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I am a no-nonsense Domme seeking no-nonsense people for friendships and potential live-in submissives. I am not seeking a *play partner*
My biggest TURN OFF: Telling Me [B]your kinks[/B] in a first message. If you want something REAL, treat Me like a REAL Person Y/you just met IN REAL LIFE at a grocery store, coffee shop, or anywhere else in public, not behind a screen[I][/I]. Also, a TURN-OFF your dick pic in My face, which is why I am grateful for the option to block that, and also, you are of no interest to Me if that's all you've got going for you.
I wish P/people would consider and be respectful of the fact that your kink could be someone's trauma experience, and NO ONE should have to put their trauma in their profile to avoid reading about it in a DM. Please let O/others ease into their kinks.
Speaking of Kinks:
I read this and love it:
[B] It's not a submissive's gift to project their fantasies onto a Domme.[/B]
My HARD LIMITS List; if it feels like it keeps getting longer, you would be spot on!- Anyone who smokes cigs. Anything to do with Age. Anyone who thinks that Poly Folks are a Russian Roulette of diseases (yes, someone said that!). Anyone who only sees themselves as property to be ordered around. Watersports of ANY kind. Suppose it isn't on My kink list; I probably am not into it.
I have a long list of kinks. Some fall under the umbrella of other things like CBT; I love anything to do with CBT except castration. Impact Play: Anything that will leave a mark, you get the drift, I hope.
When forming a potential long-term relationship with a submissive, which is what I am seeking along with friends, I like to be able to meet for coffee in a place that is not busy to get a feel of what that person is like outside of a Private/BDSM setting.
A little bit about the things I like to do:
I enjoy having My breakfast made while I wake up with a coffee. I like wearing a lovely dress and driving around to look at Christmas lights. I also want to go to a quiet restaurant and have open conversations full of laughter. I love combing the beach for glass, hiking to the top of a mountain, walking in the snow, and kayaking/canoeing on a river/lake, all with My submissive in tow, sometimes literally depending on the location, setting, and privacy.
I firmly believe in the following terms
[B]SSC-Safe, Sane, Consensual always comes 1st[/B]
Beyond that
PRICK-Personal Responsibility In Consensual Kink
RACK -Risk Associated Consensual Kink
Some other non-BDSM Things I love or love to do
COFFEE-The regular kind, not that flavored stuff
bird watching
Dancing in the dark
Gardening
Fishing - except ice fishing
Looking for rocks- Pretty much any rock.
Riding in drift cars on race tracks or anywhere *wink*
When you write Me:
Use My name.
Being Interested in My vanilla kinks is a sign you want more than just a kink dynamic.
Please do not treat Me like a kink dispenser.
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My Ideal Person:
I seek a reliable submissive for various hours of serving to do the following things:
1. domestic Service.
2. yard work and handyman help
3. running errands with Me
5. walking with Me
6. potential Ownership
I seek someone who is local which means local not over an hour away
I have a little bit of a dog allergy (short haired and well bathed not quite as much) so not having a dog is a plus.
Some of the questions I prefer to talk about in person, seeing facial expressions and body language is important. Also go back to the top and re-read about kinks.
Thank you for reading this,
Have a wicked good day!
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