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flashmarker  
Kinky artist, college grad., military retired looking, willing, long term preferred
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Member Since: March 18, 2002

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Information:
Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   March 23, 1965
(59 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   santa fe, New Mexico, United States
Relocate?:   Maybe/Yes
Height:   6 ft 0 in / 182-185 cm
Body Type:   Average
Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   BA/BS (4 years college)
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Bi-sexual
Speaks:   English, Spanish, FineArtHistory/sociology
Hair Color:   Other Hair Color
Hair Length :   Short
Eye Color :   Brown
Glasses or Contacts :   None


LifeStyle
Activities Enjoyed:   Prefer not to say
I think about ALT lifestyle:   All the time
Role:   Switch
Level of Experience:   Whole adult life
Dress:   Casual
Social Orientation :   Extreme Liberal
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Average

Personal
Facial Hair: None
Body Hair: Hairy
Body Decorations : Body Piercings; Tattoo(s)
Male Endowment: Average/
Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Marital Status: Divorced
Have Children: No
Want Children : Maybe
Occupation: JackofAllSlaves
Religion: Alternative

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59 year old Man in santa fe, New Mexico, United States Looking For: Women, Couples (2 women) or Trans

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Experienced as both a sub and dom. both in my personal life, and priorly , some part time as a professional in both roles. Looking for a relationship based on mutual compatibility, age, race,gender, etc-are not as important as a mutually kinky,supportive relationship with similar interests, both inside and outside the bedroom. Also- re-location is not out of the question for me, if mutual compatiblity has been established through meetings and continued correspondence. This is real for me and i will be back in perfect "shape" by this spring.I am financially secure enough to do artwork full time and still contribute financially to such a relationship. RECENT UPDATE#1--1-21-2015-- past two play partners, did not work out, one had substance abuse issues, the other had other un-resolvable issues. RECENT UPDATE #2-- Currently corresponding with an unexpected, possible permanent partner, soul mate, who is so dynamic, talented and lovely I would dedicate the rest of my life for her. Time will tell, if so, i will give up everything for her, give her everything that is mine, give her my faithful loyalty, the rest of my time, will be hers in the form of my eternal efforts. THIRD ONGOING UPDATE- In the process of mentoring, educating a New Mistress develop into the Goddess of her actual potential. We are non-sexual play partners, and we play well with others. But I am still looking for something more permanent with the right Mistress, Trans, Switch, bi-couple, or maybe my friends and I here will just have to start our own poly house hold in My Art warehouse/ playspace in Santa fe. I am seeking a committed Long Term Relationship. A woman recently asked me, what is my favorite body type for a woman. Age, body-type, race, religion, and these other type factors of little importance, A Genuine partner/partners who believe in a progressive positive relationship of committed loyal cohesive Soul-mates is important, common interests-beyond this site, communication is key, understanding goals, wants,needs of one and other, are all very important! "Alternative/BDSM and/or LGBT" types of relationships are always stronger unions because of the higher dedication involved in such an atypical union. Deeper emotional bonds,overcoming societal stigmas- need a higher level of effort to overcome and achieve such a beautiful human union. I always work hard for my significant others, Very Loyal, attentive, honest, disease free, no hard drugs, but maybe a little green once in a while. or one beer, after 8 hard long days of work. I am a Very flexible , artist type, like all types of music... Experienced in alt.relationships,traveled a bit, lived the "BigApple" City life, or the rural setting, the coasts. Mutual respect the first thing on my list. For real , not into games, this is a real lifestyle for me. decorative painting, murals, portraits, cleaning, AND NOT A Free loader!! Friends say i look at things differently than most...(Have a large gauge "prince albert"penis pierced with large ring. Willing to switch or try new things, depending on the right person's wishes. I am Financially secure but not rich. Have a retirement.(military-USMC/USN) college graduate. published. Do car repairs. Do everything as Do It Yourself, repairs, renovations utilizing manuals, publications , the library to enhance and improve life. [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
Intelligence, experience, maybe creative or library type,very sure of herself type of person. Very possibly looking (or locking into)a full time commitment-They are very real, looks are not important to me, personality, intelligence, and compatibility are definately important!
Are there any intellectual , eccentric alt.-lifestyle people left out there ?
i still want to find one Dom Woman to serve for rest of time. I am very loyal, hard worker, love receiving whippings,torture, it makes me high, and I work harder for my mistress, or a Bi couple or a Trans--!! Very skilled and being dom to other subs for my mistress.


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