In my career I lead others, am normally in charge, and I enjoy it. But I have learned that I need the balance of a strong Dom/Master over my personal/intimate life. I have only recently decided that i am ready to consider a 24/7 LTR. I have explored my kinks and my submission and I know I do not want a strictly vanilla relationship - and I don't want a strictly "D/s in the bedroom only" one either. I want what Anais Nin talks about in this quote:
"I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don't mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don't mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding."
The areas that are a priority for me are: physical health (I'm not athletic by any means, but I exercise and eat right); my adult ; my business; learning/intellectual stimulation (I love to learn new things); finding my Dom/Master.
If you really want to get to know me, read my blog posts before you contact me.
If you are married, partnered or looking to add to a poly household, please do not contact me.
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My Ideal Person:
In truth, what I am looking for is more properly defined by WHO I am looking for. I want a Dom or Master Who is intelligent, witty, and believes in excellence (knowing perfection is an illusion). He must be Someone I feel I can look up to and trust to make better decisions than I can, Who has learned to control self and therefore is worthy to control me. I've put it this way - I want a King worthy of a prostrate queen, Who will help push me to be my best self. I have had to spend most of my life protecting my girl, my submissive self, because I was with someone who was not a King, a true Dom/Master, and I had to be the strong one, the decision maker, the disciplined one - I want to be able to be my true self. So yes, I have very high standards & expectations. And I don't apologize for it. As heartbreaking as the thought is, I would rather be alone than settle. I still believe the fairytale exists (even if it is Anne Rice's Sleeping Beauty version).
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