An ex girlfriend of mine introduced me to some aspects of bdsm and have been mildly hooked ever since. Exploring this within my marriage (to someone else) isn’t really feasible so I’m tentatively looking at exploring this online instead. I particularly enjoy the verbal and psychological side of humiliation and degradation, including but not limited to, name calling, objectification, pet play, spanking, blackmail, bondage, object insertion, anything anal related, fantasy non-consent etc. Appreciate a high degree of trust and respect actually required to engage in any of this stuff - there is some irony here in that in real life I’m a highly respectful, polite, pro-feminist sort. If both parties agree to suspend those common decency type rules though then I would love to engage and indulge this other side to me.
“The only part of the conduct of anyone, for which he is amenable to society, is that which concerns others. In the part which merely concerns himself, his independence is, of right, absolute. Over himself, over his own body and mind, the individual is sovereign" (JSM, On Liberty) - which I will twist out of context to mean if it's between consenting adults (even if pretending it ain't so) and it's legal then it's nobody's business but my own what kinks and depravity I engage in.
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