of fetishes I've never encountered, but they make you wild and are at worst inconvenient for me...ask me!
Stuff that's no, fuck off:
harm to anyone unless it's consensual;
(if you can't live without "little"-ing, sorry, it's fine, not for me unless "little" means, like, barely legal to put it in porn terms. And even then, please explain so I can get in your head);
enough blood that it becomes a professional concern (avg body can lose ~1 liter of blood before going into shock, more or less. Have you ever spilled a liter of liquid? Because holy shit);
actual ;
shit, any more than sort of accidental during anal or whatever;
, if you are, in fact, my blood relation. If you're not, then sure, call me cousin or uncle or whatever.
There are a few other members here who would give you reason to trust me. Ask. I'll give you references.
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My Ideal Person:
Someone adventurous. Sane and healthy, D/D free, though a little pot is fine. Drama free is a must. (Hint: if you meet five assholes in one day...) Tell me what you're looking for and let's find some common ground. You don't need to be a pinup, but please be relatively healthy physically. Extra points for active, intelligent, educated, witty and submissive, though any of those are negotiable.
I have yet to talk with anyone from any kink community or about any kink, fantasy, or behavior that offended me. I will ask you a lot of questions, but I won't judge you.
Talk to me!
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